Triggers and Urges
Hi I am dealing with childhood trauma and sexual abuse also sex addiction. I need someone to talk to about my issues. My triggers are very touchy and I will give into my urges quickly.
@littleGrapes3552
Hi there, I know the trouble of finding a listener who is comfortable talking about these topics. It can be really tough building the appropriate knowledge base and boundaries to do so. Sexuality can feel so confusing after sexual abuse. There is a lot of pairing of pleasure with pain or pleasure with shame. The emotions and urges can all become very muddled, which can make the distress and confusion worse.
Feel free to PM me if you would like to set of a time for a 1-1, otherwise we can keep talking here. The forums are a great place because there is a lot of validation from extra sources and it shows how not alone we are in our struggles.
@littleGrapes3552
Hello littleGrapes3552, sorry to hear that you went through all that.
I think it could be of help to choose a listener HERE by choosing the topic you need to talk about, there is both the 'sexual health' and the 'PTSD/Trauma' option to select.
Wish you to find soon the support you deserve, take care!
@LoveMyRotty
Thank You !!
@littleGrapes3552
You are welcome!
Happy coming holidays to you 
@littleGrapes3552 How you're now
@limeGrapes5454
I am fine thanks, and you?
@littleGrapes3552 I'm in a vey depressed mood of the, sexuali. Abuse I had in my teenage.
Hello, Littlegrapes.
I am sorry you are going through this. I can relate and I understand.
When you are talking about urges, what do you mean by that. What happens when you give into the "urges"?
PS You can PM me if you would like to talk about this topic.
Hey pls i need help too
Prayers