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Hoxenos

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Number of ratings67 Number of reviews33 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceJan 8, 2016 Last activeover 6 months ago GenderFemale PathStep 150 People helped139 Chats1,166 Group support chats260 Listener group chats33 Forum posts778 Forum upvotes1,718

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Hello and welcome to my profile.

My Trauma Discussions:

Tuesday 5pm EST

Information for Members:

My history is in sexual child abuse, depression, and various other anxiety problems. I've also dealt with resolving family, relationship, and financial problems, mostly as a fallout of the abuse I suffered. Being a tough subject, no chat topics are off limits to me, but if you are trying to use 7cups as a dating site, I don't have time for you. I am here to help trauma survivors and others who need emotional support, and I request that you respect that. I am planning to become a therapist for CSA survivors, and so listening here on 7cups to my fellow survivors is my first step on that road.

If I am set to online, feel free to message. If I am set to busy, I am most likely already chatting with someone and will either message you after I'm finished or schedule another time with you. If I am offline, then I am either doing Trauma Community business and may schedule a time for us to talk, or I am not on my computer and will schedule with you when I can.

If you see I am offline but we set up that time/day to talk please message me anyway. Setting myself to online means I'll get new requests so if I'm offline I am always open to people I have already spoken to, I just can't accept new chats.

I check 7cups almost every day so I should get back to you within 24 hours to set up a time to talk. Every time one of us breaks the silence, we are winning against our perpetrators. Thank you for reaching out; You are stronger than you know.

Recent forum posts

Trauma Support Community Check In: Thursday-Friday 11-12 February 2021

Trauma Support / by Hoxenos

February 13th, 2021

...See more Hi Everyone, Short Check in today :) How are things going for you today? What is one thing you feel acomplished about this week? What is something you are looking forward to in the next couple days? Member taglist: @adaptableLake3534 @adventurousBranch3786 @AstronomySkies @AveryLove @BeenAKiwi @BillyJoeBobb @blueScarf9326 @BrokenDreamsPalace @CaptainTrev @CaringBrit @clare7199 @Colorfulcatsofhope @CoolBeans29 @crimsonLime6525 @crxxtvfl0w @depressedsatellite1452 @DinaElwy @emylly @Feathersfall @FigureskatingEquestrian @Fireskye13 @Fleggles @Gagaintheroom @gentleLand5245 @goldenSpruce1512 @Grandmaof10 @gregariousBeing5071 @hillsideblues @honestpanda81 @HonestWarrior6624 @HopeNChayil @HumanPersonThingy @Hydrangea03 @InfinityandBeyond23 @Itisbailey @jr50 @jupitermatilde @Kekesea11 @Kickiree @Kimmkimm @LightofWorld @Lilly28 @lovehummingbirdsCindy @LovelyOrangeJuice @lowkeyem1001 @Lubo123 @maya6548 @Mellietronx @mkaitx @mytwistedsoul @navyMango2804 @neatBlueberry3608 @NevaehRose @Nolanhm @nonethewiser @NoneTheWiser @notmyselftoday @npos25 @oceancruiser48 @OffDutySeraph @OneWithSugar @ottersngiggles @pencilmarks @PinkestOctopus @purpleWheel873 @rainbow3140 @Randomperson453 @ReallyRuth @Rebekahwriter13 @Redhawk6547 @redmark @Rosa9570 @SarahAlaina15 @scarletPear1945 @sensitiveShade5337 @shiningDay80 @Silverviolets @sleepingd0gg0 @SnippyHam @SoulSupporter102 @stickercollection @Summer899 @SynSavory @Taylorz27 @tealOak8933 @The0Vetoed0System @TheFisherKing @ThreadbareThinker @TransparentPuzzle @Turtlegrrrl8 @u1146 @Understandingempath @UndomesticGoddess @WarriorHeartsSystem @weepingwillow5489 @Worrior22Warrior @Writersworld To be added/removed from the taglist, please see THIS THREAD [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaticExperiencesCommunity_60/TraumaSupportCommunityTeam_443/TraumaSupportAutomatedTaglist_219256/].

Trauma Support Community Check-in: Thursday-Friday, 4-5 February 2021

Trauma Support / by Hoxenos

February 8th, 2021

...See more Hello all, How is the day treating you so far? Today I'd like to talk about basics. Sometimes in trauma recovery, we get tunnelvisioned on the more complex processes like dissociation and panic. We sometimes end up neglecting the basics of healthy living in general that give us the foundation of strength we need to keep fighting. What are the basics? Also known as the physical dimension of self-care. Eating healthy, drinking enough fluids, getting enough sleep, exercising regularly, taking care of hygiene. How does neglecting any of these for a week make you feel? Some of them, even a day of neglect can make the next day harder. I find that when I'm in a really big dip in mood, sometimes focusing on one of these basics (and literally ignoring all other responsibilities) is the first step out. I have found that neglecting these is setting up our other recovery goals for failure. I know that some days it's really really hard to brush my teeth or make sure I eat. So some days I make sure to praise myself for doing any one of these things, because they are SO important for our health and recoveries. Another reason doing basics check ins is important, is sometimes we don't notice they're slipping. Like man I've been so moody lately... but yeah I've had 4 hours of sleep the last few nights and have only eaten junk food. Sometimes there is a very simple reason and a simple fix for things, when we take it one issue at a time. Doing these check ins are also important because they can warn about incoming spirals that you may have missed the signs for. If I'm neglecting any of these, I can be certain that a dip is coming. It warns me to check my stress levels and figure out what's going on. And focusing on fixing the basics can help jump start and bypass a potential spiral because focusing on basics with a one step at a time attitude can reduce overwhelm feelings. It is ok to focus on basics for a day, a week, a month. It is ok to focus on you. How do you feel about each of your basics this week? How do you feel when you neglect any of these basics? Is neglecting basics a warning sign for you? What is one (small) thing you can do today to give your basics the focus they deserve? Member taglist: @adaptableLake3534 @adventurousBranch3786 @AstronomySkies @AveryLove @BeenAKiwi @BillyJoeBobb @blueScarf9326 @BrokenDreamsPalace @CaptainTrev @CaringBrit @clare7199 @Colorfulcatsofhope @CoolBeans29 @crimsonLime6525 @crxxtvfl0w @depressedsatellite1452 @DinaElwy @emylly @Feathersfall @FigureskatingEquestrian @Fireskye13 @Fleggles @Gagaintheroom @gentleLand5245 @goldenSpruce1512 @Grandmaof10 @gregariousBeing5071 @hillsideblues @honestpanda81 @HonestWarrior6624 @HopeNChayil @HumanPersonThingy @Hydrangea03 @InfinityandBeyond23 @Itisbailey @jr50 @jupitermatilde @Kekesea11 @Kickiree @Kimmkimm @LightofWorld @Lilly28 @lovehummingbirdsCindy @LovelyOrangeJuice @lowkeyem1001 @Lubo123 @maya6548 @Mellietronx @mkaitx @mytwistedsoul @navyMango2804 @neatBlueberry3608 @NevaehRose @Nolanhm @nonethewiser @NoneTheWiser @notmyselftoday @npos25 @oceancruiser48 @OffDutySeraph @OneWithSugar @ottersngiggles @pencilmarks @PinkestOctopus @rainbow3140 @Randomperson453 @ReallyRuth @Rebekahwriter13 @Redhawk6547 @redmark @Rosa9570 @SarahAlaina15 @scarletPear1945 @sensitiveShade5337 @shiningDay80 @Silverviolets @sleepingd0gg0 @SnippyHam @SoulSupporter102 @stickercollection @Summer899 @SynSavory @Taylorz27 @tealOak8933 @The0Vetoed0System @TheFisherKing @ThreadbareThinker @TransparentPuzzle @Turtlegrrrl8 @u1146 @Understandingempath @UndomesticGoddess @WarriorHeartsSystem @weepingwillow5489 @Worrior22Warrior @Writersworld To be added/removed from the taglist, please see THIS THREAD [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaticExperiencesCommunity_60/TraumaSupportCommunityTeam_443/TraumaSupportAutomatedTaglist_219256/].

Trauma Support Community Check-in: Thursday-Friday, 28-29 January 2021

Trauma Support / by Hoxenos

January 30th, 2021

...See more Hello everyone! How are you feeling today? Today I'd like us to practise some affirmations! Feel free to post your favourite affirmations, or follow some of the tips here for making new affirmations. What is an affirmation? In this context, affirmations are sentences designed to support and encourage ourselves. They are positive messages. In healing from trauma, affirmations are especially powerful because often we do the opposite of affirmations all the time unconsciously (the opposite being discouraging comments towards ourselves) and this repetition makes us think very negatively about ourselves. To counteract this, we must think positive things over and over. The repetition is what makes them feel true. So it's something we must do consciously, repeatedly, and no matter what our mood is. What does this sound like??? It sounds like habit building or practising to me! Affirmations are a skill like any other that we must practise, work up to, and maintain. So tips on designing affirmations that work for you. One idea is starting with something true and real. What do you like about yourself? Your laugh? Your eyes? A skill you have? Your kindness towards others? A personality trait? Pick something to focus on and just re-affirm it. "I am so funny" or "I have beautiful eyes" or "I remember song lyrics SO easily." Some other common affirmations are "I'm safe", "It wasn't my fault", "I am worthy of respect", "I am allowed to say no", "I am strong". Pick an affirmation that is something you want to learn to feel about yourself. For me it was things like "You are allowed to feel angry" and "So what if this thing isn't hard for other people, it is hard for me and I'm doing it anyway, I am awesome". Another tip is to use these affirmations while looking in the mirror, to make it more real. Some people also write out affirmations and put them all over the place. It's nice to go over to the fridge and see a "You're beautiful!" every morning. We deserve to think these things about ourselves, and change comes from within through practise. Ending with a classic, To be added/removed from the taglist, please see THIS THREAD [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaticExperiencesCommunity_60/TraumaSupportCommunityTeam_443/TraumaSupportAutomatedTaglist_219256/]. @adaptableLake3534 @adventurousBranch3786 @AstronomySkies @AveryLove @BeenAKiwi @BillyJoeBobb @blueScarf9326 @BrokenDreamsPalace @CaptainTrev @CaringBrit @clare7199 @Colorfulcatsofhope @CoolBeans29 @crimsonLime6525 @crxxtvfl0w @depressedsatellite1452 @DinaElwy @emylly @Feathersfall @FigureskatingEquestrian @Fireskye13 @Fleggles @Gagaintheroom @gentleLand5245 @goldenSpruce1512 @Grandmaof10 @gregariousBeing5071 @hillsideblues @honestpanda81 @HonestWarrior6624 @HopeNChayil @HumanPersonThingy @Hydrangea03 @InfinityandBeyond23 @Itisbailey @jr50 @jupitermatilde @Kekesea11 @Kickiree @Kimmkimm @LightofWorld @Lilly28 @lovehummingbirdsCindy @LovelyOrangeJuice @lowkeyem1001 @Lubo123 @maya6548 @Mellietronx @mkaitx @mytwistedsoul @navyMango2804 @neatBlueberry3608 @NevaehRose @Nolanhm @nonethewiser @NoneTheWiser @notmyselftoday @npos25 @oceancruiser48 @OffDutySeraph @OneWithSugar @ottersngiggles @pencilmarks @PinkestOctopus @rainbow3140 @Randomperson453 @ReallyRuth @Rebekahwriter13 @Redhawk6547 @redmark @Rosa9570 @SarahAlaina15 @scarletPear1945 @sensitiveShade5337 @shiningDay80 @Silverviolets @sleepingd0gg0 @SnippyHam @SoulSupporter102 @stickercollection @Summer899 @SynSavory @Taylorz27 @tealOak8933 @The0Vetoed0System @TheFisherKing @ThreadbareThinker @TransparentPuzzle @Turtlegrrrl8 @u1146 @Understandingempath @UndomesticGoddess @WarriorHeartsSystem @weepingwillow5489 @Worrior22Warrior @Writersworld

Trauma Support Community Check In: Thursday-Friday 14-15 January 2021

Trauma Support / by Hoxenos

January 19th, 2021

...See more Hello Friends. How is everyone's day going? What is a challenge you have to face and your plan to face it? Today I would like to talk about avoidance. Avoidance is what we do to keep ourselves safe, we avoid situations or people that make us scared or triggered. Avoidance is a tricky subject because it has some elements in common with boundaries and limits but also has a a negative side. Avoiding something repeatedly makes the fear of that thing stronger, more debilitating. This is why some trauma survivors end up generalizing their fear to much more than the initial situation that caused the trauma. Not only do we not want to relive what happened, but we don't want to experience anything CLOSE to our trauma. Before we know it we haven't gone outside in a year. Do you feel that avoidance is healthy? When could it be unhealthy? Is there anything you would like to work on avoiding less? What are some strategies you use to overcome avoidance? Some strategies I use are: Taking care of my appearance gives me an extra boost of confidence if I'm scared specifically of social or outside things, chipping away at a task one minute or one small part at a time helps a task feel more do-able, planning a self care activity for after I do the thing I need to do, affirmations in the mirror to counter the negative or irrational thoughts with logic. To be added/removed from the taglist, please see THIS THREAD [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaticExperiencesCommunity_60/TraumaSupportCommunityTeam_443/TraumaSupportAutomatedTaglist_219256/]. @adaptableLake3534 @adventurousBranch3786 @AstronomySkies @AveryLove @BeenAKiwi @BillyJoeBobb @blueScarf9326 @BrokenDreamsPalace @CaptainTrev @CaringBrit @clare7199 @Colorfulcatsofhope @CoolBeans29 @crimsonLime6525 @crxxtvfl0w @depressedsatellite1452 @DinaElwy @emylly @Feathersfall @FigureskatingEquestrian @Fireskye13 @Fleggles @Gagaintheroom @gentleLand5245 @goldenSpruce1512 @Grandmaof10 @gregariousBeing5071 @hillsideblues @honestpanda81 @HonestWarrior6624 @HopeNChayil @HumanPersonThingy @Hydrangea03 @InfinityandBeyond23 @Itisbailey @jr50 @jupitermatilde @Kekesea11 @Kickiree @Kimmkimm @LightofWorld @Lilly28 @lovehummingbirdsCindy @LovelyOrangeJuice @lowkeyem1001 @Lubo123 @maya6548 @Mellietronx @mkaitx @mytwistedsoul @navyMango2804 @neatBlueberry3608 @NevaehRose @Nolanhm @nonethewiser @NoneTheWiser @notmyselftoday @npos25 @oceancruiser48 @OffDutySeraph @OneWithSugar @ottersngiggles @pencilmarks @PinkestOctopus @rainbow3140 @Randomperson453 @ReallyRuth @Rebekahwriter13 @Redhawk6547 @redmark @Rosa9570 @SarahAlaina15 @scarletPear1945 @sensitiveShade5337 @shiningDay80 @Silverviolets @sleepingd0gg0 @SnippyHam @SoulSupporter102 @spectacularSunrise7824 @stickercollection @Summer899 @SynSavory @Taylorz27 @tealOak8933 @The0Vetoed0System @TheFisherKing @ThreadbareThinker @TransparentPuzzle @Turtlegrrrl8 @u1146 @Understandingempath @UndomesticGoddess @WarriorHeartsSystem @weepingwillow5489 @Worrior22Warrior @Writersworld

Trauma Support Community Check In: Thursday-Friday 24-25 December

Trauma Support / by Hoxenos

December 24th, 2020

...See more Hello all, happy holidays to those who participate in festivities at this time of year. I've been thinking a lot lately about the holiday season. For me it used to be a very terrible time full of re-traumatization through family dysfunction and various other un-fun things. I've been thinking lately of the idea of new tradition, new beginnings, and how to rebrand the holidays. Perhaps this means new types of activities like crafts. Maybe it means having a core group of people that you spend time with. Maybe it means getting back in touch with holiday cheer. Maybe it means getting yourself a present. Maybe it means re-evaluating your relationship with food and cooking. Maybe it means practising gratitude, joy, and charity. Maybe it means singing your favourite holiday tunes in the face of haters, or rewatching holiday specials from when we were kids and maybe allowing ourselves to feel childish for a day. Maybe it means playing in the snow and taking in nature's beauty. How do you feel toward the holiday season in your present state or how have you felt in the past? Is the idea of rebranding the holidays interesting to you? In what way would you like to (or have you) "reclaim" the holiday season, what part would be the most beneficial to you? For me, I always loved the idea of giving, and having people who I trusted to be around. Unfortunately for many years I never had that. I am now in the process of trying to make new traditions for myself, trying to create new memories, and trying to reconnect with the idea of joy and wonder that this time is supposed to bring. Also, chocolate is amazing at this time of year. Gotta look for them positives even when everything else is horrible. If you would like to skip the holiday talk today, for sure, feel free to share how you're feeling today and check in like normal <3 To be added/removed from the taglist, please see THIS THREAD [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaticExperiencesCommunity_60/TraumaSupportCommunityTeam_443/TraumaSupportAutomatedTaglist_219256/]. @adaptableLake3534 @adventurousBranch3786 @AstronomySkies @AveryLove @BeenAKiwi @BillyJoeBobb @blueScarf9326 @BrokenDreamsPalace @CaptainTrev @CaringBrit @clare7199 @Colorfulcatsofhope @CoolBeans29 @crimsonLime6525 @crxxtvfl0w @depressedsatellite1452 @DinaElwy @emylly @Feathersfall @FigureskatingEquestrian @Fireskye13 @Fleggles @Gagaintheroom @gentleLand5245 @goldenSpruce1512 @Grandmaof10 @gregariousBeing5071 @hillsideblues @honestpanda81 @HonestWarrior6624 @HopeNChayil @HumanPersonThingy @Hydrangea03 @InfinityandBeyond23 @Itisbailey @jr50 @jupitermatilde @Kekesea11 @Kickiree @Kimmkimm @LightofWorld @Lilly28 @lovehummingbirdsCindy @LovelyOrangeJuice @lowkeyem1001 @Lubo123 @maya6548 @Mellietronx @mkaitx @mytwistedsoul @navyMango2804 @neatBlueberry3608 @NevaehRose @Nolanhm @nonethewiser @NoneTheWiser @notmyselftoday @npos25 @oceancruiser48 @OffDutySeraph @ottersngiggles @pencilmarks @PinkestOctopus @rainbow3140 @Randomperson453 @ReallyRuth @Rebekahwriter13 @Redhawk6547 @redmark @Rosa9570 @SarahAlaina15 @scarletPear1945 @sensitiveShade5337 @shiningDay80 @Silverviolets @sleepingd0gg0 @SnippyHam @SoulSupporter102 @spectacularSunrise7824 @stickercollection @Summer899 @SynSavory @Taylorz27 @tealOak8933 @The0Vetoed0System @ThreadbareThinker @TransparentPuzzle @Turtlegrrrl8 @u1146 @Understandingempath @UndomesticGoddess @WarriorHeartsSystem @weepingwillow5489 @Worrior22Warrior @Writersworld

Healthy Boundaries during a sex/porn addiction chat

Addiction Support / by Hoxenos

April 7th, 2021

...See more Hi all, I have seen a few posts about the difficulty in finding a listener to help with sex or porn addictions. I wanted to write a helpful post for those listeners who are interested in learning how to listen and support those with sex addiction, and for members who are searching for a listener to help to overcome the reluctance listeners may have. Information for listeners Sex and porn addiction can feel intimidating for listeners for a lot of reasons. There are some members who use 7cups to flirt and try to start relationships, and they often start their chats by talking about either sexual dysfunction or addiction, or about loneliness. Sometimes this causes listeners to write off all members who discuss anything sexual because they are assuming that this is one of "those" chats. The key to deal with this isn't necessarily to say you don't take any chats of any sexual nature, the fact is that sexual problems come up in MANY mental illnesses, and to write it off completely I don't think is necessarily most listener's goal. Generally, listeners are just trying to stay safe. To help with this, you can put in your bio that you are not using 7cups as a dating site, and in your intro message to a member, you can talk about your boundaries about sexual chats. Specifically you can say that you will not discuss anything about YOUR sexuality or behaviour, because this chat is not about you. I find that this dissuades those trying to flirt with me. Problems with sexual dysfunction or addiction can be the exact same as chats about any distressing topic, it really requires the listener to create a safe, professional, and non-judgemental space for the member to talk, same as you would for any issue. It is ok to discuss boundaries before the chat begins, perhaps with certain words that are off limits, or certain questions. It is ok to keep a dialogue open about how both of you are coping with the conversation. It is ok to not understand or connect with something a member is saying. Ask questions just like you would in any chat. People with sexual addictions normally have a lot of shame and guilt, so refusing all of these members based on a few bad experiences is not fair to them and can be seen as actually damaging because they're being rejected yet again. As a listener you are completely entitled to have some topics you don't feel comfortable talking about, I am only encouraging you to challenge yourself to actually have one of these chats to see they are really no different from your other chats and it is your own bias making you unable to take these chats. Challenge your bias, look at it like any other addiction. Obviously please don't push yourself if you're sure you will be triggered. I am simply advocating on behalf of a group that needs more help than they can find because of an unfair bias. Information for Members To overcome some of this listener bias about sex and porn addiction, try your best to remain as transparent and professional as you can. The reason listeners balk at these chats is because a lot of them in the past have resulted in being flirted with and harassed, ultimately causing them to block members. As a listener, this is VERY upsetting. No one wants to block a member and they really only do so to protect themselves. Create some agreements before you get into the nitty-gritty of your chat. Be clear about your triggers and what you actually want to get out of the chat. If you make it clear that this is a support chat like any other, it may be easier for the listener to overcome their worry about the content. Your addiction is like any other, but sex and porn addictions are especially stigmatized because of sex being a "normal" human thing to do, it is difficult for most people to understand, and people may have a bias about it not being real, and being simply an impulse control issue. If a listener is unable to do the chat, please don't take it personally. I know it's tough and frustrating, but this is not about you, it is either their past experiences tainting their ability to help you or they are unfit to take this topic. There is always a chance that they literally have had sexual trauma, and talking to people about a sexual issue may be too painful for them, which is very fair. At the end of the day, your recovery is your responsibility. Try your best to set your listener up for success by creating a professional space, keep communication open and be honest with each other about your limits. We can only build this together, listeners and members working together to be respecful and put in the effort to keep each other safe. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Do you have anything you would add to either section? I am not claiming to be an expert, but only soemone who has seen a decent amount of both sides of this issue. Feel free to add any tips for setting members and lsiteners up for success in a sex/porn addiction chat.

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Really nice and helpful.Thank you so much.Really open minded and friendly listener !

Really great at helping me understand myself and my problems and able to thoughtfully respond to everything I said. I 100% recommend reaching out.

Amazing listener

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Very professional, let me vent and gave good input. She is very knowledgeable in her field of study. Can't recommend Highly enough!

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Hoxenos is the most amazing listener. She’s a deep thinker, offers advice and really cares! Thumbs up for Hoxenos!

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Listens to everything you have to say, very caring

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They seem very caring and understanding no judgment which is rare nowadays I feel very comfortable talking to them

Such a good listener, was able to relate to some of my issues and offer insight I never seen before. One of the best people I've had the pleasure to meet on this site

She's cool. And nice. And polite.

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Really helpful listener, helped me realize that I can pull through and forget about my past trauma, and we talked about video games, and Degrassi high

They're great. Amazing listener.

You helped me more than I can begin to put into words. Thank you so much.

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So incredible, they made me feel so much better about my trauma situation.

They are so perfect. And super nice. They are like the best person I have ever spoke to. Very calm and patient and will give you a best solution to things you are going through. I love this person.

Was very helpful and had some awesome ideas on how to work on my problem. Look forward to speaking with them more in the future!

this listener is very nice and empathetic and really seemed to care and asked just the right questions to help me figure things out. felt a lot better after talking. thanks so much again

She is absolutely the best , I felt so comfortable after I talked to her . She listened to me without being bother . She gave me the time to tell her all the things inside my heart without feeling burden .
I felt my problem is impossible to be solved but she gave me the hope . ❤
Thank you dear ^^ you listened to me as a friend ❤

Hoxenos was a very good listener!

I like how she takes time to chat with me. And if something isn't clear, at least she doesn't pretend she understands and asks questions. We seem to get along well, which I like. Keep up the good work!

Hoxenos was very good... helped me calm down and deal with things better. Validated how i was feeling, and gave me a couple tools to help for next time as well.

Sweet, insightful, and helpful listener.

It has been one of the best experiences I have had thus far. I really do genuinely feel better, after our chat. A lot was talked about and I feel I finally got somewhere.

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