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Triggers and Urges

littleGrapes3552 December 13th, 2020

Hi I am dealing with childhood trauma and sexual abuse also sex addiction. I need someone to talk to about my issues. My triggers are very touchy and I will give into my urges quickly.

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Hoxenos December 13th, 2020

@littleGrapes3552

Hi there, I know the trouble of finding a listener who is comfortable talking about these topics. It can be really tough building the appropriate knowledge base and boundaries to do so. Sexuality can feel so confusing after sexual abuse. There is a lot of pairing of pleasure with pain or pleasure with shame. The emotions and urges can all become very muddled, which can make the distress and confusion worse.

Feel free to PM me if you would like to set of a time for a 1-1, otherwise we can keep talking here. The forums are a great place because there is a lot of validation from extra sources and it shows how not alone we are in our struggles.

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Aditya56 December 14th, 2020

@Hoxenos Hello

Aditya56 December 14th, 2020

@Hoxenos can you help me?

littleGrapes3552 OP December 14th, 2020

@Hoxenos

Hi thank you for replying to me. I sent you a PM. I would rather talk 1 one 1. I would feel more comfortable that way. Have a great day!!

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MeaningfulSilence December 18th, 2020

@littleGrapes3552

Hello littleGrapes3552, sorry to hear that you went through all that.

I think it could be of help to choose a listener HERE by choosing the topic you need to talk about, there is both the 'sexual health' and the 'PTSD/Trauma' option to select.

Wish you to find soon the support you deserve, take care!

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littleGrapes3552 OP December 18th, 2020

@LoveMyRotty

Thank You !!

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MeaningfulSilence December 18th, 2020

@littleGrapes3552

You are welcome!

Happy coming holidays to you smiley

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littleGrapes3552 OP December 21st, 2020

@LoveMyRotty

Happy Holidays to you too!🙂

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limeGrapes5454 December 20th, 2020

@littleGrapes3552 How you're now

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littleGrapes3552 OP December 21st, 2020

@limeGrapes5454

I am fine thanks, and you?

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limeGrapes5454 January 7th, 2021

@littleGrapes3552 I'm in a vey depressed mood of the, sexuali. Abuse I had in my teenage.

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littleGrapes3552 OP January 23rd, 2021

Hanging in there. Struggling!!

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sunnyTurtle7874 December 21st, 2020

Hello, Littlegrapes.

I am sorry you are going through this. I can relate and I understand.

When you are talking about urges, what do you mean by that. What happens when you give into the "urges"?

PS You can PM me if you would like to talk about this topic.

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kindBalloon2474 January 21st, 2021

Hey pls i need help too

littleGrapes3552 OP January 23rd, 2021

@sunnyTurtle7874

Sexual urges. And I will act out in ways that I really don't want to post publicly.

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lizahey January 24th, 2021

Prayers