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Weekly Prompt #41: Are there any underlying beliefs or fears that fuel your anxiety?
by ASilentObserver
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December 12th
...See more Hello all and welcome back to another discussion,  A couple of weeks ago, we discussed what kind of behaviors anxiety has caused you to engage in. [https://www.7cups.com/forum/anxiety/General_2428/WeeklyPrompt40Whatkindofbehaviorsdoyouthinkanxietyhascausedyoutoengagein_336332/] Thank you to all who participated and shared your thoughts with us. I appreciate you all. I hope all who may read it find it relatable, too. If anyone hasn't shared them yet, please share them here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/anxiety/General_2428/WeeklyPrompt40Whatkindofbehaviorsdoyouthinkanxietyhascausedyoutoengagein_336332/], and I look forward to reading and discussing them with you.  This week's prompt:  Are there any underlying beliefs or fears that fuel your anxiety? There are often underlying beliefs and fears that fuel anxiety and these can be categorized into a few key areas like core beliefs, fears, negative thinking patterns, etc. Let's start to discuss and share these behaviors and I look forward to hearing your thoughts and experiences. Did you join us in the Anxiety Support Chat? It is available every Wednesday for the entire day. [https://www.7cups.com/connect/groupChatrooms.php]
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Conquering Anxiety: Panic Attacks and How to Tackle Them
by SoulfullyAButterfly
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December 10th
...See more Hey everyone, I’m excited to join the Conquering Anxiety series with a discussion on panic attacks. These attacks can be scary and feel overwhelming, but there are ways to manage them. What is a Panic Attack? A panic attack is a sudden surge of intense fear or discomfort that peaks within minutes. Physical symptoms like shortness of breath, chest tightness, heart palpitations, dizziness, or numbness can accompany it. These symptoms can be really frightening, but it's important to remember that they're not dangerous and will pass. How are Panic Attacks Different from Anxiety? Anxiety is a general feeling of worry or unease, often about future events. Panic attacks, on the other hand, are sudden and intense episodes of fear that come on strong and fast. People with anxiety disorders may experience panic attacks, but not everyone who has a panic attack has an anxiety disorder. Strategies for Managing Panic Attacks In the Moment: * Deep Breathing: Shallow breathing is common during panic attacks, but deep, slow breaths from your belly can help slow your heart rate and calm your body. Try inhaling for 4 seconds, holding for 7 seconds, and exhaling for 8 seconds. * Focus on Your Senses: Ground yourself in the present moment by focusing on what you see, hear, smell, taste, or touch. Notice five blue things in the room, count the sounds you can hear, or sip some cool water and describe the taste. * Positive Self-Talk: Remind yourself that this is a panic attack, it's temporary, and you'll get through it. Some people enjoy writing their own affirmations in advance. * Relaxation Techniques: Progressive muscle relaxation involves tensing and releasing different muscle groups, which can help ease tension. Practicing PMR regularly during calm periods can be very helpful for managing general anxiety and reducing muscle tension. This lower baseline tension can make you less susceptible to panic attacks. It is not recommended that you practice/apply PMR during periods of panic attacks or long-term anxiety as the body is already in a heightened state of arousal/tension during such states. General Strategies: * Learn Your Triggers: Identifying situations or thoughts that trigger your panic attacks can help you avoid them or prepare for them. A panic attack journal can help you look for common patterns that may be triggering. Some common triggers are stressful situations, social situations, or negative thoughts. * Challenge Negative Thoughts: When anxious thoughts arise, challenge them with evidence-based reasoning. For example, if you're worried about passing out in public, remind yourself that panic attacks, while uncomfortable, are not dangerous. Try evaluating the evidence that supports and is against the thoughts you are having. * Seek professional help: A therapist can teach you coping mechanisms and help you understand your anxiety. Actionable Activities: * Create a "Calm Kit": Assemble a collection of items that help you feel grounded and relaxed during a panic attack. This could include calming scents like lavender, a stress ball, pictures of loved ones, or a playlist of soothing music. Having this kit readily available can be a helpful reminder that you have tools to manage your anxiety. * Practice Visualization: Imagine yourself in a calm and peaceful place during times of low anxiety. This can create a mental refuge during a panic attack. * Develop Your Personal Panic Attack Plan: Personalize what you will do during a panic attack according to your needs. Discussion Questions: Members: 1. What are some of your experiences with panic attacks? 2. What coping mechanisms have worked well for you? Listeners: 1. Are there any resources you'd recommend for people who struggle with panic attacks? 2. How can you best support someone who is dealing with a panic attack? Remember, you're not alone in this. There is help available, and you can learn to manage your panic attacks.  This post is part of the Conquering Anxiety series, you can find all posts of the series here.  [https://www.7cups.com/forum/community/CommunitySpace_2590/ConqueringAnxietyMasterpostOngoingSeries_327724/] You can join or leave the tag list here. [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe4lpVXC3O_M5IFg4EGkFVJ5y3rj9re7Wq4bOhaVIGOvcRpAw/viewform] @exuberantBlackberry9105 @unassumingEyes @WeEarth @CordialDancer @YourCaringConfidant @daydreammemories @yellowPineapple3652 @BaklavaBaby @CalmRosebud @Gettingbettertoday @GregariousSky @mytwistedsoul @sincereZebra2546 @pamharley003 @Sugarapplefairy5 @orangish @NovaIsNB @Blahblah1805 @KateDoskocilova Note: We are looking for people who have worked on their anxiety management (progress counts, it's okay if your anxiety is not all the way managed yet) who are willing to share their experience to help others. Please message @Hope [https://www.7cups.com/@Hope]directly to contribute to a post in the series.
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Reminder✨️🌌
by daydreammemories
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December 4th
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Am I the only one who doesnt like Christmas?
by ladyofborders
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8 hours ago
...See more Same concept as last year, it just bothers me a little how people tend to celebrate Christmas with Christmas music or decorations (i dont know how differently to word this so im sorry if it seems like im repeating the same post from last year)
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self talk & feeling overwhelmed
by Kait
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10 hours ago
...See more sometimes my anxiety comes in the form of overwhelm. one technique that helps me manage my anxiety in a profound way is mindfulness of thoughts & reframing anxious thoughts using positive self talk.  here are a few examples of ways you can challenge your thoughts then they start to overwhelm you. does anyone else find this helpful? which one of these affirmations do your gravitate towards or stand out to you? 
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Anxiety Tics?
by 8Nongshim
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20 hours ago
...See more Anybody else experience something call Anxiety tics? I don't have tourettes but as of 2 years ago, I began experiencing these involuntary shoulder jerks. I had passed out in our family car, after spending the entire day walking through the heat for long hours and then standing waiting for a bus for about 4 hours. Eventually my body shut down when I got into our car. I was mumbling, short of breath, head dropping back, body weak. About a week or so after that, I was having a break down while in bed trying to sleep; I was restless, frustrated, couldn't feel, my emotions felt off, I felt empty. I cried out for my mother. She sensed that my depression was coming on. She came to lay with me and that's when the jerks began. Now this was 2 years ago. Since that night, I've been been experiencing it alot. It would happen once or twice very mildly, here and there, but later down that year when I began studying a new subject in prep for exams, it came on frequently. With the shoulder jerks, it pulls my head in too, so when the left shoulder goes up, my head flings left; as if something tugs them towards each other. My mother got worried thinking I was having seizures. I tried researching it but kept getting results for muscle spasms that was nowhere close to what I was experiencing. After exam, it came lesser and lesser. Got it probably once every few months. So I assumed that stress on the mind and body was the cause. But this year, its back more. It was creeping up. One or twice a week. Until last week it came on frequently. Harsh too. When it happens, my hand also flings out. It's like a freaking puppet strings is connecting my shoulder to my head and arms. Since I thought to be stress that time, I thinks it's that now. I'm studying a science subject and I think that no matter how much I try, the work is just not sticking. And exam is in May. So I think stress and anxiety is in works. I decided since it behaves like tics, that I search shoulder tics and there it was. It explained all that referred to me. It's called Anxiety Tics.
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Anxiety Anxiety Anxiety
by charmingButton18
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22 hours ago
...See more Lately as I have started to explore and research more about this condition I have come to know that it's not easy problem to deal with . People suffering from severe anxiety often lead a life in avoidance , they are not sure about what are their choices and may not be able to think through it . We need them to overcome their struggles and sadly we can only be there to support them , to love them and make them our presence fell . anxiety will be difficult. As I am still exploring various aspects of it , I am developing more sympathetical understanding of it . I hope I can be of use to someone in future.
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I'm happy to be traveling solo away from my country .
by diplomaticBirch7532
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1 day ago
...See more I am traveling in London England and I really have enjoyed my time here this far. I am originally from Toronto, I feel happy knowing that people in London aren't saying I'm ugly, or im a -6/10 like in Toronto. Now the people in Toronto are better than me because they've had multiple relationships and im 27 and im still a virgin and I messed up because I decided to focus on getting my bachelors and masters in Computer Science rather than focusing on dating
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Struggling today
by thoughtfulmomma
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Friday
...See more This past week has been hard for me. I’m struggling with my anxiety a lot. I’m struggling because I don’t have any control about what anyone else does and I’m finding it difficult to enjoy my life and do the things I want because I’m so busy worrying about everyone else and what they are doing and how it affects me. even though I understand what I am doing, and why I am doing it, I can’t stop doing it. I want to stop. I want to stop worrying. I want to enjoy my life and have fun and do the things that I want to do for me. But my anxiety and worry stops me, and I hate it.
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Cherry here. Nice to met ya. So it's another night of hyper indulged insomnia.
by loyalCherry3385
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Friday
...See more Idon't know what to do but my anxieties are getting a little better if I noise cancel with earphones and music. A little relaxing here and there after being burnt out for three weeks completely fine until I pulled a shoulder muscle or nerve on right side. Could use some words of encouragement to go to sleep or some empathic company to keep going through until tomorrow.
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Grief and Anxiety 🖤
by daydreammemories
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Friday
...See more The pain of losing someone you love isn't a weakness. It's a sign of how deeply you can care. Grief happens when love has nowhere else to go. It's the heart's way of remembering. Of holding on to connection, even after someone is gone.  It's messy, it's real, it's human. It's not about getting over the loss quickly, that's not how love works. It's about understanding that missing someone means you love them completely.  Real healing isn't about forgetting, it's about carrying their memory with you. Letting the love stay alive in a different way. It's about creating space for your feelings, understanding that sadness and love live side by side. We all experience loss differently. We all grieve in our own way and that's okay! We aren't broken by our pain. We are shaped by how deeply we can love. :) When was the last time you experienced grief, and how did it affect you?
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I’m too much
by djhmbtr
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Friday
...See more I don’t know how to stop feeling so much. It’s like anything anyone says I can take to heart in an instant. I’m really not good with criticism. It’s like I have to be perfect or I’m so mad at myself. My boyfriend tried to express that he wanted more time with me and feels as though I’m not as invested in him as I used to be. And although I mostly understood what he was trying to say and get I’ve had a lot happening lately, it’s like I snap and can’t be in the wrong. I don’t know how to fix this. Then I get so upset at myself and have a mental breakdown and feel crazy like I don’t even know what I’m saying anymore or how I got in that situation. I know I’m in the wrong but I can’t stop feeling like I need to be perfect or I’ll be mad at myself and think everyone else thinks the worst of me too because I do. It’s a constant battle. And I spend so much time trying to defend myself and arguing it that it hurts everyone else and then I realize what I’ve done in the moment from being so emotional I can’t control how I act. But then I get emotional after realizing what’s happened. I just wish I could stop being so hard on myself. Everything is a big thing to me and every little mistake is a big mistake in my head and I severely beat myself up for it. It’s the sole reason behind why I would self harm starting in middle school and still struggle on and off til this day. I don’t want to be this way anymore but I don’t know how to fix something that has been an issue for so long. I just wish I could turn my emotions off like I feel and think too much . Why am I like this??
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What’s going on with me?!
by willingChestnut7138
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Friday
...See more I feel so horrible right now. I want to cry so much and I don’t know why. my eyes are twitching I can feel the tears in my eyes trying to escape out and flow. But I am trying to stop them from flowing. Once before I wanted to cry but nothing came out, because my tears were all used up. I can’t even tell you why they were I can’t even remember that much. I don’t know what to do I’m not thinking of anything just repeating every sound I am hearing back into my head as usual.
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Anxious cuz self pity n need of company is hard:(
by livbinny
Last post
Thursday
...See more U know how u get anxiety from self pity since ur not okay n however that is, I know I can finally say putting myself first n do something for me or during meditation the compassion I was finally thought of - MYSELF whenever I reach out to ppl to this day only one thing in life shows- they don’t care the same I do or in deeper level i couldn’t hold onto any rope since it’s all temporary … it’s either bad luck in life, my own personality or sometjing in between since no, I’m not strong n I deserve same treatment for my stuff but ppl never give me, it’s easier for them to even assume oh well I’m strong I know my stuff doesn’t mean I don’t feel it anymore!! it’s so hard to befriend somebody cuz the comfort n interaction like being seen is my need but when ppl don’t give me back what I need or in such pattern or amount it’s like, I’m going such lengths when they don’t even care n can fade on me (ghosting)…. ofc, u end up bottling it again n again no matter what hobby, what meditation I do I still end up being in the same pain. never open door to anyone or help unless u know they would show something from their side but also, once I stop, they stop too… don’t even try there I’m telling you, it only shows their characters n how plain they all are… I would never done it but guess that’s just me… this is not just one time or one community, it’s multiple situations, circles, people that brought me to this stage!! tell me ppl, whats worth in this world anymore than yourself?
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Anxious of loneliessness
by livbinny
Last post
Thursday
...See more these times when u still find urself alone despite countless of efforts to fight for ppl, search, seek or chase. moral to 2025: don’t do it me…. or like me i feel alone w hole in my chest almost daily just suppressed self pity cuz it was don’t wanna be in pain but it still finds me :( no one by your side as true friend all I see is home, sometimes backyard n my fam no local friends not any friends actually (almost true) visit to my relatives only occasionally after u left imagination it feels so dull n empty like nothing left right? plus other stuff like declutterrin support cases for devices n other stuff that needs to be done n solved it all piled up very inconveniently but I’m solving I promise!!

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