the pain is in my heart foreverer, cannot change
@forcefulBirch2526 it hurts but time heals everything. I continue to love and be kind to everyone. World needs love 💕
Your heartbreak can make you stronger if you want to become stronger.... Living in despair and not moving on from past trauma is one way to make your life a living ***.... It is hard to trust other after heartbreak but you have to take chance and give chance to other
Can we talk again?
@forcefulBirch2526 my heartbreak is recent, hurts like ***, and makes you feel angry. Time will heal but in the now, it's made me weary of trusting anyone...especially since he made me feel that everything was ok one week, then the next week he's saying he wants to move on.
i ended in a psych ward and i get more aware about my bpd. it was extremely painful but i survived and even if i lost a good boy, i know he wasn’t good for me. now i’m working on my self and i’m ready to achive my goals.
sending u love xx.
hey, I just broke up with a bpd partner and it hurts so much. we were happy 2 hours before the breakup, he literally changes his minds so quick. but I hope he is ok cause I know how hard it is for him to live with bpd... I tried my best to understands him.
@forcefulBirch2526 My heart felt heavy. Everything felt like it was crashing down, and I still do. However, time will heal. Keep that in your minds and be patient. Be kind to yourself because things can get better. Your story ain't over yet! 🥰🥰
Well there was a lot of suffering but eventually calm and power...
@forcefulBirch2526 Heartbreaks have made me more cautious of getting close to anyone new, being on the defensive and protecting myself best I can.
High school sweethearts. Been together fifteen years. No kids. Married 5 years. She recently decided she was a lesbian and wants to “explore” that and said she never wants to see me again. She’s been nothing but hurtful through all of this.
@forcefulBirch2526 At first, I was distraught and my self-esteem took a major hit. It made me feel like I wasn't worthy of being loved. However, as the clouds of sadness drifted away with time, I began to see a better picture of life. I realised no matter how much I try, there'll always be someone whom I cannot impress. It made me embrace my true self; introverted personality.
With time, I learnt to forgive and my mindset matured in accepting both the pros and cons of relationships. At the end, I learnt breakups are a part of life like any other situation. If the other person isn't the right one, it's better to part our ways than to suffer together in a relationship that's not meant to be.
Give yourself time to heal from those painful emotions and move ahead in your life again. If I have to share my opinion, "Forgive and forget, life is short to hold grudges and spoil our own mood."