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forcefulBirch2526
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Friends
35 & Over Community / by forcefulBirch2526
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 Thursday
...See more In life you meet a lot of people where some of them makes you feel close to them, but for a short time. While i was small, I used to have lot of friends. We used to play all the time and we felt we were inseperarable. We used to wait for each other in the bus stop and we felt that this bond remains same forever. As I grew older, forever is just a myth . When my friends shifted their priorities , they began to replace our friendship. Today when we go to the same bus stop, we would behave like known strangers. Different time, different mindset and same place. It's not their fault. Some people come into our life for a limited time frame and leave us footprints deeply engraved in our heart. While some of them breaks our spirits and take a part of us when they leave. I remember as I grew older, when my close friends stop making time for our frindship, I would chase behind them for that familiarity, only to end up being a placeholder in their life. I remember crying all the time. Some of them hurted me at last knowing that i am the most sensitive and naive soul. One thing what our heart find difficult to accept is that " people change and its not in our control". You don't need to have lot of friends in your life. Even a friend who is utmost true and genuine to you matters a lot in today's world. You don't need to talk to them everyday. Their presence make you feel home .Today I am alone and lonely and today I want to share all my love and care to all my friends and family in this app. How was friendship mean to you?
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Heartbreak
35 & Over Community / by forcefulBirch2526
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 1 day ago
...See more How has your heartbreak 💔 changed your life
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How a broken woman falls in love
35 & Over Community / by forcefulBirch2526
Last post
 Tuesday
...See more When a woman actually falls in love, it takes time. Especially those woman who once had traumatic past. Just because you are chasing her doesn't mean she will fall in love with you. She will sit alone and think of her wounds. She might be so engaged with her work yet she will spend time observing you ,introspecting whether you are worth fighting for. To fall in love with a woman like her is to understand that to reach her heart, you have to climb the highest walls around her heart, to walk on the thorns and sometimes you might even drown in the waters of her emotional tears. Trust me ,she is fed up of lovebombing. She is fed up of continuous messages, words of appreciation, expensive gifts and your attraction. You cant earn her trust by showing your love like in disney movies or any other movies, shows or even books. As she grows up, she realise that trust is an expensive thing that needs to be earned.There might be amazing guys out there or people of her choice, yet when she truly loves you, nothing will stop her thinking of you. She might fail in expressing how she feels about you, but trust me, it takes time. She has to go through all her traumas, reopening her past wounds and might even go through a spiral of emotions. She might be surrounded with heartbreaks, and trust me, she might be pessimistic of yours too. Her heart is so delicate that has been stomped by the wrong souls in her life and sometimes she may act so distant and withdrawn to protect her heart from crushing. Even if you show your greatest love towards her, she still needs time to sew her scars in her heart because once she opens her heart again, you shall never question her love. The moment you set your foot on her heart, as she opens the door for you, you would see that behind her giganamous walls, are the set of treacherous obstacles that might make your feet bleed. Sometimes she might be withdrawn , too sensitive, sometimes angry, sometimes little smile or worse stays silent. For a sailor to reach the other side of the land, it takes a courage heart to maneuver the vessel to aim for what he truly wants . Once you reach her delicate heart after years and years of walking through her obstacles, trust me, that's when you truly earn her trust. She would have lots of love to give but trust me , with a little essence of observing you from afar. Just because she finally opens her soul doesn't mean she would stop prioritising from further hurt. Even when she falls in love with you gradually, like a water slowly absorbing though the intricate depths of soil, she would have also started arranging the thread and needle to sew her future scars because of what if. When she falls in love, she doesn't just falls. Her eyes are now well clear with all the tears that rejuvenates her eyes. She either rises in your love or rises to find herself with more self love . That's how I fall in love
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Relationship
35 & Over Community / by forcefulBirch2526
Last post
 Tuesday
...See more The relationship would be so beautiful if men sticks to the role of provider and protector serving masculine role and woman sticks to the role of feminine touch and nurturer, provided both have their own life and individuality. It doesn't mean one can control each other and supports inequality. Both must be equal, independent and contributing equally in relationship. It doesn't mean men can't express emotions and women must suppress emotions. Both must be there for each other in good and bad times. I have seen women taking up masculine role and men taking up feminine role, cnsidering their upbringing and experience . But i just dont know. Many won't support my point but I am just my pov. I respect other pov. I maybe right or wrong..I am into traditional relationship. I have seen my grandparents. 
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Depression
35 & Over Community / by forcefulBirch2526
Last post
 Monday
...See more Sometimes you wake up,tired,demotivated, only to find yourself waiting for the day to get over. You just don't want to talk to people. You just want to stay far away, so far away that they don't want to see you again. Sometimes you find yourself endlessly scrolling through phone or sometimes you just find yourself being alone and crying, only to wipe your tears and wear a mask and pretend that everything is alright. Sometimes you wish to talk to someone, a real soul but sometimes you wish you never exist .Sometimes you feel like floating on the sea . Sometimes you wish floating in the universe. Sometimes you wish there was no time and sometimes you wish all the time in that one day. Sometimes you wish for someone to call your name and sometimes you wish to run away as far as you can. Sometime you laugh too much until people finds you wierd or crazy, only to end up crying loudly, yet silently..... And you say to yourself " I will be fine soon"
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