@forcefulBirch2526Â
Brought out the worst in me. Waiting for someone so long, only to be left behind. Lost all purpose in life. Made me feel unlovable and alone. Severely impacted my confidence and sense of self. Just somehow getting by. I don't know how I'm alive.
@forcefulBirch2526 I was married 13 years to someone who completely misunderstood me and showed absolutely no interest in trying. I made myself small and destroyed myself to stay. Its been five years and I am trying again in the dating world and holy smokes, I realize even with all the work I put in to heal, that there's still so.e things that I just cannot seem to quell.Â
I was deeply hurt from my childhood. My own sister rap** me when i was a kid for couple of months. My parents never care about me. My sister is 29 years old. She does not study or earn. She still lives with us. My mom always beat me. I always have to the House chores. My sister says if i ever do things that she Don't like, she will do what she did to me again. Idk what should i do. I hope i will be able to move out from my hope within a year. I think heartbreak is not something too keep. Heartbreaks reminds us that we are not Taking care of our selfs, we are not speaking up for our selfs
@forcefulBirch2526 It has complexly destroyed me I really don’t how to pull myself up out of it this time. I really let him back in and he ripped my heart out, now he has moved on. Funny thing is he is breaking up and getting back with this person. But I am still heart broken.
I became less emotional .. it makes me think people are just faking love. No one truly loves anyone
@forcefulBirch2526
Heartbreak has forced me to focus on myself, to take care of me, physically, mentally, emotionally. To love me, to acknowlege that I am ENOUGH for me as I am.
Heartbreak and losing partners has brought me to make many heavy mistakes but it's also taught me to be a better partner myself and has helped me raise my standards in who I bring into my life. I would love to explain more in detail but I think that would become more of a rant and require a trigger warning
I am experiencing a heart break that I don't even understand why. A Woman came into my life. One that I didn't seek out. She noticed me and would say some strange things to me. Making me feel like she had a thing for me. But since it was at work, and we were not on the same level, I had to play it safe. This went on for 9 years. Until 2021 came around I didn't even realize how connected my emotions had become to her. Once things got really weird, I began having an upset stomach. Never could get things back to the way they were, and there was still signs that she had a thing for me. This year she finally got out of my life, and no way to contact her. I can't stop thinking about her. Her memory goes away, and then comes back, and then goes away again. It could take me a year or more to get over this. I hope it never happens to me again!
Mine feels like it’s destroying me… day by day. Things aren’t getting better. I’m on medication, but that isn’t helping me cope. Things with my wife haven’t improved in the months since I found out about what she was doing and she broke my heart. Every day I feel like it’s continuing and she’s not trying to save us, to save me. I’ve made what I feel to be every effort with no recognition, no appreciation, and nothing in return. No reciprocation of the effort to save us. Everything feels like it’s my fault, and wearing me down, it’s making me ill, mentally and physically. I’m not sure how much longer I can go on.
@forcefulBirch2526
It made me view life differently. Made me see what I like and what I dislike. He was my greatest life and now I don't think I'm capable of loving someone like that.
