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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

starryWillow9852
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Hi I’m Em I’m 18 the topic I’m comfortable taking are depression, self harm, ptsd , bpd(borderline) please keep it mind I just turned 18 in march I don’t normally take adult chats so please go to another listener if you’re an adult im not comfortable with relationship issues or work related issues along with please no sexual chat ⚠️ listner twin @KateDoskocilova 🟢 green means I’m taking chats 🟡means im busy 🔴means im ether offline or modding credits to the amazing @theboymoana my roles on cups are ATL chatroom moderater im part of the team to verify listeners if interested you may pm me
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DanCat1128
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Hi I'm Dandan and I'm a listener here on cups 😊 😊  Chat Overview: My chats include a 30-45 minute chats. I don't take inappropriate chats and/or depression chats. I say ok as acknowledge what is being said and process it. This is no sarcastic ok remark by any means.  Roles: 😺 Room Supporter (Newbie hub) 😺 Peer Supporter  😺 Chat Supporter  😺 Chatroom Mentor  😺 ATL 😺 Quality Mentor  😺 AE team  😺 Academy Mentor (Ldp and Qlp programs) Fun facts: 😊 Cocoa is my cat  😊 My mom is a high school teacher  😊 I'm part of a did system 
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Heartsandrosesandpaws
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I greatly love learning new things, nature, cats, and much more.
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KristenHR
L Paragon 7 4527
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Do to my schedule, I am no longer taking on individual chats except those I already am in individual chats with.  If you want to seek out a listener, please use this link:  https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/ I love life.  I enjoy helping.  My focus is recovery from abuse and sexual trauma, eating disorders and dissociation.  I have interests in university internships and career development.  I am a Christian and that gives me strength. If you are wanting faith-based support, please let me know. I know that for some individuals, Christians have been very hurtful. If you are not a Christian, I'm not here to judge or impose my spiritual beliefs - I'm here to listen. I will not talk to you about God unless you ask to talk about faith.  I do not take theological chats. https://www.timeanddate.com/worldclock/converter.html?p1=179 - Time Zone Converter:  Eastern Time is New York time. My involvement with 7 Cups: Eating Disorder Community Verified Listener Team
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Maebyb
L Discoverer 7 669
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💙I have worked in the education and health care fields for most of my life and now am so excited to help people in a different way.  I have great respect and admiration for everyone on 7 Cups the members and listeners make it a very special community and I value what everyone has to share. 
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insightfulOcean9885
L Proficient 7 2083
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whatever you need i'll do my best to listen.  whatever it is you've got this, never doubt that i have autism, adhd, DID, hEDS, POTS, IST and me/cfs Due to being chronicaly ill with hEDS and its coomorbid conditions i may take a bit to respond depending on whats happening 
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Peacefulgardens
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Welcome, my name is Naira. I believe that one of the most effective ways to make healthy changes is to focus on building up self-compassion and understanding.  At 7Cups, in addition to earning verification, I have also completed the Quality Listening Program and Community Track Internship with Honors. I'm open to conversations on a variety of mental health topics as long as they remain appropriate and respectful.  Please keep in mind that responses to support requests may take up to 24 hours. ------------------------- Helpful Resources It is important keep in mind that listeners like me are volunteers, and we do not have the same responsibilities or expertise as licensed therapists or counselors. If you are in the United States and interested in booking an appointment with a trained therapist or counselor, some additional ways to find affordable options are Open Path Collective [https://openpathcollective.org/], Psychology Today [https://www.psychologytoday.com/us], Psychologist Locator [https://locator.apa.org/], and your local National Alliance of Mental Illness chapter [https://www.nami.org/findsupport/]. I believe in advocating for people seeking mental health care which is why it's important to help make this process more accessible. Although I am comfortable discussing self-harm and we even have a self-harm recovery community forum [https://www.7cups.com/forum/selfharm/], listeners must refer anyone actively at risk of harming themselves or others to crisis resources [https://help.7cups.com/hc/en-us/articles/360026238093-Crisis].  7Cups offers a variety of self-help guides here [https://www.7cups.com/supportGuides/selfHelpGuides.php/] for anyone wanting information on a specific topic. Listeners aiming to expand their skills can read all training guides offered here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerResourcesMockChatGuides_2381/ListenerSupportResourcesandMockChatGuidesMasterList_228279] and here [https://www.7cups.com/listener/training.php#training/].  My profile icon is photography by Cy Twombly.
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RarelyCharlie
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Not taking new chats. ------------------------- Coming, going, the waterbirds don't leave a trace, don't follow a path. I'm Charlie and I'm trained, verified and experienced as an active listener for both adults and teens. I like to support people who are struggling with something. Also people who aren't struggling with anything. And people who aren't sure whether they're struggling with anything or not. Please do not message me hoping to start a chat. I am not taking new chats. The poem is said to be by Eihei Dōgen, a Japanese poet who wrote it around eight hundred years ago. I don't know why I like it. I just do. My photo is the moon shining on the sea. There's some darkness and some clouds there but the light of the moon shines on everything. I like this too. Thank you for reading my profile. I'm glad you are here! ------------------------- In an emergency or a crisis: If you are in an emergency or a crisis—for example, if you are at immediate risk of suicide or other serious harm—7 Cups is not the right place, because we cannot deal with emergencies or provide crisis counselling. Click here for information about getting help: Get emergency or crisis support [https://rarelycharlie.github.io/howto/crisis] Listener support: I'm happy to support other listeners with issues related to listening, although I don't have any official role. Please do not message me from a listener account to chat about personal issues. Use a member account for that. To understand why, see: Listener and Member Roles [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenersOnlyForums_38/GlensThoughts_143/ListenerandMemberRoles_210/1/] Schedule: I don't have a fixed schedule. I'm online some weekdays between about 4:30 a.m. and 8:30 a.m. US Eastern Time. In the UK this is 9:30 a.m. to 1:30 p.m. On other days and at weekends I'm often online too, but at times that are not predictable. If you message me or tag me in a forum I'm usually able to respond within a day or two. Miscellaneous resources: For some other resources, mainly for listeners, see my unofficial companion site: The 8th Cup [https://rarelycharlie.github.io/]
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Kieran000
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Hey thanks for checking out my profile, I’ve been on this site since the very start of 2019.  I do a lot of work inside 7 cups, but also keep in mind I have lots of work outside 7 cups. I do volunteering on the side of work & study and have experience in many different settings but can’t go further into it. (Not a doctor etc and I can’t give any professional advice on here) My involvement with 7 Cups Group Support Mentor Leader (Retired Currently)  I previously managed the communication and supported the implementation of community feedback relating to group support via bi-weekly community meetings and liaising directly with the admin of the group support domain. I was also tasked with recruiting new chatroom moderators and mentors, and helping them in their role as a wider responsibility of my mentor leader position. Global Chatroom Moderator (Current) I am a moderator in all of the group support rooms, meaning I assist to keep the rooms welcoming, safe and appropriate. I’m also part of the trauma support leadership team, and am specifically a moderator on the leadership team there as well, which I also host discussions for as well as a discussion leader.  Group Support Mentor (Current) I assist with the welcoming of new chatroom moderators and room supporters regardless of their chosen communities that they’re specifically supporting.  Listener Chatroom Mentor (Returning After Long Break)  I used to provide support to the listener support rooms as well, as mentor and moderator. Helping to keep the chats supportive and I was tasked with assisting with questions from listeners, as well as chat support and peer support.  Adult-Teen Listener (Current) I have been approved through an interview to support both, teen and adult members and listeners.  Quality Mentor (Current) I support listeners with their quality of listening by providing feedback, mock chats, and long-term mentorship.  Doorkeeper (Current) I have the ability to access the Chatroom Management panel where I can open and close all the 100+ listener and member chat rooms. If you’d like a room open in order to host a discussion you have scheduled please do feel free to send a message.  Chat Supporter (Current) I support the answering of chat related questions whilst listeners are actively taking part in member support chats, without breaking any confidentiality. I also help those who have been impacted negatively by a member chat.  Safety Team Outreach Member (Current) I reach out to users whose profiles have been flagged as violating the community guidelines, providing a chance for them to correct it before any further action is taken.  Community Mentor Leader (Retired) I used to manage the Newbie Hub sub-community where it was my role to onboard and support new community leaders, as well as manage discussion scheduling and supporting existing leaders too.  Anonymous Evaluator (Retired) I used to anonymously evaluate listeners by posing as a member (authorised) to get information on their quality of listening and then report back to admins.  Support Team Leader (Covered within GSM position) I previously co-led the Support Room 24/7 Coverage project which aimed to provide quality listening support to those in both teen and adult Support Room 24/7. This project was successful for a few months and then it was no longer operational, hopefully can get it back around with more support to continue it in event of leader(s) going on break.  Academy Mentor (Retired) I used to assist students of the Internship and Leadership Development Program with keeping track of their progress and supporting with any questions or concerns.  If you are a member reading this, I am not available for 1-1 support chats. You will be able to find me usually in any of the member group support rooms. I am always open to questions as messages, so feel free if it’s that otherwise I will not be able to respond. *I may go online to take chats at my own discretion, if I have the green dot next to profile picture, I have chosen to accept and will take the chat* I am not acting in a professional capacity here nor can I provide you crisis support on 7 Cups My likely response schedule (UK time) Monday: 8:00-11:00, 18:00-23:00  Tuesday: 8:00-11:00, 19:00-23:00  Wednesday: 21:00-23:00 Thursday: 8:00-23:00  Friday: 8:00-12:00  Saturday: 11:00-18:00  Sunday: 11:00-23:00  I’d say I’m most experienced with supporting people experiencing issues with the following topics: (The number of *’s indicate the amount of personal experience with the issue, and the familiarity with it) Self-Harm (Historic & Post-Recovery Journey, Addiction) *****  Break-ups, Relationship and Family Stress ***** Sexual Violence / Abuse ***** Grief (Parental, Sibling, Friends, Medical Vicarious Grief) ***** Anxiety (Generalised, Social and Trauma-Related Anxiety) **** Student Life **** Depression **** Work Stress **** Domestic Violence / Abuse *** Addiction (Self-Harm, Drugs, Alcohol) *** Self-Esteem *** Bullying *** Loneliness ** Managing Emotions ** Cancer * Schizophrenia * → Just some awesome people from my journey of cupsing who I’ve near enough known forever here 😛❤️ @Aimee198 (RIP, I miss you, especially the *hair flicks* and 😛’ing sooo much 💛💛💛) @AlwaysForYou197 (RIP as well you loved sharing your poems with me and I wish you still could 🥺❤️❤️❤️) @EmmaE @Azalea98 @mxmes @LoveLilly @Gracey @ASilentObserver @Suryansh @Rebekah @ListeningSarinn @Anna706 @Sia1325 @lueurspace @emotionalTalker2260 @HopieRemi @Jenna @Amy @Hope @JessHobson @Angelx28 @TayTayy @ALovelyFriend @VicK5123 @Anna706 @Sunisshingandsoareyou @optimisticMagic0014 @enchantedlove @Mishi3015 @cuteOrange213 @fujitheflowerboy @Ines1229 @ThoughtfulNarwhal3963 @shiningSky3745 @Dajia215 @niceTruth1478 @bookworm274 @KristenHR @ItssssMJ @fairyava and moreee Some links relating to me that you might like (Clickable below) Kieran’s Appreciation Corner [https://www.7cups.com/forum/gldd/AppreciationCorner_2202/KieransGroupAppreciationCorner_234229/] Kieran’s GLDD Interview [https://www.7cups.com/forum/gldd/FunCorner_2236/DinnerWithOurAlumnikieran000_248266/] Kieran’s Self-Care Interview [https://www.7cups.com/forum/addiction/GeneralAddictionSupport_725/ATalkOnSelfCareWithKieran000_277292/] Kieran’s Living-with-Leaders Interview [https://www.7cups.com/forum/projectsandevents/LivingwithLeaders_2290/Beingthebest_276987/]
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allnaturalUnicorns70
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I'm an ordained rabbi (and verified LISTENER!!), from a secular upbringing. Every human has an important place in this world, which means... YOU ARE IMPORTANT!!!  If you're looking for an intelligent, kind and thoughtful ear, you've come to the right place!
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daydreammemories
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Hi ~Just a human being 🌿 On a self-care break. Response time may be slow. Thanks for your patience💙 (Currently not accepting new member chats❤️ Warm welcomes to you wonderful human, reaching my cozy corner.⛺️ Let's have a cup of tea and talk it out.🍵 Remember that you're not alone, and we will get through this together. I hope you all get the help you truly deserve, stay awesome.💚) I try to keep it respectful at all times, and I expect you to do the same, so we can create a really awesome place for you to share and feel safe. Everyone has their own unique story, and I'm honored to listen to yours.😊) ~It is in our darkest moments that we must focus to see the light. 🌠 ------------------------- I'll be there for you              When the rain starts to pour ; ) " There is still a joker roaming around the world. He will make sure that the world never rests. Whenever possible -and wherever possible - a little fool will jump out wearing long donkey ears and jingling bells. He will look deep into our eyes and ask, who are we? Where do we come from? " Jostein Gaarder, The Solitaire Mystery ♧ ------------------------- Dear fellow reader, how have you been?😊 I’ve been meaning to write this for a while now, and I finally took the courage to do so. I appreciate your patience going through my profile. We are stuck in a world with tons of problems, each and every one of us carries their own. These problems can change, but from my own personal experience, there is never a time when we don’t have any. I can relate to that as well, I know you do too. BUT, the way we approach our problems matter. That’s what helps us grow.  I know we might never recover from our pains, our bad memories are always going to be a part of us as well, although, the important part is that they get lost between the good ones. I’m not going to tell you what to do and what not to do, but to let you know that my main reason to be here is that I simply care. I want to be with you when making tough decisions, when dealing with something harsh which life threw at you. I’m not a saint or an agnel. I make mistakes and take some actions that I might end up regretting, I’m not going to judge you when you do as such. Pinky promise. ------------------------- Some things that I’ve come to learn during my life: (The list will be updated during time lol) ✨You can’t be the hero in everyone’s story. ✨You don’t need to keep everyone satisfied to feel happy. ✨Take your steps based on what feels right to you, not everyone else’s. ✨Space and time make some things better, if you’re not sure they apply to a situation, try them. ✨We all gain our initial deep motive to help us keep going in hard situations during time. Time certainly makes you a master. Take your time, and build that motive. This doesn’t mean that you will go through challenges happily, but to solely be able to get through them eventually. ✨I agree that even best friends can’t be hundred percent there for each other, I agree that us as listeners have our own issues going on as well. But I truly believe you might still find someone caring about you in silence. If you feel like troubles are there weighing on you, and it feels harsh to move on carrying those burdens, I’m here to help easing up that pain as much as I can. ------------------------- About me: 🕊️A fellow soul in my 20s, searching for the meaning of life and pursuing my passion in college.  🕊️I love learning new languages. 🕊️I’m passionate about reading, listening to music, and hiking. 🕊️I love reading mystery novels and watching movies in this genre.  🕊️Friends and Modern Family are my two comfort shows. 🕊️I'm a pretty good photographer 📷. 🕊️Green is my favorite color 💚.  🕊️I am here to at least make another fellow soul feel a bit better.  May all your days be blessed, Take care!😇 “Message in a bottle is all I can do Standing here hoping this gets to you” T.S. 😊 💕 My amazing twin listener: Ultraterrestrial ♡ My awesome twin member: CloudCola ♡
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EmmaE
L Genius 11 1886
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Hello hello, welcome to my bio! My name is Emma and I’m a listener chatroom ambassador -------------------------------------------------   i’m really sorry, but unfortunately i’m unable to take new member chats! click here to find another listener! [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] ------------------------------------------------- My main roles/focuses here: • Chatroom ambassador with a focus on listener discussions: I lead the adult and teen listener sharing circle, listener check-ins, listener learning discussions, and listener events teams! I also focus on teen chatroom star/mentor applications and the teen listener rooms. I’m a chat supporter and peer supporter as well, so I can offer listeners support both during and after ongoing chats • Community mentor leader and support team leader for the depression support subcommunity and the needs reply forums: I heavily focus on the depression support community and help make sure it's a safe and supportive place for everyone! I lead and support the community mentors, forum supporters, project agents, chatroom moderators, and room supporters on the depression team My pms are always open and I’d love to hear from you! If you need any help or have any questions regarding anything listener or community related, please feel free to reach out! I’d be more than happy to help :) ------------------------------------------------- Some of my other roles and teams I work with: • Global chatroom moderator • Global forum supporter • Listener verifier team • Forum flag team • Safety patrol • Doorkeeper ------------------------------------------------- A bit about me: • I love listening to music (feel free to pm me any song suggestions 😛) • I love chocolate • I love travelling • I have two dogs ------------------------------------------------- Things to remember: • You don't have to be perfect • Having a bad day is okay • Small steps are still progress • Asking for help demonstrates strength • Everyone's journey is different ------------------------------------------------- I’m always here for you and I care about you a lot, so feel free to message me whenever you'd like and i'll get back to you as soon as I can! The most beautiful people are those who have known defeat, suffering, struggle, loss and have found their way out of the depths. You are beautiful. You are strong. You will make it through this. ------------------------------------------------- I’m so happy you're here and took the time to read my bio! I appreciate and care about you very much 💗 you're doing a great job and I’m so proud of how far you've come! ------------------------------------------------- ⋆ ˚。⋆✿˚ no rain, no flowers. ˚✿⋆。˚ ⋆
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