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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

TiffanyD33
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Guys I am back!!! Wohooo! As a member of the welcome committee, i receive quite a high influx of chats everyday. If i missed your message (i didn't respond within 24~48) hours, please just send me a reminder, and i'll be sure to reply! Also, this is my last year of high-school, with college applications going on, I apologize in advance if i can't respond as promptly as i hope for🫂 ❗❗I DO NOT take sex-related topics thank youuu!❗❗ ____________ Hihi! My name is Tiffany and I am beyond honored to be here to listen and help you guys. Being an ENTP, I am an easy-going and quite humorous person, a bit talkative, but also an extremely good listener. Being a third culture kid and having to travel a lot when I was younger, I faced a lot of stress and anxiety myself. But after some good rants, I got better, and so I hope I could also help all of you guys cope with your problems:) Hobbies of mine include going outside, doing ballet, or simply curling up in a patch of sunlight with a good book, especially historical fiction. Currently I'm on God of Small Things, and Babel (I've been putting this one off for soooo long because I'm so excited for it and i really really want to enjoy it slowly) is next on my reading list. Feel free to drop book recommendations over as well! ____________ Some topics I'm a little more hesitant to talk about include sexual health, autism, abuse, and cancer. Other than that, feel free to drop me a message, and I'll try to respond within 24 hours!  My typical session would be around 30-40 minutes during which i am COMPLETELY and UTTER devoted to you and you alone~ If time permits and both of us are comfortable, making it an hour would also be totally fine. I'm also happy to reschedule, so if you're seeking a consistent listener, you're at the right place! Anyways, I'm excited for meeting you guys!✨ ____________ Red--I'm offline, but will respond within 24 hours. However, please do not simply leave a "hi" or "talk" as it would be a waste of both our times.  Yellow-- I'm in a chat, but i will get back to you soon! Since my sessions are typically only 30 minutes, you can start ranting already!  Green--I'm free, most likely hiding in a forum somewhere, and will reply very quickly.  oh and my kitten says hiiiii~
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GoldenRuleJG
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🤍Back 🤍 Any of mentees welcome to reconnect! I’d love to know how you’re doing and others too! FEMALE LISTENER  There are awesome community sessions which are scheduled in various rooms. You can check them out here: 7 Cups Community Calendar [https://www.7cups.com/forum/communityCalendar.php] Please read below about what I try to be as a listener: Although i am not a professional therapist I try to apply my knowledge of psychology, mental health on stuff (p.s. - Undergraduate Bachelors Degree in Psychology completed. YAY 🧡🤩). I aim to be unbiased yet compassionate. Not a fairy godmother. If all the above sounds good let me know if you want a chat.   When the circle near my profile pic is green that means I’m available to talk to you now. If you leave me a message and I don't respond this can because im busy (orange circle) or because im offline (red circle).  *1 hr duration chats * Bright7cups former amazing twinning buddy - thank you ❤️
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enchantedlove
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🌸hey there! I'm mary-kate! 🌸    🌷welcome to my bio! 🌷 why I joined 7 cups  🌸 I can remember a certain period of my life, where I was in a really hard spot. I felt as if no one cared for me, and that I was all alone. I joined 7 Cups to help people, because I never want anyone to feel alone as I did. I am that person who cares, I care about you and your feelings! You are important, never forget that.  a bit about me   🌊 ~ i love to study biology, and volunteer in my free time ~I know English, Spanish and a bit of Latin ~I love Hamilton, ATLA, and Grey's Anatomy! ~I am a female (she/her) my chat info 💜 In general I take all chats, but in certain circumstances I can not take: ~Sexual Chats (i never take these) ~Chats about Self-Harm ~Chats about Self-Esteem I am particularly experienced in chats about: ~Depression ~Anxiety ~Breakups / Relationship Issues ~Family / Relationship/School Stress ~ADHD my favorite quotes  🌼 🌼Sometimes life is like this dark tunnel, you can't always see the light at the end, but if you just keep moving, you will come to a better place.  ~ Uncle Iroh ( ATLA ) 🌼Love doesn't discriminate between the sinners and the saints, it takes and takes and takes, and we keep loving anyway. We laugh and we cry, and we break, and we make our mistakes.  ~ Hamilton ( Wait for it ) 🌼Gracious words are a honeycomb, sweet to the soul and healing to the bones ~ Proverbs 16:24 my roles at 7 cups ( currently inactive in most )  🌸 all underlined words are links! feel free to pm me about any of these roles! safety patrol team member [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SafetyKnowledgeat7Cups_181/SafetyPatrolTeam_1685/CallingAllVerifiedListenersApplytoJointheProfilePatrolTeam_152025/1/] ~As a part of the safety patrol team, I help ensure the community's safety! please pm me if you think a profile needs to be flagged! teen celebrations project co-lead ~ I co-lead the teen celebrations project with @Daf8!  global moderator ~ I can mod for any member room peer supporter ~ I have been trained to help if you have just had a hard chat! feel free to pm me if you need ps! here is also some info about it! [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerProjectsampTeams_148/PeerSupportForum_397/PeerSupportBadgeGetInvolvedSupportTheCommunity_2474/1/] chat support ~I can help you if you are stuck and don't know what to do in a chat, or with general questions! here is some info! [https://www.7cups.com/forum/MentorMeetUp_173/ChatSupportarea_2068/WhatistheChatSupportbadge_220648/] al grader ~ I help grade al2 tests! you can pm me or check for updates here! [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenersOnlyForums_38/QualityProjects_144/ActiveListening2Updates_5878/] doorkeeper ~last but most definitely not least, I am a doorkeeper! this means, if you need a room to be opened for a discussion, feel free to pm me, or fill out this request form! [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScsSSGlumo0wSbdyAYTOLpvVZmqqXP3rMQ8xvb9jElkYWshPA/viewform] booking a chat and chat meanings  🌹 red- unavailable to chat <3  🍊 orange- a little busy, if you message me i will try to reply within 3 hours <3 🍃 green- i'm open to chat now! <3 if you would like to book a chat with me, please see the button below!  🌼book me [https://www.picktime.com/enchantedlove] 🌼 my listener twins  🌸 for when I'm not online and you need someone amazing to chat with (all names are clickable links) 🎀@positivePumpkin22 [http://7cups.com/@positivePumpkin22] 🎀@Daf8 [http://7cups.com/@Daf8] 🎀@LoveLilly [http://7cups.com/@LoveLilly] 🎀@sophiasanae [http://7cups.com/@sophiasanae]  🎀@cocoakrispies121 [http://7cups.com/@cocoakrispies121] other amazing people   @hopedreamlove @lovelilly @dajia215 @suryanshsingh @mamtasha @bouncysalamander26 @tami150 @mango3 @grahzeymahzin @mel @clara139175     
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LetsCherishLife
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(Deutsch: Siehe unten) I only take chats within my topics.  ​Urgency first: If you are facing an acute situation like a panic attack, etc., please message me. There's no need to read the rest of the profile.  Hello and welcome to 7cups. I'm a 28-year-old female from Germany, and glad you're reading this. I had and still have to struggle with some of the things I offer support with. I hope I can help you with some things based on my experience, professional university knowledge, and over six years of experience as a Listener here. I understand you well, and maybe I have suggestions, techniques, or skills to help you. For example, I'm familiar with living with chronic pain, self-harm (stopped a few years ago), and panic attacks. I also have non-epileptic (dissociative/conversion) seizures. I'd like to exchange experience about this anytime to possibly learn from each other in managing or getting them under control better. In the following, I will describe myself as a Listener and explain in what case I am the right one for you. If you select me as your Listener and I think there is a chance that I might be able to help, I will try my best to do so. If I had to describe myself as a Listener, I would say I'm primarily supportive, reassuring, and encouraging. But despite all my empathy and understanding, I still tend to be somewhat challenging. I assure you that you have my greatest support if you choose to work with me, and I will be here for you through whatever struggle you may face. My favorite saying I took from the saw movies, which I enjoy (don't worry, I'm not a creep), is "CHERISH YOUR LIFE," and I hope I can help you do that too along the way. Send me a personal request by chatting with me or leaving me a message if: - you want to learn to live better with chronic (physical) pain/ disease, especially such that gets worse in flare-ups, or you want to know how to best support a person close to you who suffers from this (1) - you want to manage daily life better with a disability that affects you or a person close to you (autism and ad(h)d included) (2) - you want to quit self-harm (3) - you want to cope better with panic attacks and possibly get rid of them (4) - you want to talk about psychological, non-epileptic/ dissociative seizures (PNES) and possibly gain better control of them or talk about any other kind of dissociation or dissociative or psychosomatic disorder (5) - you want to chat about (C)PTSD and how it affects your life and find coping strategies that work for you (6) - you want to chat about parenting: I don't have any own kids and not so much practical experience yet, but I'll probably be doing counseling for parents, especially for children with disabilities, in my future job, so I would like to test my skills on this here and gain some first experience. (7)    - you want to chat about guilt or forgiveness. I am curious about what they involve and I'd be interested in discussing them. Depending on the situation, though, I might decide that I am not the right Listener for you at some point. (8)   - you want to chat about a personality disorder (any kind). I am curious to learn more about it, how it affects people's lives, and how they manage life with it. Yet, I am not very experienced with this topic, so it would be more active listening than suggestions. (9) - you want to learn to manage, accept, and understand your thoughts, emotions, and psychological needs. (I might decide that I am not the right person depending on what they are related to, and the chat would be more focused on the thoughts, emotions, and needs themselves and identifying them rather than what causes them.) (10) - you want to chat about faith, religion, spirituality, etc. If you wish, I might share my beliefs, but I will not force them upon you. We can try to find out what you believe or how you could solve a conflict that, for example, makes you question your faith. (11) - you have general questions about mental health, want to figure out what's going on for you, what the next steps could be, what you could do to improve your allover well-being, or if you want to find out which topic(s) the right Listener(s) for you should cover (12) - you want to discuss something related to communication or violence/abuse (any form, active and passive position) to reflect on yourself generally or regarding specific situations, or you want to discuss how communication and violence are related. Depending on the exact issue, I might not be the right Listener for you. (13) - you want to ethically or morally reflect on or position yourself in general or regarding a particular situation. (14) - you want to change a particular generally controllable (own) behavior by analyzing causing and motivational factors and looking for different ways to manage these. I have the most experience with this method regarding self-harming behavior, but I want to see if I can apply it to other topics and behaviors as well (15) If you send a personal request, please start the chat with (a) code number(s) from 1 to 15 (which you see on the list, next to the thing(s) you want to chat about) to show you have read this. I do provide long-term support as well! Let me know if you wish that, so I can see what I can offer. I offer chats related to other topics like work stress if the focus is on one of the topics listed above, e.g. work-induced PTSD, communication and/or violence, or behavioral issues at work - own behavior only.  Please note: While I have my own and professional experience with some of these topics, I am not a fully trained professional. I am in education for a job where I work with people and help them, for example, through counseling. Still, here I am only a Listener and not a Therapist. That means I can't advise you on the ultimate solution. Yet, I am glad to provide suggestions where I feel it's appropriate and consider your options together if you want to. If I am offline (red), you can still message me, and I will get in touch when I see it. If I don't take your request, feel free to message me because I might have forgotten to log out, but I will get back to you when I see it. ​ Ich spreche auch Deutsch. Themen:     - chronische Schmerzen oder Beeinträchtigung bei Betroffenen und Angehörigen, - selbstverletzendes Verhalten, - Panikattacken, - dissoziative Identitätsstörung und dissoziative Zustände/ Anfälle oder andere dissoziative Störung, - Trauma (PTBS), - Genesung/ Erholung/ Rehabililitation von einer Verletzung oder körperlichen oder psychischen Erkrankung, - Erziehung/ Elternberatung, - Schuld und Vergebung, - Persönlichkeitsstörungen, - Umgang mit Gedanken, Gefühlen und psychologischen Bedürfnissen, - Glaube und Religion, - allgemeine mentale Gesundheit, - Kommunikation und Gewalt, - ethisch-moralische Selbstreflexion und Positionierung, - Verhaltensanalyse und -änderung (eigenes Verhalten), - Andere Themen dürfen gerne beinhaltet sein, solange der Schwerpunkt auf den genannten Themen liegt, z. B. Arbeitsleben: berufsbedingte Traumatisierung, Kommunikation und Gewalt oder (eigenes) problematisches Verhalten im Beruf. Ausschließlich andere Themen auf Anfrage, wenn sonst niemand für einen Chat auf Deutsch verfügbar ist. 
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AllieSunshine
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I am currently not taking any new members on the adult side. Teens - I will reach out to you as I am ready. If urgent, feel free to leave me a message. 🌻 Ask me about the sunflower 🌻  I support neurodiverse members!  I have ptsd, anxiety, autism, did. Please note the following: I am a caring person and am here for you. I do become overwhelmed easily so response times may not be right away but I promise I will respond. I’m 19! Come talk to me ! No self harm, sui****, social media  or sexual chats! Verified Listener and a Verified ATL ( Adult - Teen Listener  In memory of Amelia who saved my mother so many times. 4/6/2020 In memory of Tazzie , someone who made me who I am today. 9/22/2021 And my beautiful daughter ❤️. 5/23/2021 2nd baby girl 11/14/2022 Listeners: If you have read the neurodiverse post ( https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupport_168/CommunityManagersOffice_2008/HowToSupportNeurodiverseMembers_257497/) Joined the support plus community ran by Jovi, and feel comfortable supporting our neurodiverse members, can you please add to your profile “I am here to support neurodiverse members” it would help the members feel more open to talking to us about those topics.
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SparklingSeashells
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Hey! I'm glad you've found my profile 💜 I am an ATL which means I am an adult who listen to both adults and teens. Of course I have been a teen myself! I am not on 7cups very often anymore and so don't take chats, sorry.
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Here4good74
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*sorry, I don't take sexual-health chats or anything related to that* Hello,  This's Jane - she/her (or whatever I don't really mind). I'd love to welcome you here where you can vent and I'll listen, providing no judgment but only support and compassion. ~You've got this. I believe in you~ ------------------------- Roles: - Chatroom moderator (Newbie Hub, Depression Support). - Peer supporter. I can help provide emotional support for fellow listeners after a distressing chat, and help them improve their skills. Feel free to PM me. - check-in host for the appreciation team: I host an Appreciation Check-In session every Saturday 5pm (est), feel free to join me in the Teen Positivity Corner room!  Peer Appreciation Form [https://forms.gle/hfwDBA8dTaP6bhta9] Smile Spreader [https://forms.gle/rgPfNwytBgJRChp7A]  - Room supporter. - Listener verifier. - Sharing Circle host. ------------------------- "There is nothing more truly artistic than to love people." ~Vincent Van Gogh ------------------------- Please note (1) I only take chats on the topics which are mentioned on the categories, for other topics, please browse other listeners here [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] Please note (2) if I'm busy, please give me 48 hours to reply. And when I'm offline, I don't respond to members, and if I did, I would probably refer them to other listeners. Please note (3) you can expect your 1-on-1 chat with me to last for an hour. You can also expect a follow-up in a range of 48 hours after the chat is over, to check in on you and see how things are going. You can expect me to be thorough with answers and resources (only 7Cups resources, no resources off site), and I'm always here for you. You can always ask to be one of my long-term members. it'll be ok.. want a cookie? 🍪  🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈
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CharmingJamesBond
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Fairytales are more than true,not because they tell us dragons exist,but because they tell us dragons can be beaten....  
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Ahmedalyyy
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I know life is so hard when u dont have good support.. I'll be the support u need
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Power14
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          Hey awesome people  I am Neal . I'm glad you've found me on 7 Cups of Tea.                             For members :I'm glad you've taken a huge step.  it's really difficult to move a first step.  you've started looking for help. I'm here to listen whatever is in your mind. I believe every story is worth sharing and your all emotions are valid. We can discuss your issues may be i wont be able to help in issues but discussing issues can produce solutions. If you are going to text me then make sure you're in mood to take things in postive way. Anybody can help you only if when  you try to help yourself. Nobody is having magic wand which can heal your issue in no time.                                                  For listeners :                                                 I am a quality mentor you can always reach me if you need any help regarding this website or you need any guidance.                                                  Projects I'm supporting                                                  Quality mentor                                                  Peer support                                                  Welcoming team                                                 Translation project                                                  Listener verifier team                                                 If you need any assistance in these projects you can contact me.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                     
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fruityPond7887
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Hello! My name is Fruity or Pond or FruityPond!! 😉 I'm so glad you're here! 🌈 (Yes, I finally have a bio) My Schedule:  Wednesday: 3:00 - 5:00 pm ET Sunday: 7:00 - 11:00 pm ET 
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Sealiously
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Hello, I'm Sealiously ( ᵔᴥᵔ ) (he/him) I'm 24 years old and from Scotland. I currently work in financial services as a consultant and advocate for customers who find themselves in all vulnerable circumstances but with a focus in bereavement. I am extremely grateful to have the opportunity to make a difference each day. Outside of work you will usually find me on long walks with the dog, studying to further my career, or here on 7 Cups! My roles here on 7 Cups: 🦭 Verified Listener 🦭 Welcoming Committee 🦭 Safety Patrol  I'm sorry but I am unable to take new member chats at the moment. I will do my best to respond to any messages but there may be a delay. You can find an available Listener using the Browse Listeners [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] button.
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