Skip to main content Skip to bottom nav

Need to talk to someone?

More Filters

It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

Listeningsarinn
L Marvel 2 4503
5.0 star rating
Rating
Listens toTeens & Over 18 Last activein last week
7cups availability: no longer available for new support chats on 7cups, if we have talked before you are welcome to send me a text please use browse listeners page if you need support, there are many awesome listeners available 💙 ------------------------- Hey, I'm Sarinn and I'm here for you, this chat page is a safe place, A place, where you won’t be judged  and you have nothing to be ashamed of, I'm already proud of you and sending you my love ------------------------- What are some reasons you can text me for? if you are a member you can text me to share about anything that is making you struggle,  busying your mind or feeling heavy on you, you aren't alone, we can talk and face it all together if you are a listener You can reach out to me for chat support (help handling a hard chat) or if you need help figuring anything out on cups As a trained mentor, I can help you with Chat situations, mock chats, figuring out sub-communities, leadership roles or finding resources and regardless of if you are a member or listener you can always text me for random hugs you can spam me with song recommendation which I'll love or to casually chat and get to know each other and have a fun time ------------------------- you can expect me to reply right away only ~if my status shows online/green ~if i was in a room and you are messaging after asking me if you could pm me ~if we have scheduled the date and time to chat together otherwise, please keep in mind that I'll take up to 72 hours to reply ------------------------- there are 3 things that I tend to do 1. I call my friends "love" both in real life and here 2. I am a hug person, I love hugs and I might send you virtual hugs 3. I might leave you random texts and check in sometimes if any of these, or anything else in the chat, makes you uncomfortable, or if there are triggers that I need to avoid, let me know and I'll be careful not to repeat ------------------------- ~lgbtq+ Ally~ ------------------------- some people i miss badly on cups *~* @kimmkimm (miss you awesomeness) @ruby2468 (I can’t think of a way to reach you rn, but I’m thinking of you, missing you and hoping you are doing okie) @brokentearss (miss you lampshade, and will never forget you) @ALeXaNdEr0712 (you are missed, and on my mind at random times) @tazzie (rest in peace taz) @edabake @tallwalker4850 @serenn @bluewalker8200 @exuberantplane4067 @swiftygirl13 @ri337 @jaja25 ------------------------- reminders~ your feelings are real, and you have every right to feel them, to speak them but just remember that you won't always feel the same way trying your best is enough and it's all you ever gotta do you are a human, and as a human, you have the right to make mistakes  your choices, thoughts, feeling and actions, make sense in the bigger picture of your life, and by a big chance anyone else, exactly in your shoes would do the same  and always remember; love yourself: speak yourself  'cause "life gets hard and it gets messed up when you give so much but it's not enough when the high's too high and the low's too low  ....  don't you let it kill you,  even when it hurts like hell oh whatever tears you apart,    don't let it break your heart"    sometimes, it can feel so heavy, to be a human to feel, to get thru daily life,  sometimes, it feels so lonely to be who you are, sometimes, mind gets cruel, too much thoughts and memories,  when you really just want it to stop, to go silent and to give you a rest sometimes, it's panic, other times, sadness anger, exhaustion, frustration sometimes, it is too much to process, other times, numbness and regardless of what it is, how big or small you don't have to face it alone by a big chance, i can't solve the problem, but hey, dark places are much less scary when not alone sharing, talking and feeling understood can help you feel much more ready to face, get thru and sometimes, solve the problems 
Read more...
hirai111
L Discoverer 1 316
5.0 star rating
Rating
Listens toOver 18 Last activein last week
Hi, I'm Hira, and I'm here to support you to the best of my ability. I genuinely enjoy talking and helping people, so feel free to talk to me about anything – I won't consider it a burden. If you're feeling the weight of ongoing conflicts or distressing events like those involving human rights violations, know that I'm here to listen. I strongly condemn any form of oppression, ethnic cleansing, apartheid, genocide, racism, dehumanization, sexism, etc. My goal is to provide a safe space for you to express your emotions and find support during difficult times. As someone who has an ED, MDD, CPTSD, GAD, and SAD, I really hope everyone feels like they have support in their life and know that they are truly not alone when dealing with mental illnesses. You are so strong for living and are so much more than what a mental illness defines you as. It may feel like no one understands how horrible it is to deal with mental illnesses and the loneliness and vulnerability that comes along with it but so many people might feel the same as you, and with some support, can slowly heal. We are all human, and that's all it takes to feel empathy and compassion. I hope that you are able to find that support you need and can find so much happiness that you don't know what to do with it.  I am a psychology major with a concentration in clinical psychology and am preparing for a masters in mental health counseling. I also have completed the 40 hour accredited RBT training course and will be taking the exam to be certified as an RBT. I currently am not taking requests, but will start taking them again once I can! Thank you for taking the time to read this and I sincerely hope you feel heard for your issues and feel better, even if its just a little bit better than how you felt before. <3 
Read more...
Kate1531
L Explorer 3 391
5.0 star rating
Rating
Listens toOver 18 Last activein last week
Hi there! I am a counselling and psychology student and love listening to others and helping them with whatever is on their mind! 
Read more...
compassionateMoon4024
L Supporter 1 102
5.0 star rating
Rating
Listens toOver 18 Last activein last week
I am a individual with struggles and successes. I've been told I couldn't do something. Then I prove them wrong. Prove them wrong by doing it!  I do have a strong background in special Education, Healthcare and working with disabilities.
Read more...
EvelyneRose
L Epitome 18 1285
5.0 star rating
Rating
Listens toTeens & Over 18 Last activein last week
Hello! I chose the picture of an apple because it represents to me growth and potential. The apple can grow to become the best apple it can be. I think we all have potential, and I also believe that most people are not solely good or bad- we are a combination of light and dark. That's just human nature. I've been here since 2013, and I am now in my 30s. I have always been told I'm a good listener and person to come to. People have come to me years after talking to them because they remembered I was someone to confide in. I like to think of myself as open minded, non judgmental, and compassionate. I try to be honest, but tactfully so. I find the best people in my life are those that tell me what I need to hear, not what I want to hear, and that is something I practice with others. I hope to be here for you, and I will cheerlead you on. I cannot give advice, but I will be a support for you. I take casual chats, so even if you're just bored or need someone to talk to and don't have a pressing issue, I am happy to talk to you.  My strengths lie in the subjects I have listed on my profile, so I will not be the best fit for everyone (and that is okay!). I hope everyone can get the help they need from whoever it is, even if it's not me. If I cannot help you, I will let you know and try to connect you with someone that can. I do the best with chats that can be asynchronous, as my schedule varies and I don't want to promise I can sit down for a real time chat if I cannot. That is unfair to both of us time wise, and time is a precious thing. Updated March 23, 2023 I have joined the admin team as a Quality Specialist for the volunteer community. I am still involved in all the things below, but as I am now involved widely across the site in different ways, if you need to know who to talk to regarding any of the below activities, please PM me and I will direct you to who you should talk to, whether it be me or someone else. If you have questions about anything Quality related, please PM me!
Read more...
AccidentalTentacles0
L Helper 10 66
5.0 star rating
Rating
Listens toOver 18 Last activein last week
"Reaching out to embrace the random, Reaching out to embrace whatever may come" Lateralus, Tool ------------------------- *When my status is red (offline) I am not accepting direct chat requests, but you are welcome to leave offline messages. If my status is green (available) then I am available to chat!* I will try to respond to offline messages within 48 hours. Please read my bio before reaching out to me. ------------------------- I am a 40-something scientist from the UK with a love for animals and music. People here tend to call me acci or tent and I hope you'll find that I try to approach things in a compassionate but logical way. I hope I can help you find your way to a better and calmer day. I am here with an open mind to listen to whatever is going on for people, particularly those struggling with different flavours of anxiety, panic and stress, and related impacts on wellbeing like difficulty sleeping. I have personally experienced depression, anxiety disorders (social, health and generalised), workplace bullying and stress, panic attacks and an eating disorder, but am now thankfully in a place where I can use that experience to help others. Please note I am not the right person to support anyone who wants to talk about eating disordered behaviours, self-harm or sexual health problems, so please select a different listener for those topics. As a heads up, usually I can dedicate around 40 mins per chat to listen (if live) but will say this at the start of the chat and notify when that time is nearly up to avoid any unexpected or abrupt chat endings :) You might find me (or my member alter ego) hanging out in member group support rooms, lending an ear when I do not have enough time or focus to dedicate to 1-1 chats, so I might meet you there some time!
Read more...
trueconfidant123
L Master 11 977
5.0 star rating
Rating
Listens toOver 18 Last activein last week
Accepting Limited Chats, Feel Free To PM ------------------------- Learner, Explorer, Driven by Creative Instinct My Current Roles on 7 Cups  Verified Listener Forum Supporter: 7 Cups Internship Community Forum Supporter: Women's Issues ------------------------- My Former Roles on 7 Cups Listener Room Supporter Peer Support Forum Supporter: Positivity & Gratitude Community Forum Supporter: 7 Cups Academy ------------------------- I specialise in chats concerning  * Relationship Stress, Breakups * Anxiety, Panic Attacks * Family Stress * Women's Issues * General Mental Health, Getting Unstuck having been through them myself  However, I also take chats on the categories mentioned in the list below ------------------------- 🟢 Available for listening now, feel free to reach out 🟡 Currently busy with another chat or other 7 Cups duties, expect a delay 🔴 Currently offline ------------------------- Note: * * I do not take chats on/cannot assist you with Sexual Health Issues, LGBTQ+ Issues, Alcohol/Drug Abuse, Self-Harm, Suicidal Ideation, Crisis due to personal reasons or trigger. If you are someone looking forward to seek support under these categories, you may browse alternative listeners/check out crisis resources. * I am not comfortable with inappropriate, flirtatious texting and I am strictly against it. Kindly respect my boundaries as a listener. Peer Appreciation Form [https://tinyurl.com/PeerAppreciation]
Read more...
Rainboho
L Intermediate 1 182
5.0 star rating
Rating
Listens toOver 18 Last activein last week
I'm Missy, a verified listener and would be honored to listen and support you!  🏳️‍🌈 LGBTQIA+ 🧡 Porn/sex issues & their partners ❣️ Addiction accountability partnership 💚 Cannabis (medical & otherwise)  💜 Spiritual, trans-personal crisis  💖 Confidence in love & lust  💗 New relationships  💛 Alcohol issues  💙 Survivors of child abuse  ❤️‍🩹 Living with chronic disease ❤️ Self love acceptance  💕 Mixed orientation relationships 💔 Relationship breakdowns 🖤 Grief & accepting mortality 🐶 Grieving pet loss 🐰 Animal rights advocacy support (for activists and vegan/vegetarians) If I'm set to busy or away please know I'll reply as soon as I return.
Read more...
Negative2Positive
L Explorer 10 530
5.0 star rating
Rating
Listens toOver 18 Last activein last week
Hello, I'm Negative2Positive, AKA Troy, and I'm here to help those in need of somebody to talk to. I speak English and Spanish. The talk is usually about something difficult you may be going through at the moment but can be about anything, e.g. relationship goals, adjustment troubles, new accomplishments, christian beliefs or concerns ✝️, LGBTQIA 🏳️‍🌈, whatever is in the noggin at the time really. Hola, soy Negative2Positive, también conocido como Troy, y estoy aquí para ayudar a aquellos que necesitan alguien con quien hablar. Hablo inglés y español. La conversación suele ser sobre algo difícil por lo que puede estar pasando en este momento, pero puede ser sobre cualquier cosa, p. Metas de la relación , problemas de adaptación, nuevos logros, creencias o preocupaciones cristianas ✝️, LGBTQIA 🏳️ 🌈, lo que sea que esté en el momento realmente.
Read more...
amiablePeace77
L Epitome 19 7730
5.0 star rating
Rating
Listens toOver 18 Last activein last week
I'm sorry but I'm not able to take any 1:1 chats other than the regulars.  If you are looking for a listener please browse here https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/ Hello,  I’m  Ami,  a verified listener on 7cups. My support will be confidential, without any judgement. There are no topics which make me feel uncomfortable and I will do everything I can to make you feel welcome, safe and understood.  7 Cups is not equipped to support crisis situations. If you are in crisis please reach out to a crisis line for appropriate support. Here are some sourced crisis lines and resources to help you: * * (U.S.) The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline [https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/] at 1-800-273-8255 * Crisis Text Lin [https://www.crisistextline.org/texting-in]e * * (U.S.) Text HOME to 741741 * (Canada) Text HOME to 686868 * International Association for Suicide Prevention [https://www.iasp.info/resources/Crisis_Centres/] * * Canada call 1-833-456-4566or text 45645 Crisis Services Canada [http://www.crisisservicescanada.ca/]  * UK * * Call Samaritans [https://www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help/contact-samaritan/talk-us-phone/] 116 123 * Call Hopeline [https://papyrus-uk.org/hopelineuk/] 080020068204141 or text 0778620209697 * Australia Lifeline Crisis Support  [https://www.lifeline.org.au/get-help/topics/lifeline-services] call  13 11 14 * India click the link to find a local crisis line with Befrienders India [http://befriendersindia.net/helpline-details.php] My listening times are Monday to Friday  as per arrangement , usually my listening time will be 45 to 60 min. once a week or 2 x 30 min. twice a week. A few things about me: Some of my favorite activities are exercising,  yoga,  meditation,  nature walks and cooking. My approach to life is holistic, keeping the mind, body and spirits balanced. I consider living in harmony with nature  very important. I had many challenges in my life and learned to cope and overcome them and would be glad to support you to achieve the same.  Volunteering here on 7 cups  means a lot to be,   I am very passionate about helping others. I want to acknowledge the courage that it takes to reach out, this is not easy, but you made the first step. Please feel free to message me any time, I promise I will get back to you as soon as I can.
Read more...
Raspberrycheesecake
L Maven 9 596
5.0 star rating
Rating
Listens toTeens & Over 18 Last activein last week
Currently not taking member chats, please go to Browse Listeners [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] to reach out to another listener! ★ Welcome to my profile - I am Rasp. I love cats, reading and listening to music. I know what it feels like to be alone and needing a non-judgemental ear to listen to you. I know that sometimes it is hard to take that step. But it's good that you decided to reach out! ★ Verified Adult-Teen Listener • Support Session Leader • Intern Graduate (with Honors) • Peer Support • Verified Listener Team • Global Mod • Internship Mentor • Adult/Teen Quality Mentor • Support Team Leader For Eating Disorders • Community Mentor Leader For Eating Disorders • Q and A Team • Doorkeeper • Teen Transiting Mentor ★ Self-Harm Recovery (Adults) - Monday's at 3:15PM EDT • Eating Disorders (Adults) - Friday at 6PM EDT ★ Listeners - Find me in the LSR. Members - Feel free to message me when I am offline, my messages are a safe place for you!
Read more...
kindheartedLily
L Connoisseur 10 759
5.0 star rating
Rating
Listens toTeens & Over 18 Last activein last week
✨Unavailable to take on new member chats✨  Members who I've supported over some time, I love hearing updates from you and am happy to see your messages. Please note that I am CURRENTLY UNAVAILABLE FOR LIVE CHATS  and will only be able to respond asynchronously. It may take me a few days to respond to messages, but I will respond when I can. I appreciate your patience and understanding. 🔷🔷🔷 If you need support, please reach out to another listener by clicking here to browse listeners [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/].  ------------------------- Hi and welcome! I'm so glad you're here💙 I'm a verified and trained active listener on 7 Cups who is here to listen and offer support. As someone who has struggled with their own mental health, I understand the value of having someone to talk to during tough times. I use my education, along with my own lived experience, to support and guide others on their journey. I'm here to listen with zero judgment. You are not alone 💜  🔶 My roles on 7 Cups🔶 Lead Team Leader of the Listener Coaching Team Quality Mentor Adult-Teen Listener Coach Chat Support Safety Patrol Team Teen Transition Mentor Adult-Teen Listener Verified Listeners Team  Team Lightship **This is a great tool to convert GMT to your time zone: https://greenwichmeantime.com/time-gadgets/time-zone-converter/ [https://greenwichmeantime.com/time-gadgets/time-zone-converter/] ------------------------- Status Green: This means I am online and available to start a conversation. Please don't hesitate to reach out and message me.   Orange: This means I'm online but am busy talking with other members and am unable to take more chats. You are more than welcome to send me a message and I will respond as soon as I can. Red: This means I'm offline. Please don't hesitate to message me and I will respond when I am back online. 
Read more...