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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

Kait
L Explorer 5 337
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☺️Hello friend!! ☺️ I'm so happy you've found me on 7 Cups of Tea.  🌿 🌿 🌿 🌿 🌿 🌿  I'm a 27 year old verified active listener and I love talking with and supporting people who are in need of a non-judgmental & friendly chat. I've been on 7cups for a while now and enjoy the work we do together. Life has a habit of throwing us a few curveballs and sometimes we just need someone to talk to. My approach to active listening centers community, mindfulness, and gratitude, because these are my core values as a listener & as a person in mental health recovery myself.  Please note: I am a volunteer listener, not a mental health professional. Therefore, if you are experiencing a crisis, such as suicidal thoughts or self harm thoughts, please see the 7cups crisis resource page, which can be found here [http://www.7cups.com/crisis.php] 🌞 🌞 🌞 🌞 🌞 🌞  About chatting with me: I am a part of the LGBTQ 🌈 community and enjoy taking chats regarding LGBTQ topics. I also have personal experience with topics such as anxiety, depression, grief and loss, relationships and codependency (as well as non monogamous/polyamorous relationships), borderline personality, OCD, PTSD, women's issues, spirituality & religion, chronic pain and physical disabilities, homelessness, and self harm. I accept a variety of chats both within these issues and outside of these issues and have education in social work.  Please note that I do not offer chats related to details about sex. My chats are typically 30 minutes, sometimes up to 1 hour in length & are offered on an ad-hoc basis. I unfortunately can't guarantee reliable, on-going chats. I might offer a follow up chat or two, and/or brief ongoing check-ins as my capacity allows 😊 (Long-term listening might be available on a case-by-case basis).   🌺 🌺 🌺 🌺 🌺 🌺 My roles on 7cups include: -Trained & Verified Active Listener  -Mindfulness Room Supporter -Listener Discussion Leader ✨✨✨✨✨✨ About Me:  In my free time I enjoy painting, playing board games, spending time in nature, stargazing, and volunteering. I also love to dance, swim, read, spend time at the library, journaling, and writing. A fun fact about me is that I spent a summer working at a national park!  Thank you for taking the time to read my profile and I hope we can connect soon! 🍀 🍀 🍀 🍀 🍀 🍀
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kenzolena
L Exemplar 4121
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Listens toTeens & Over 18 Last activein last week
Heyy I'm Lena and welcome to my listener bio ♡ 🚨 Currently my memory is acting up duo to health related matters so I might not remember all correctly 🚨                                                                                 Peer Appreciation Form [https://tinyurl.com/PeerAppreciation]  ————- ♡ ————- Remembering Courner ————- ♡ ————- Fly high Blazer, 9 Oct, 2024 ✝️🤍🕊 currently not fully active duo to my loss ————- ♡ ————-♡————-♡ ————- A little about me : ) We can talk about any topic, you can be honest with me, you never ever bother me. I always try making you feel comfortable and smile in our chats. You are enough and loved In case nobody told you today: am glad you're here today😊 I don’t judge, you can be you in our chat. If you just want to chat that’s okay, if you wanna talk about something that's okay too. You can tell me what you're comfortable with. If you want to be my friend then lets be friends I absolutely love cats and dogs 🐾, I have a dog which is named Blazer. My favorite color is purple and green My pronouns are she/they. Topics i dont take- I will listen to you and give you support as best as I can while using my active listening skills with almost most topics <3, but there are a few topics that I’m not able or comfortable talking about.  The topics that I’m not able to talk about are, sexual health, sexual assault and abuse, I also don’t talk about certain topics in relationships or break-ups but I am able to take these chats and I will let you know if it triggers me. ——- ♡ ————-  ————- ♡ ————-————- ♡ ————-  ————- ♡ ————-————- ♡ ————-  ————- ♡ ——— =-Roles-= 🍄I am able to edit and delete forum posts (forum key badge) 🍄 🍃 Leading Mindful Minutes 🍃 🦋 Sub-Leading Kahoot Sessions Team 🦋  🤍Leading Welcome Committe 🤍 🍂 Part of the Kahoot team 🍂 🌌 Peer Supporter!🌌 🫂 Chat Supporter 🫂 🌸 Listener chatroom supporter 🌸 🌈 Global Moderator 🌈 🐞 room supporter! 🐞 💜 (teen) Quality mentor 💜 🔥 Teen transitioning mentor 🔥 Listener Verifying Team: Do you want to become a verified listener? You can learn more here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/VerifiedListenersProject_1839/IWanttobeaVerifiedListener_46935/1/]! 🦕 Verified Listener 🦕 🚪Doorkeeper🚪 🌟 Spot 🌟 🐾I completed 8 weeks of the leadership program.🐾 👩‍🎓 Completed the Leadership Development Program 👩‍🎓 Links you may find helpful ... Guidelines  [https://www.7cups.com/community-guidelines] Community Calender [https://www.7cups.com/home/communityCalendar.php] Community Forums [https://www.7cups.com/home/] Report A Member/Listener [https://help.7cups.com/hc/en-us/requests/new] ————- ♡ ————- Listener Twin ————- ♡ ————- @lightandhope51 - She is awesome pawesome and truly a dear person to me. ————- ♡ ————- Quote Courner ————- ♡ ————- when our light starts to dim we sometimes need someone elses to help bright up ours ❤️  “No matter who you are, where you're from, your skin color, gender identity: speak yourself. "Find your name, find your voice by speaking yourself.” ————- ♡ ————- Status meaning  ————- ♡ ————- Green status: I’m online and taking requests/chat, please leave a message if you think I am a good fit for you, I’m here for you and I’m an active listener. Orange status: I’m online but I’m not actively taking requests or chat ( even though my status is orange I will still be take chats while this color is active, feel free to leave a message and I will get back to you as soon as I can) I am most likely in the chat rooms or online in another way. Red Status: There is a chance that I’m online but not actively taking chats or personal requests. ✦ My response time is within 2-5 working days. Updated on 9th of September, 2024
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Riho
L Intermediate 8 296
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Listens toOver 18 Last activein last week
Never say the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon. 🇭🇰 香港 🇨🇳  我会说中文 最近看到一句话,我觉得是我很想成为的样子。自我但不顽固,洒脱却又负责。我觉得, 现在我还算坚持自我。但是, 有时候也挺顽固的。会去否定自己不了解的事情。还不够洒脱,也不够负责。有时候会因为自己的情绪去影响自己应该做的事情。 ------------------------- Hi. You can call me Riho. I am an international student 香港. I prefer to support about topics relating to studying, your anxieties and general low mood. I am not good with depression, but I will try my best. I can speak to you in English, Chinese or Japanese. ------------------------- The most important day in your life is the day you decide that you are good enough for you. It's the day you set yourself free.
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ItsPhenix
L Helper 4 34
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Listens toOver 18 Last activein last week
hey! I'm phenix but I go by many names, please don't call me any nicknames with out my permission. I will be on and off, and mostly on during later hours est.
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Kaleidoscope11
L Apprentice 1 98
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Kate1531
L Explorer 1 377
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Listens toOver 18 Last activein last week
Hi there! I am a counselling and psychology student and love listening to others and helping them with whatever is on their mind! 
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bluelotus99
L Epitome 19 20821
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Listens toOver 18 Last activein last week
MydogLiz8
L Proficient 7 1759
5.0 star rating
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Listens toOver 18 Last activein last week
🖤Sorry, I am not accepting new member chats at the moment🖤 ♥️Hii, Liz here, welcome to our safe space!🖤 I love to listen and support and will do all I can to make your day go a little smoother. If you have any questions, need links for resources, vent to get things off your chest, or any other support, I will do my best in helping. If I don't know the information needed to help off hand, no worries I will find it as soon as I can. No question is unvalued, too big or too small!   🙏Please don't hesitate to reach out. If I am unavailable, I will reach back out as soon as I can, just leave a message❤️. Thanks for being here, and I hope you love 7 cups of Tea as much as I do!🫂 ✨*I wish everyone better health and hope all is able to take time for self care, allow yourself to take a break outside and enjoy some fresh air!🐕  🤔*If perhaps you're curious how I came up with my username, MydogLiz8, it's pretty simple. 1.) My dogs real name was Alizabeth, I called her Liz for short, at the time I created my username she was 8 years old. She was my sweetest companion, my best friend, supporter, listener, caregiver, plus some, and some more. I wanted to share some of her spirit, love, understanding, her judge free support we all deserve, to you all here on 7 cups. 🌟🤩 2.) She was also cuddling up against me, and staring at me when I was asked to create a username 😎🫣         🌟 My Roles 🌟   🦮 AE team (former)   🦮 ATL listener (former)   🦮 Chatroom Mentor   🦮 Chat Support (former)   🦮 Moderator (newbie hub) (former)   🦮 Peer Supporter   🦮 Quality Mentor (former)   🦮 Safety Patrol   🦮 Verified Listener 👂I love to listen! ❤️ I'm here to support if you'll have me!!   🗓️**Here's my picktime link if you'd like to 📖 an appointment: 🖤❤️https://www.picktime.com/MydogLiz8 *You just have to fill in your first name, whichever name you want, then pick a time. No need to fill anything else out. Please don't for safety reasons. ❤️ *Here is also a quick link to find other listeners if I'm unavailable♥️:   https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/
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ShadowFaerie
L Paragon 10 6865
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Hi, I'm Faerie, 🧚‍♀️ & I'm glad you found me here on 7cups I would like the opportunity to "hold your hand" through whatever subject you need help with, whether light or heavy. I will take the time to listen, without judgement. I'm a verified listener here, in the "35+" age group, & I have experience working with adolescents & adults, (including LGBTQIA+), professionally, & in volunteer positions. I have experience with a wide range of topics, including family issues, relationship issues, dv, rape, abuse, painful breakups, disabilities, homelessness, chronic pain, addictions & other speed-bumps/road-blocks that life throws us, often when least expected. I enjoy cooking, reading, painting (watercolors and sometimes acrylic), writing creatively, being independent, having picnics outside, music (of all different genres) & sci-fi, among many other things. Welcome! I look forward to meeting you! "Our sorrows and wounds are healed only when we touch them with compassion". Buddha If my status icon is Red 🔴 I am currently unavailable and I will try to return your message as soon as possible but it could take a while. Please allow for up to 48 hours. If my status icon is Orange 🟠 I am busy with another member or with other roles here. I will return your message as soon as possible but it may take an hour or two If my status icon is Green 🟢 I am available and should return your message shortly Special thanks and cheers to my bubbly, energetic listener twin from down under @bouncyCandy4246 (bouncyCandy4246 is not currently taking new members)
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Moonstar2345
L Apprentice 9 102
4.5 star rating
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Listens toOver 18 Last activein last week
I am here to listen, support and understand you. So feel free to talk to me about anything.
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mykenziemarie03
L Guru 3 1193
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(please read bio before requesting chat) My name is Mykenzie (she/her). I am 20. I am currently an undergraduate student at a tiny, rural liberal arts college majoring in psychology and English. I aspire to become a clinical psychologist and research with special populations. Off-site, I work in a disability resources office and a suicide hotline. I am passionate about all kinds of literature, metal and rock music, yoga, and drinking tea.  I am a safe person for people of all identities. I aim to provide a non-judgmental space where you take the lead and share your experiences without any expectations or fear. I do not feel comfortable providing support to anyone older than 22.
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comfortableNight4463
L Genius 3 2569
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Listens toTeens & Over 18 Last activein last week
Hi! I'm Night. I am here to provide support by listening to you. 
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