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ShadowFaerie
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L Paragon 7
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Number of ratings248 Number of reviews105 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceMar 6, 2015 Last activein last week GenderFemale PathStep 1,434 People helped426 Chats6,640 Group support chats315 Listener group chats447 Forum posts457 Forum upvotes600
Bio

Hi, I'm Faerie, 🧚‍♀️ & I'm glad you found me here on 7cups


I would like the opportunity to "hold your hand" through whatever subject you need help with, whether light or heavy. I will take the time to listen, without judgement.


I'm a verified listener here, in the "35+" age group, & I have experience working with adolescents & adults, (including LGBTQIA+), professionally, & in volunteer positions. I have experience with a wide range of topics, including family issues, relationship issues, dv, rape, abuse, painful breakups, disabilities, homelessness, chronic pain, addictions & other speed-bumps/road-blocks that life throws us, often when least expected.


I enjoy cooking, reading, painting (watercolors and sometimes acrylic), writing creatively, being independent, having picnics outside, music (of all different genres) & sci-fi, among many other things. Welcome! I look forward to meeting you!


"Our sorrows and wounds are healed only when we touch them with compassion". Buddha


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Special thanks and cheers to my bubbly, energetic listener twin from down under @bouncyCandy4246 (bouncyCandy4246 is not currently taking new members)

Recent forum posts
🐶😺How It Started/How It's Going: Pets Edition!!😺🐶
General Support / by ShadowFaerie
Last post
 November 5th
...See more We all adore our pets. They bring us joy, comfort, sometimes a little mischief 😁 and enrich our lives in so many ways. Here's your opportunity to show them off and bring smiles to the community! Share some pictures of your fur babies, feathered friends and other pets over time. 
On my Anniversary as a Listener
Positivity & Gratitude / by ShadowFaerie
Last post
 March 13th, 2016
...See more Hello beloved 7 cups community! On my anniversary as a listener I can think of no better way to celebrate than by expressing gratitude to this amazing community! I wanted to share a number of amazing individuals who have helped me or impacted me in a significant way on my journey here at 7 cups. Through these people (and I'm certain to have missed some people, totally unintentionally, but please let me know so I can add you in!) I have gotten technical advice & links to amazing support & steadfast friends! I have gotten so much from my 7 cups experience that I can also pass it on. It simply wouldn't have been the same without the following (and more!) in no particular order: @Sam, @StormsWillPass, @AutumnLeigh, @JaceofSpades, @RocketsMom, @StandsforFreedom, @Chioo, @ItsLee, @YayyySphere, @Resolve, @MissZ, @WarmChocolateMug, @fluffyUnicorns84, @Liz1000, @beYOUtywithin, @TheDeaningofLife, @Kash216, @vivelespatates, @Lee, @Paula02, @MoonlitFae, @ZaraSmiles, @Heather, @Pat, @QuickJazz, @Rhycochet, @SunshineCat, @MonBon, @AutunmFox, @Amelia, @Power, @Michaelmichael, @Essieluvsu, @Eunoia, @Cadence. These are just a sampling of the amazing listeners, mentors & community leaders who have impacted me & I'm sure that many who have also made a significant impact on me did not make the list but are definitely in my heart. Thanks to you all for a wonderful year of growth & service! All my love, ShadowFaerie
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Feedback & Reviews
Very kind and warming. Actively listens and keeps you feeling heard.
Fabulous and fantastic Faerie
Kind, practical, patient, thought provoking
Insightful, thoughtful and understanding
The best person i have ever spoke to, always knows what to say, so happy to be helped by them
ShadowFaerie has been a consistent and amazing listener over the past few months. She is an amazing listener and such a huge asset to this site but above all, she is a kind caring compassionate and infinitely loving human being that makes this world a better place. Thank you for being there for me and being a great person to talk to on the good and bad days. You are amazing and I am so grateful for you ❤️
ShadowFarie, you are wonderfuk person and fantastic listener.
Very positive! Doesn’t ignore anything you say
Best Shadow listener around.
Excellent listener.
Really good. Very understanding even with odd topics.
A true saint and the best listener!
Good listener keep up the good work, sincere
The absolute best!!!
Good
Thank you
Love herrr
Extremely understanding, considerate, kind, and helpful when your really in trouble.
Most understanding person I have ever met the best !!!
very nice
friendly, very supportive and kind a sweet person!
Been talking to her consistently for two years now. She's one of my closest friends.
She's nice, glad I met her.. Needs more people like her!!! Shes Great!
This is the best listener on 7 cups
Very nice
Thanks for chatting and the input you gave me :)
I like this person. They are very helpful. I asked them not to sugar coat anything and they did it in such a polite yet firm manor and I respect that. 💜
You are awesome
Best listener and so understanding. Such a lovely and truly compassionate person!!
Best listener ever. She was so helpful and caring. Hats off to her
So kind listener, made my mood happy. Thanks for her concern
You're a true gift to this world
❤️
Amazing.. I have no words thank you
this an actual Faerie disguised as a person. The Faeries who are a very friendly group of Elementals who love to be spoken to and asked to help. they are here on earth at this time to safeguard the plant kingdom and to produce beautiful flowers. They sustain life.
the best support someone down could have!
One of the most careing people I've talked to on here. Even in my mood. very understanding
Thanks for your time and helpfulness. You are a great listener.
I love her so much shes so nice :) - Kerri
Listened and responded with the best answer possible. Really helped my morning go good
She is super awesome, highly recommend!
Very helpful and warm! Helped me to get over constant nightmares!
Very great listener! She took a genuine interest in me and offered great support! She helped me better arrange the thoughts in my head which lead me to feeling better. :) I'll for sure be chatting with her again! Very helpful indeed!
Kind and thoughtful responses
Truly ahmazing and very, very helpful of my current situation!!
You'll want to talk to her! She's extremely helpful, she responds immediately, and she feels you. Also, she asks the best questions to help you understand how to proceed with your issue
Always a pleasure to have a conversation with, responds with in-depth responses related to the subject you have on your mind
she is an amazing person really helpful
Strong, caring, wise and a true hero! Thank you for being you. You inspire me
Always there when you need here
she was great help
very nice and caring
Thankyou
Helped me see things differently.
Very straight to the point, very smart and understanding
She's one of a kind
Thanks for listening.
Very recomended .. She saved my life believe it or not! Thank you
Such and incredible listener. I really cannot express how thankful I am to have been able to connect with Kirsten. This was a fantastic experience, and I hope that other people are able to experience some of the hope, validation, and care that I did throughout this conversation. Kirsten gives me hope that we really do have some fantastic people in this world.
Good. Thank you..
very sweet
I've spoken to several listeners at 7 of cups and ShadowFaerie is one of two favorites that I now have. I will hopefully get to chat with her once again. Patient, kind and with good advice as well as a great listener.
A++++++++++, super sweet and understanding
Always kind and understanding.
A great listener!
Shadow faerie is a very empathic person a great listener and very helpful. You can count on shadow faerie to help you and be a great active listener.
I enjoyed talking to she/he. Made me think she or he really understand what I'm talking about. I appreciate it :)
ShadowFaerie is so kind and understanding! They really helped me in a time of need!
Thank you so much for listening to me and giving me such great advice! :)
she is so lovely and so helpful she checks up on me.. and really really listens and seems to genuinely care about how i am. she is understanding and empathetic and she makes me feel someone is there for me.. thankyou.
Fantastic listener. Thanks for everything
A very sensible listener, especially with issues concerning addiction. And very thorough in her follow ups. She's amazing and has been a great help for me here.
Good natured, warm and very helpful. Beyond this words just leave me.
Absolutely fantastic
Very Very Best Person.This Person has the Outstanding Power, abilities to understand the situation.She finds out the actual reason behind the situation .I was very Amazed and she is the best person in the forum to help.Again Thanks Very much
Thank you soooo much
Very very insightful and understanding. Great and analytical. Does not stop the convo until your thoughts and emotions are cleared.
So wonderful!! She really listened to all my points and asked me how I was feeling teh right amount of times.
Faerie is very patient and kind. Always willing to lend a hand.
Most amazing listener ! I have no words to express my gratitude .. Thank you
Really cares and very helpful. Great about following up + responding to messages.
felt relaxed talking to her and felt she was really listening to me

she is a fab listener
Made my year.. I can't stop smiling :) thank you for giving me hope again! I love you ! No words can express my thanks
The most skilled listener out there! Kind , wise and super awesome
Friendly as always, thank you for your compassion.
yes very good
One of the best. Not afraid to be honest. Very kind.
Very cool, glad to have a new friend. Compassionate and understanding, a true giver.
Thanks!
great
good listener
Thank you! So kind, and really understood my feelings x
Extremely patient and kind, made me feel much better.
ShadowFaerie is so good at this! Thank you.
Quite frankly, one of the best I've talked with on this site.
Wonderful. Thank you so much.
A lovely and understanding individual
she was great
Kind, non-judgemental, offers solutions and/or different perspectives where possible. Thank you, this was more helpful than I'd hoped.
Thank you if I don't ever get to tell you this. You really stood by me. You helped a lot and you truly are an exceptional person.
Categories
Depression
Managing Emotions
Work Stress
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Panic Attacks
Anxiety
LGBTQ+ Issues
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Breakups
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Family Stress
Chronic Pain
Domestic Violence
Forgiveness
Grief
Social Anxiety
PTSD
Disabilities
Relationship Stress
Self-Esteem
General Mental Health
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