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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

Aputik
L Discoverer 4 480
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Any concerns, worries, obstacles, or impossible challenges are better off your chest. Within this safe space we will untangle the line of thoughts, feelings, and emotions.  Drop me a line to discuss whatever is on your mind, we will explore it, accept it, and figure out how to make you feel better and what's the right action for you at the moment. =)
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innateJoy9602
L Marvel 2 1260
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❀❀❀❀❀❀❀❀❀❀❀❀❀❀❀❀❀❀❀❀❀❀❀❀❀ Hello friends! I'm Joy! Here to support you as best as I can! <3  Here take a flower & Appreciate a fellow 7cups friend 🌼 Peer Appreciation Form [https://tinyurl.com/PeerAppreciation] Read some articles I've posted! (click on titles!) ┌────❀*̥˚─────────────❀*̥˚───┐ ♥ How to Make and Keep Friends in Adulthood [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/HowtoMakeandKeepFriendsinAdulthood_287542/] ♥ Common Ways We Excuse Toxic Behavior [https://www.7cups.com/forum/relationships/CopingToolsResourcesforRelationships_1161/CommonWaysWeExcuseToxicBehavior_302371/] ♥ Yes, Crying Can be a Form of Self-care [https://www.7cups.com/forum/projectsandevents/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/YesCryingCanbeaFormofSelfcare_297051/] ♥ The Power of Reading Books [https://www.7cups.com/forum/projectsandevents/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/ThePowerOfReadingBooks_285908/] ♥ Know Your Personality Type! [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/KnowYourPersonalityType_286202/] ♥ Why You Should Build A Hobby [https://www.7cups.com/forum/projectsandevents/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/WhyYouShouldBuildAHobby_285882/] ♥ Music Is a Beautiful And Powerful Painkiller [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/MusicIsaBeautifulAndPowerfulPainkiller_285356/] ♥ The Pleasure of Comfort Food [https://www.7cups.com/forum/projectsandevents/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/ThePleasureofComfortFood_288849/] ♥ 5 Ways Journaling Can Help You Cope With Big Life Changes [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/5WaysJournalingCanHelpYouCopeWithBigLifeChanges_284488/] ♥ The Power of Honesty [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/ThePowerofHonesty_285193/] ♥ The Power of Compassion [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/ThePowerofCompassion_287180/] ♥ What Is Your (Psychological) Superpower? [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/WhatIsYourPsychologicalSuperpower_287010/] ♥ Using Art Therapy to Find Purpose [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/UsingArtTherapytoFindPurpose_286868/] ♥ Use This Simple Trick To Beat Procrastination [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/UseThisSimpleTrickToBeatProcrastination_284721/] ♥ How To Communicate Your Needs When You Have Social Anxiety [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/HowToCommunicateYourNeedsWhenYouHaveSocialAnxiety_285725/] ♥ The Four DISC Personality Types. Which One Are You? [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/TheFourDISCPersonalityTypesWhichOneAreYou_285568/] ♥ Self-Care Tips for the Body [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/SelfCareTipsfortheBody_285516/] ♥ How Long It Can Take To Recover From A Breakup According To Research [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/HowLongItCanTakeToRecoverFromABreakupAccordingToResearch_284286/] ♥ If You Could Know The Future, Would You Want To Know? [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/IfYouCouldKnowTheFutureWouldYouWantToKnow_284651/] ♥ How Can I Tell if I’m Depressed or Burned Out? [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/HowCanITellifImDepressedorBurnedOut_284345/] ♥ Self-compassion Makes You A Better Person. Here’s How to Practice It [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/SelfcompassionMakesYouABetterPersonHeresHowtoPracticeIt_283575/] ♥ No One Is Watching: The Spotlight Effect [https://www.7cups.com/forum/projectsandevents/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/NoOneIsWatchingTheSpotlightEffect_287251/] ♥ The Kinds of Loneliness No One Is Talking About [https://www.7cups.com/forum/generalsupport/ManagingEmotions_1599/TheKindsofLonelinessNoOneIsTalkingAbout_300453/] ♥ Wow! The Awe-Inspiring Health Benefits of Sunrises and Sunsets [https://www.7cups.com/forum/projectsandevents/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/WowTheAweInspiringHealthBenefitsofSunrisesandSunsets_296378/] ♥ Is It Unhealthy to Spend a Lot of Time Alone? [https://www.7cups.com/forum/projectsandevents/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/IsItUnhealthytoSpendaLotofTimeAlone_295991/] ♥ 10 Things To Do When You Feel Unmotivated [https://www.7cups.com/forum/projectsandevents/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/10ThingsToDoWhenYouFeelUnmotivated_286044/] ♥ Quote: You Don't Have To Be Positive All The Time [https://www.7cups.com/forum/projectsandevents/ArticlesandQuotes_2369/QuoteYouDontHaveToBePositiveAllTheTime_296900/] └────❀*̥˚──────❀*̥˚─────┘
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joshcrs101395
L Epitome 8 13161
4.5 star rating
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Listens toOver 18 Last activein last week
~ Hi! ~ I'm a recent college graduate with a degree in English & Communication, a writer and proofreader, a music enthusiast and TV/film buff, and a former college radio DJ. A few years ago, I had some people come into my life who had been struggling with some things, and I was able to be there for them and support them in ways they seemed to appreciate greatly. I came to realize how passionate I am about making others feel good, and how much I always want to offer support or help them feel better when they're down; and I became a listener on 7Cups because I wanted to extend that to some of you. I've been a listener here for just over four years now, and I still love doing it. I can talk with teens as well as adults in their 20s or 30s, and I offer long-term support. If you'd like for us to chat, please message me a brief description (it doesn't need to be more than a few words long) of what you're struggling with/looking for support with, and I'll get back to you when I can! These are the topics I have the most experience talking with people about: Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, & Body Image Strategies & exercises to help you accept yourself & your body, & take steps toward self-love Abuse Recovery Helping you recover & move forward from physical, emotional, and/or sexual abuse, work toward blaming yourself less, & manage symptoms of PTSD Anxiety Strategies to help you manage & overcome your general anxiety, social anxiety, or panic attacks Depression Learning self-care strategies, healthy coping skills, & ways to counteract the thoughts & beliefs that fuel your depression Breakups Strategies to help you manage & work through your emotions, & move forward from a difficult breakup Something I like to remind people: There's more to you than just your struggles or your mental-health issues; there's more to you than just the worst things that have happened to you, or the worst ways people have treated you; there's more to you than any one aspect of your life. Let's chat about what's been difficult and see if we can find some strategies to help you feel better. Sending you lots of love and positive vibes (and a hug, if you'd like one) and I'm looking forward to talking with you soon! ~ In memory of Ana ~
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LittleBirdie30
L Paragon 1 3902
5.0 star rating
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Listens toTeens & Over 18 Last activein last week
Hello! I am currently on a self care break. If you have any questions in regards to Care Team, please reach out to @EvelyneRose or @SnowTabby. Thank you! I am not currently taking any chats. Please reach out to another Listener at this time. Thank you. Hello! My name is Birdie! Thank you for visiting my profile! I am happy you are here!  Listener Twin: @ChillingRain 💛 My roles include:  -Chatroom Moderator -Care Team Lead Team Leader -Peer Supporter -Safety Patrol Team -Adult and Teen Quality Mentor -Quality Ambassador Please do not hesitate to reach out to me with any questions! I am here for you!  *I am not online during the weekends, so I will do my best to get back to you during the week. Thank you!* National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 988 & Crisis Text Line: 741-741 A list of international hotlines: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_suicide_crisis_lines
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DancingSongbird579
L Advanced 2 741
5.0 star rating
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Listens toTeens & Over 18 Last activein last week
I care about people and am always trying to do my best to understand the world around me. I try to take a non-judgmental and balanced view of life and I have optimistic tendencies. *** Please note: I am not currently available to start any new chats - sorry 😳 ***
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Helping2findaway
L Guru 2 1163
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Welcome to MY PROFILE!! :D  I understand that life gets challenging  Everyone needs someone to vent to   You and I CANNOT Surivive ALONE, but we NEED each other For SUPPORT, CARE and COMFORT SOMETIMES we just NEED someone to LISTEN  to US 7Cups is the place to FIND a compassionate listener Being an Active listener, holding various roles since 2014 has equipped me for such.  
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Fradiga
L Epitome 19 16524
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Older expatriate, widowed once when much younger. Raised children and step-children. Speaks several languages. Lives in SW France. Retired. Enjoys music (choir singer and former harpist), hikes with her dog, the outdoors and needlework among other interests. Is learning Arabic. Long church experience and interested in all religions. Has plenty of LGBTQ relatives and friends. Is sometimes online for an hour or two from 10 AM, or from 6PM (in GMT+2 zone). Checks her messages the rest of the day. Expat à la retraite. A perdu un mari jeune. A élevé des enfants et beaux-enfants. Polyglotte (apprend l'arabe en ce moment). Vit dans le sud-ouest de la France. Ses activités tournent surtout autour de la musique, les grands espaces, son chien et les travaux d'aiguille. Longue expérience cléricale avec intérêt pour toutes les religions. Beaucoup d'amis et de parenté dans le monde LGBTQ. Disponible vers 10h ou 18h (dans le fuseau horaire GMT+2) la plupart du temps pour une heure ou deux et répond à ses messages le reste du temps.
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ShadowFaerie
L Paragon 10 6868
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Listens toOver 18 Last activein last week
Hi, I'm Faerie, 🧚‍♀️ & I'm glad you found me here on 7cups I would like the opportunity to "hold your hand" through whatever subject you need help with, whether light or heavy. I will take the time to listen, without judgement. I'm a verified listener here, in the "35+" age group, & I have experience working with adolescents & adults, (including LGBTQIA+), professionally, & in volunteer positions. I have experience with a wide range of topics, including family issues, relationship issues, dv, rape, abuse, painful breakups, disabilities, homelessness, chronic pain, addictions & other speed-bumps/road-blocks that life throws us, often when least expected. I enjoy cooking, reading, painting (watercolors and sometimes acrylic), writing creatively, being independent, having picnics outside, music (of all different genres) & sci-fi, among many other things. Welcome! I look forward to meeting you! "Our sorrows and wounds are healed only when we touch them with compassion". Buddha If my status icon is Red 🔴 I am currently unavailable and I will try to return your message as soon as possible but it could take a while. Please allow for up to 48 hours. If my status icon is Orange 🟠 I am busy with another member or with other roles here. I will return your message as soon as possible but it may take an hour or two If my status icon is Green 🟢 I am available and should return your message shortly Special thanks and cheers to my bubbly, energetic listener twin from down under @bouncyCandy4246 (bouncyCandy4246 is not currently taking new members)
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InternalAcceptance
L Exemplar 5 3930
5.0 star rating
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I'm not currently accepting new member chats unless referred right now. Please search for a Listener here [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] or connect with a live listener. I do not take relationship chats. Quality Ambassador Adult-Teen Listener Anonymous Evaluation Team Ambassador Doorkeeper Global Chatroom Moderator Global Forum Moderator Peer Support Quality Mentor Safety Patrol Team Member SPOT Team Member I'm glad that you have found this site are are reaching out for support through difficult times. I am a trained active listener and am able to offer support most effectively for those who are going through addiction, anxiety, domestic violence, eating disorders, grief, and trauma. Some of the things that I enjoy the most are reading, talking walks through the park, hiking, yoga, and writing. I've overcome many obstacles in life and would like to help by listening to you. If I'm online please don't hesitate to reach out. If I happen to be offline, you are always welcome to send me a message and we can set up a time to talk. I'm glad that you are here.
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ToniJayne
L Connoisseur 9 942
5.0 star rating
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Listens toOver 18 Last activein last week
Hi, I'm Toni (she/her/they)   Thank you for reaching out today, count it as a self-care success! (Go you!) ------------------------- If in urgent need of a listener, please click here: ⏩Need to Talk to Someone? - 7 Cups [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/?badge=0&find=&sort=availability&category=&ageGroup=&listType=&gender=&religion=&country=&language=] ⏪ ------------------------- I bring compassion, acceptance, empathy, respect & curiosity to every session. Exploration, expression & brainstorming are key elements of my chats and my approach to mental health. Aligned with GMT. When Offline: Please drop me a message, I will respond as soon as possible, this may take some time as I have infrequent activity. More about me: ⋆ Proudly NEURODIVERGENT: AuDHD & Dyslexic. ⋆ 3+ years working in NHS Talking Therapies. ⋆ BSc in Psychology from Cardiff University.  ⋆ Has lived experience with long-term depression, anxiety & panic disorder. ⋆ Has several hidden disabilities and long-term health conditions including: Autism, Fibromyalgia, PCOS, Chronic Migraines, Dyslexia, POTS, IBS, Chronic pain, ADHD, Asthma, Vasovagal syncope, Acne, Hypermobility Spectrum Disorder... ⋆ Hobbies & Interests: Manga/Webcomics, Cats, Skincare, YouTube, Art, Reading, Driving, Gaming, Fantasy, Crafts, Science, Alternative Music & Learning. My roles at 7cups: ✧ Verified Active Listener ✧ Intern Graduate! With Honours ✧ Former Room Supporter (Mindfulness, 50+, Positivity & Gratitude) ✧ Former Safety Patrol Team ✧ Past ON-SPOT Sharing Circle Host (Listener & Member)
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RarelyCharlie
L Epitome 12 7804
5.0 star rating
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Listens toTeens & Over 18 Last activein last week
Not taking new chats. ------------------------- Coming, going, the waterbirds don't leave a trace, don't follow a path. I'm Charlie and I'm trained, verified and experienced as an active listener for both adults and teens. I like to support people who are struggling with something. Also people who aren't struggling with anything. And people who aren't sure whether they're struggling with anything or not. Please do not message me hoping to start a chat. I am not taking new chats. The poem is said to be by Eihei Dōgen, a Japanese poet who wrote it around eight hundred years ago. I don't know why I like it. I just do. My photo is the moon shining on the sea. There's some darkness and some clouds there but the light of the moon shines on everything. I like this too. Thank you for reading my profile. I'm glad you are here! ------------------------- In an emergency or a crisis: If you are in an emergency or a crisis—for example, if you are at immediate risk of suicide or other serious harm—7 Cups is not the right place, because we cannot deal with emergencies or provide crisis counselling. Click here for information about getting help: Get emergency or crisis support [https://rarelycharlie.github.io/howto/crisis] Listener support: I'm happy to support other listeners with issues related to listening, although I don't have any official role. Please do not message me from a listener account to chat about personal issues. Use a member account for that. To understand why, see: Listener and Member Roles [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenersOnlyForums_38/GlensThoughts_143/ListenerandMemberRoles_210/1/] Schedule: I don't have a fixed schedule. I'm online some weekdays between about 4:30 a.m. and 8:30 a.m. US Eastern Time. In the UK this is 9:30 a.m. to 1:30 p.m. On other days and at weekends I'm often online too, but at times that are not predictable. If you message me or tag me in a forum I'm usually able to respond within a day or two. Miscellaneous resources: For some other resources, mainly for listeners, see my unofficial companion site: The 8th Cup [https://rarelycharlie.github.io/]
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pamharley003
L Marvel 14 1143
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Listens toTeens & Over 18 Last activein last week
***** Not taking any 1-1 chats right now please use https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/ to find a Listener. ***** Will not take any chats with sex of any nature  I am sorry ***** *****twins with @Thedoctorno12 *****                   Adult and Teen Listener I am  a long term listener and a verfied listener on 7 cups. I also have the door keeper badge. Chat's I do take: Anxiety BipolarBorderline (BPD) BreakupsBullying Chronic Pain Depression Diabetes Disabilities Domestic Violence Eating Disorders Exercise MotivationFamily Stress Financial Stress Forgiveness General Mental Health Getting Unstuck Grief LonelinessManaging Emotions Panic AttacksParenting PTSD/Trauma Relationship Stress Self-Esteem Sleeping Social Anxiety Spirituality Student Life Weight Management Work Stress *** I will repsond back to Your PM'S when I return online ****
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