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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

Damonchandio
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Hello, I am Damon. Feel Free To Text Me, I offer a safe and non-judgmental space for you to express yourself and work towards positive change. Let's work together towards healing and self-discovery. "I Just Want to Spread Love Everywhere ❤ A Shoulder For You To Cry On. A Pillow To Comfort You." My Role At 7cups:  Member of Listener Verification Team. Member of Safety Patrol Team. Listener Quality Mentor. Member of Listener Coaching Team. Member of 7cups Welcoming team. Listener Verification Team Project Agent. Listener Coaching Team Project Agent. Member of Anonymous Evaluation Team.
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quietlistener2023
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If I am not online just leave a message and I will try to get back to you as soon as possible  ييمرحب و اهلا و سهلا...اتحدث لغة عربي فصحى و قليل من العمية سورية لأن لغتي الاصلي الانجلزيا و قد ولدت في لندن و اكون الان في سوريا  متخرج من علم النفس و كذلك كلية أصول الدين و لدي تدريب في علاج نفسيا قليلا... استطع اساعد في مجال الصدمات، والعلاقات، المشاكل روحاني أو ممكن تعرض على مشاكل اخر فممكن اساعد بارك الله بكم
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Masterhealer
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മലയാളി. I have gone through Long Distance Relationship (LDR), breakup and loss of loved ones. Verified Listener
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HelpWisely
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Hello. I'm Wisely. (Male, 68). I am a Verified listener since 2015 It is my privilege and joy to share my experiences, understanding and discovery of how life works and how you can be a better version of yourself, create your own reality and manifest everything you desire to experience. I hope that what I share will assist you in your own life journey. I am particularly interested in spirituality, law of attraction, personal exploration, self development, channeled messages from non-physical beings and E.T. related experiences.
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Kait
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☺️Hello friend!! ☺️ I'm so happy you've found me on 7 Cups of Tea.  🌿 🌿 🌿 🌿 🌿 🌿  I'm a 27 year old verified active listener and I love talking with and supporting people who are in need of a non-judgmental & friendly chat. I've been on 7cups for a while now and enjoy the work we do together. Life has a habit of throwing us a few curveballs and sometimes we just need someone to talk to. My approach to active listening centers community, mindfulness, and gratitude, because these are my core values as a listener & as a person in mental health recovery myself.  Please note: I am a volunteer listener, not a mental health professional. Therefore, if you are experiencing a crisis, such as suicidal thoughts or self harm thoughts, please see the 7cups crisis resource page, which can be found here [http://www.7cups.com/crisis.php] 🌞 🌞 🌞 🌞 🌞 🌞  About chatting with me: I am a part of the LGBTQ 🌈 community and enjoy taking chats regarding LGBTQ topics. I also have personal experience with topics such as anxiety, depression, grief and loss, relationships and codependency (as well as non monogamous/polyamorous relationships), borderline personality, OCD, PTSD, women's issues, spirituality & religion, chronic pain and physical disabilities, homelessness, and self harm. I accept a variety of chats both within these issues and outside of these issues and have education in social work.  Please note that I do not offer chats related to details about sex. My chats are typically 30 minutes, sometimes up to 1 hour in length & are offered on an ad-hoc basis. I unfortunately can't guarantee reliable, on-going chats. I might offer a follow up chat or two, and/or brief ongoing check-ins as my capacity allows 😊 (Long-term listening might be available on a case-by-case basis).   🌺 🌺 🌺 🌺 🌺 🌺 My roles on 7cups include: -Trained & Verified Active Listener  -Mindfulness Room Supporter -Listener Discussion Leader ✨✨✨✨✨✨ About Me:  In my free time I enjoy painting, playing board games, spending time in nature, stargazing, and volunteering. I also love to dance, swim, read, spend time at the library, journaling, and writing. A fun fact about me is that I spent a summer working at a national park!  Thank you for taking the time to read my profile and I hope we can connect soon! 🍀 🍀 🍀 🍀 🍀 🍀
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HarveyOfficially
L Apprentice 9 141
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Welcome to my profile below you can find out some things about me ❤️ My name is Harvey, I've been a mental health advocate for 5 years, I am a verified listener here at 7cups. Why don't you drop me a message and I'll get back to you, check out our community page for extra support while waiting for one of our wonderful listeners to answer your requests, thank you for your patience.  Shift statuses 🟢Green- Actively taking chats, Please note I only take three chats at once so I am sorry that I usually don't stay green for long 🟠Orange- Busy, This means I am in an appointment and/or I have reached capacity for that sitting please check back later.  🔴 Red- Inactive/Offline, This means you have found me at my none shift times' please leave a message  (Capacity per sitting is 3 people) Thank you, sending love.💖
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SheKnowsHope
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Hello, my name is Crys and I'd love to help you. PLEASE READ! Chats I do not accept * sexual chats * chats regarding infidelity  * suicidal chats  If you are suicidal contact the hotlines below. Listeners on 7cups are not trained or allowed to take such chats. Thank you Remember the invisible staircase [https://ideas.ted.com/why-are-we-so-bad-at-predicting-what-will-happen-to-us-in-the-future/] in front of you. (Courtesy of T).  As a listener, we are trained in Active Listening, which is listening in a way that shows compassion and empathy. Listeners will ask you open ended questions to help guide the conversation. It is meant to be a supportive environment for you to grow and learn more about yourself. We are here to listen and support you in your time of need, thus advice will not be given.  Advice is really easy to give, but it can sometimes be wrong or even harmful. I don't have a full understanding of your life or world. Any advice I'd give you would be limited and potentially wrong. You are the expert on you. The best thing I can do for you is to help you figure out the path that makes the most sense to you. Thank you for your understanding.  If you are suicidal please go to crisischat.org [http://crisischat.org] or imalive.org [http://imalive.org] to speak with a trained professional.
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MistyMagic
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I am unable to take on new chats from members right now. Please understand. I will be able to soon. So stay tuned!  "I am glad you have found me here at 7 Cups! I am happy to listen to you on many topics. I have experience in lots of different areas - anxiety, depression, and mental illness, families, and relationships, love, school, college, or work-related problems, financial stress, healthy living, food, and special diets, I can also offer support for chronic pain, illness, and disabilities. I am part of both the adult and the teen listening team, (and yes I can still remember being a teen lol) and I also offer long-term support to those that I can and who are in need. If I am not online then you are welcome to leave me a message -  but please tell me what you want to talk about so we can get off to a flying start. I will get back to you when I am next able, but please bear in mind that I get a lot of messages and I will reply to the most urgent first so if you just say hi, do you really just want a hi back? If you are a teen turning 18 soon then you can apply for one of the Teen Transitioning Team to reach out and support you through the transition from the teen side to the 18+ adult side.  The form is here ~~~> https://bit.ly/7CupsTTM If you have any feedback or ideas for the Disability Support Community then please fill out this form ~~> https://forms.gle/EJN1SX74mo6swPwN6  At weekends my response will be slower as that is usually my time off from 7 Cups, and I may not respond to any PMs or new requests till Monday. I  hope you understand that. We all need time for ourselves to recharge our batteries and relax.  ONE STEP AT A TIME "We all have different-sized footsteps that we leave behind on our journey through life. Sometimes we can change the size of our footsteps, the imprint, the impact, the direction. Sometimes our footsteps land on rock and they do not show, or they land on sand and stay for a while, Other times they get washed away by massive oceans or powerful waves. But each and every footstep is important in so many ways. Ways that we may not even know about. Watch your step, think about your steps, plan your next step, and the rest will follow."  Listening ... one step at a time Quote of Acceptance When we don't accept an undesired event, it becomes Anger, When we accept it, it becomes tolerance. When we don't accept uncertainty, it becomes fear, When we accept it, it becomes an adventure,  When we don't accept other's bad behavior toward us, it becomes hatred, When we accept it, it becomes forgiveness. When we don't accept other's success, it becomes jealousy When we accept it, it becomes an inspiration. Acceptance is the key to handling life well !! Butterflies are a symbol of hope that we can all change from a small brown grub into a beautiful amazing butterfly! One step at a time! "Those who never change their minds, never change anything!" (Winston S. Churchill) "Prepare for the worst, but hope for the best!"  (B. Disraeli) Pearls are a great symbol of the grace we create, for the oyster creates its greatest work of art from an irritant.
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Kiwii7
L Advanced 10 568
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It is those who get lost who finds new ways! I am here to listen to you.
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MindChatter
L Paragon 11 6692
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Life is too deep for words. so don’t try to describe it - just live it.
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coolj9
L Epitome 19 15625
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Life is not a problem to be solved, but a mystery to be lived...❤️
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dwetections
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    𝑯𝒊 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒓𝒆! 𝑰 𝒘𝒂𝒏𝒕 𝒕𝒐 𝒉𝒆𝒍𝒑 𝒆𝒗𝒆𝒓𝒚𝒐𝒏𝒆 𝒘𝒉𝒐’𝒔 𝒈𝒐𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒕𝒉𝒓𝒐𝒖𝒈𝒉 𝒂 𝒕𝒐𝒖𝒈𝒉 𝒕𝒊𝒎𝒆. 𝑴𝒚 𝒅𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒎 𝒊𝒔 𝒕𝒐 𝒃𝒆𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒆 𝒂 𝒎𝒐𝒅 𝒐𝒏𝒆 𝒅𝒂𝒚 𝒔𝒐 𝑰 𝒄𝒂𝒏 𝒄𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒖𝒆 𝒎𝒚 𝒋𝒐𝒖𝒓𝒏𝒆𝒚 𝒐𝒏 𝟕 𝑪𝒖𝒑𝒔 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒔𝒖𝒑𝒑𝒐𝒓𝒕 𝒆𝒗𝒆𝒏 𝒎𝒐𝒓𝒆 𝒑𝒆𝒐𝒑𝒍𝒆. 𝑰 𝒘𝒂𝒏𝒕 𝒕𝒐 𝒖𝒏𝒅𝒆𝒓𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒆𝒗𝒆𝒓𝒚𝒐𝒏𝒆'𝒔 𝒄𝒐𝒏𝒄𝒆𝒓𝒏𝒔 𝒂𝒃𝒐𝒖𝒕 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒊𝒓 𝒑𝒓𝒐𝒃𝒍𝒆𝒎𝒔 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒃𝒆𝒕𝒕𝒆𝒓 𝒉𝒆𝒍𝒑 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒎 𝒔𝒖𝒄𝒄𝒆𝒆𝒅. 𝑰 𝒉𝒂𝒗𝒆 𝒃𝒆𝒆𝒏 𝒂 𝒎𝒆𝒎𝒃𝒆𝒓 𝒐𝒇 𝟕 𝑪𝒖𝒑𝒔 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒂 𝒘𝒉𝒊𝒍𝒆 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒉𝒐𝒑𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒄𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒖𝒆 𝒃𝒆𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒐𝒏𝒆. 𝑯𝒆𝒍𝒑𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒎𝒆 𝒃𝒚 𝒈𝒊𝒗𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒇𝒆𝒆𝒅𝒃𝒂𝒄𝒌 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒕𝒆𝒍𝒍𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒎𝒆 𝒘𝒉𝒆𝒓𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒊𝒎𝒑𝒓𝒐𝒗𝒆 𝒉𝒆𝒍𝒑𝒔 𝒎𝒆 𝒂 𝒍𝒐𝒕. 𝑰 𝒂𝒑𝒑𝒍𝒐𝒈𝒊𝒛𝒆 𝒊𝒇 𝑰 𝒅𝒐𝒏'𝒕 𝒓𝒆𝒑𝒍𝒚 𝒊𝒏 𝒕𝒊𝒎𝒆, 𝒑𝒍𝒆𝒂𝒔𝒆 𝒃𝒆 𝒑𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒆𝒏𝒕, 𝑰 𝒗𝒂𝒍𝒖𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒂𝒔 𝒎𝒖𝒄𝒉 𝒂𝒔 𝒆𝒗𝒆𝒓𝒚𝒐𝒏𝒆 𝒆𝒍𝒔𝒆! 𝑭𝒆𝒆𝒍 𝒇𝒓𝒆𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒎𝒆𝒔𝒔𝒂𝒈𝒆 𝒎𝒆 𝒂𝒏𝒚𝒕𝒊𝒎𝒆!! ⭑.ᐟ୨ৎ     - 𝑨𝒍𝒔𝒐 𝑰 𝒂𝒑𝒐𝒍𝒐𝒈𝒊𝒛𝒆 𝒊𝒇 𝑰 𝒅𝒐𝒏'𝒕 𝒓𝒆𝒔𝒑𝒐𝒏𝒅𝒆𝒅 𝒊𝒇 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒎𝒆𝒔𝒔𝒂𝒈𝒆 𝒎𝒆 𝒌𝒏𝒐𝒘 𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒔 𝒊𝒔𝒏'𝒕 𝒂𝒈𝒂𝒊𝒏𝒔𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝑰 𝒋𝒖𝒔𝒕 𝒎𝒂𝒚 𝒃𝒆 𝒃𝒖𝒔𝒚, 𝒐𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒓 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒏 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒕𝒂𝒌𝒆 𝒄𝒂𝒓𝒆! ᕙ( •̀ ᗜ •́ )ᕗ
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