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Hello! I am really glad you found me here, on 7 cups. Feel free to start a chat with me. I am here to help anyone that is in need of my help. I have overcome so much in life and I believe I can help you overcome your problems.


I enjoy everyhting that has to do with music. Music is my escape. I love singing, playing the guitar, as well as writing my own songs. (lyrics-music)


 


So, again, I am here to help with anything and everything. :)


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Am I happy in my relationship?
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by heretohelp7cups
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 December 1st, 2021
...See more Hello everyone! My name is Alex, I'm 21 years old and I'm a bit confused. I was in a relationship from July 2019 until September 2020. My first serious relationship. The first person I ever loved. We made great memories together. I really thought we would spend the rest of our lives together and so did she. We experienced something amazing. We never fought, we always respected and loved each other and we were always honest. It was a relationship based on love and trust. Even our breakup was nice. We didn't even fight then. She was going abroad for work, I still had to finish my studies and she couldn't ask me to leave everything and follow her. She knew I was doing something I loved and didn't want to take it away from me. But, we both knew that long distance wouldn't work. So we broke up. We continued talking for a while, but we stopped around January 2020. We haven't talked since. She's moved on, she seems happy and I'm happy about that. I've also moved on, I'm not even really thinking about her anymore. It took me a long time to even talk to other girls after we broke up (8 months). And the 6-month lockdown we had didn't help with that. When lockdown ended, in May, I started talking to girls, going out on dates, having fun... I didn't want anything serious. I wasn't ready for a relationship, I just wanted to have fun and explore new things with new people. I went out with many different girls, had some one night stands, some "friends with benefits" situations (more like just benefits, not even friends). And I really was having fun. But I missed the feeling of being in an exclusive relationship. I missed it like hell. Sooo... there was this girl that me and another friend were hanging out with, and I liked her from the beginning. But I knew she was straight so I didn't get my hopes up. She recently came out to us as bisexual, though. And also admitted she liked me. So we talked. And we both are the relationship type. And I could never have anything but exclusive with her, and neither could she. So we did go on a couple of dates... thought it was going to be weird because we were friends, but it all felt natural. So we ended up being in a relationship. We've been in this relationship for two weeks now. I know it's still early on, but I'm not sure I'm feeling whatever I'm supposed to be feeling. I understand that every relationship is different... but... it was never like that with my ex. We were crazy about each other from the moment we started talking to the moment we broke up. It was a relationship full of passion and "can't keep our hands off each other" kind of thing. I hate comparing two completely different people.. but I can't help but wonder... Will I always feel like this? Was what I had with my ex so strong that nothing and no one will ever top that or even come close to what we had? Will I never fall head over heels for someone ever again? I'm not thinking about my ex, I don't want her back, I'm completely over her and I know it. I don't miss her. I miss what we had. And I want to have that with my girlfriend... but can I? Should I break up with her? Should I try to make this relationship work? I care about her a lot and I really like her... and she shows me that she REALLY likes me too. She's super sweet and cute and romantic and everything I've ever wanted from a girlfriend. Everyone that knows us says we're perfect together and that they wanted us to become a couple since forever. And they're right. We are great together. We are having fun. We do like each other... But I'm not feeling this *something* that would make my heart skip a beat every time I think about her. I felt that immediately with my ex... never felt it before, never felt it since. Is it something that can be built with time? Or is it something that is just there from the start? To anyone who took the time to read this... Thank you from the bottom of my heart. Really looking forward to reading any replies!
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