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TheOceanKing
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Number of ratings22 Number of reviews6 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceJun 19, 2015 Last activein last week GenderMale PathStep 63 People helped45 Chats169 Group support chats4 Listener group chats10 Forum posts16 Forum upvotes10
Bio

Since my childhood, I found that I made significant positive impact on people whom I talked to in my life. Overtime, I decided to find out what specifically lies beneath my ability to make people feel good like that and like talking to me. I studies lots of subjects from psychology, communication, linguistics and NLP, and hypnosis to find out the answer and form a simple method that I can apply and get consistent results from it over and over again.

I was able to distinguish clearly between what makes someone feels good at the moment, and what makes them feel good in the long run. I also, found out the line between just feeling good as in venting, and resolving an emotional conflict or gaining insight into oneself and feeling good because of it.

To me it isn't about verbal sympathy such as telling someone "Oh.. I am sorry you're feeling disappointed". And it could go with or without giving any advice, suggestion or explanations, depending on the person and situation. But it's 100% non-judgmental, which means even sentences like these "you should appreciate the difficult situation through which your parents are going at the moment" or "so you cheated on him/her!" do not come across.

Note that the last sentence can come across in a completely non-judgmental context, like when someone tells that he/she cheating on someone, I may say: "Oh.. so you're cheated on him/her. I see". In this particular context I am just following what someone has just told me. But it's simply not part what I do to judge someone’s actions even when all ethics of society agree they’re bad.

I have been doing the best in relationship issues, social anxieties, identity, depression and phobias. However, you are still very welcome if you'd like to share your other concerns with me, and I'd do whatever I can to help you.

Feedback & Reviews
He/She genuinely tries to make you think from different point of view, and help you understand how to associate relevant things to handle with complicated problem.
Vey unique way of seeing things and helping
Awesome listener, very emphatic
Great person! puts in all to help you!
Empathetic, good at facilitating and helps you come up with your own solution.
he or she was very nice.
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