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TheOceanKing
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Number of ratings23 Number of reviews7 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceJun 19, 2015 Last activein last week GenderMale PathStep 63 People helped45 Chats175 Group support chats4 Listener group chats11 Forum posts16 Forum upvotes10
Bio

Since childhood, I've noticed that I have a significant positive impact on the people I interact with. Over time, I became curious about the underlying reasons for my ability to make others feel good and enjoy talking to me. To uncover this, I studied various subjects, including psychology, communication, linguistics, NLP, hypnosis and mindfulness meditation. Through this exploration, I developed a simple method that consistently yields positive results.

I was able to clearly distinguish between what makes someone feel good in the moment and superficially, and what makes them feel good in the long run and deeply. I also discovered the distinction between feeling good temporarily through venting and achieving a deeper sense of well-being by resolving emotional conflicts or gaining personal insights.

To me, it’s not about offering verbal sympathy like saying, “Oh, I’m sorry you’re feeling disappointed.” In fact, I believe this kind of sympathy doesn’t truly help people. My method isn’t restricted to giving or not giving advice, suggestions, or explanations, although I usually don’t. And it always remains non-judgmental, which is key.

I have been most effective in addressing relationship issues, social anxieties, identity, depression, phobias and dreams discovery. However, you are very welcome to share any other concerns with me, and I will do whatever I can to help you.

Feedback & Reviews
he has very good listener and has different approach with questions which was very interesting and helpful to dive deeper and understand myself better. thank you, much appreciated!
He/She genuinely tries to make you think from different point of view, and help you understand how to associate relevant things to handle with complicated problem.
Vey unique way of seeing things and helping
Awesome listener, very emphatic
Great person! puts in all to help you!
Empathetic, good at facilitating and helps you come up with your own solution.
he or she was very nice.
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