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Taking a Self-Care Break!

Hello everyone, I am stepping back briefly to recharge. Responses might be delayed as I focus on self-care. For those I'm supporting, feel free to message; I'll reply when I can. Regretfully, I can't accept new requests now! Thanks for understanding. Looking forward to returning soon🌿 
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Codependency
General Support / by NewbWanderer
Last post
 December 8th
...See more ``` love = True  # A shared declaration heart1 = { "courage": 1.0, "fear": 0.0 }   heart2 = { "courage": 0.7, "fear": 0.3 }   def nurture(heart1, heart2):       while love:           if heart2["fear"] > heart1["courage"]:               print("Heart2 hesitates, questioning the algorithm.")               heart2["courage"] -= 0.1  # A dip in self-trust               heart2["fear"] += 0.2  # Compounded by uncertainty           elif heart1["courage"] > 0 and heart2["courage"] < 1.0:               print("Heart1 reaches out, recalibrating the loop.")               heart2["courage"] += 0.05  # Slowly rekindled hope               heart2["fear"] -= 0.1  # Fear eased by connection           else:               print("The program falters - inputs don’t match.")               love = False               break           print("Yearning persists...")       return "Loop exited: one stayed, the other stepped away."   status = nurture(heart1, heart2)   print(status) ``` ------------------------- A Debugger's Musing: I know, I know: it's an odd pursuit, isn't it?  Trying to untangle the essence of love with logic,  To measure connection through mere computation!  And from a programmer's perspective,  this code might just be the most inefficient of all.  But sometimes, we seek patterns where there are none,  Chasing answers in loops and conditions.  If you're anything like me,  why not play along? Set your own values,  and see if this quirky little algorithm brings you any solace.  Oh, and before I forget - This idea sprouted from someone else's brilliance,  A writer whose words wove the foundation for this playful endeavour.  I confess, I didn't seek their blessing before borrowing inspiration.  I hope they’ll forgive this harmless bit of thievery. Thank you, dear muse (@azurePond [https://www.7cups.com/forum/poetry/YourPoetry_2617/whileTrueprintIloveyou_341663/])! 
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What do you call this feeling?
Poetry / by NewbWanderer
Last post
 December 7th
...See more What Do You Call This Feeling? Miss, miss, miss… what is this ache? Why won’t it leave, this shadow, this stake? Why won’t you give me reasons to forget? A heart that aches is a wound unmet. Miss, miss, miss… I press these keys, Trying to write what the heart can’t ease. The end, they say, should bring relief, But mine clings tight to the weight of grief. I remember, Miss, when you showed me the sky, I thought it’d be weather, not your world to spy. You sent me the earth, the air, the scene, I misunderstood, but your meaning was clean. Miss, miss, miss… I asked for a photo still, But you heard my words against my will. I wanted forever; you thought I meant fleeting, Your silence grew loud, our words retreating. You spoke in murmurs, Miss, half a thought, “Hmm, haan, yeah,” but the feeling was caught. You were fragile, I see it now, Yet I never learned the why or how. Miss, miss, miss… you loved to surprise, That jump-scare pride gleamed in your eyes. Spring is near, but the season’s wrong, The air feels empty where you belong. Hopeless, they call me, Miss, and I sigh, I play your songs and wonder why. The leads you loved, who never stayed, Were they just like you, afraid? Miss, miss, miss… I write to forget, But these words only anchor my regret. “Crazy,” you’d tease, “stupid,” you’d grin, And I hear it now, deep within. I try to recall, Miss, your favorite things, Your flowing words, the joy they’d bring. But silence won, and so it stayed— Did you leave, or were you afraid? Miss, miss, miss… how heavy was your bag? Did the weight of the world make you drag? I wanted to share it, ease your pain, But maybe I failed to reach the vein. When our bond was breaking, Miss, did you try? Or did fear convince you to say goodbye? You claimed you knew what you were doing, But I saw the storm inside you brewing. Miss, miss, miss… your books still speak? Do they tell you truths you’re too scared to seek? Did you curse your life, just for a while, Or fight to prove you could reconcile? Was it age, Miss, or restless pride, That kept your feelings locked inside? A fragile heart in bottled pain, That called it peace, but felt the strain. Miss, miss, miss… what’s the line to tread, Between self-respect and words unsaid? If choices were easy, clear to see, Why does this feeling still linger in me? I never learned, Miss, to sever a soul, Yet here you are, out of my control. I can’t say “goodbye,” not even “sayonara”— So I whisper instead, a quiet voilà. Miss, miss, miss… what is this feeling? A hollow ache, a wound still healing. Is this the cost of love mislaid, A ghost of you, that will never fade?
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I sincerely wish... she will fight for her rights!
General Support / by NewbWanderer
Last post
 November 24th
...See more Your Silence, My Voice In your silence lie countless screams, I hear those unspoken pleas of yours. You ask me to stay away, to forget you entirely, But how can I erase the dreams we shared together? You say that fear grips your heart, I say we'll fight this battle as one. Why fight alone for your freedom? Didn't I promise to walk beside you till the end? Is love such a grave sin? Is choosing our own path such a crime? Your God gave you this life to live, Why surrender it to others' design? You ask for time, and I give you Not moments, but a lifetime true. Just don't ask me to forget you, For you're like a verse in my book of life, That feels new every time I read through. People tell me to be practical, To accept that if not you, someone else will do. But how do I make them understand That you're not a choice I made, You're a part of my existence so deep, A story left incomplete I cannot keep. I hold no grudge against your family, I only have this humble plea: Give you time, listen to your voice, Find their joy in your happiness freely. You say my hopes are breaking you down, But how can I leave you alone in this fight? My silence holds my restlessness, Your silence holds your helplessness. The tears that fill your eyes today, Flow from mine just the same way. You ask me to forget and move on, But how can I forget dreams that we dwelt upon? This world holds endless possibilities, Why chain ourselves to age-old traditions? Your Allah and the world I see, Both speak of truths that set us free. I wonder at this painful irony: The women who once lived in chains, Now become the keepers of the same, Passing down their silent pain. What did our elders learn from their youth, When their voices too were stifled and mute? Are they now taking revenge, perhaps, By passing trauma down this twisted route? I think of your daughters tomorrow, Will they find their voice to speak? Or will they inherit this same silence, When they try to choose their path unique? Will their rational pleas be heard Or will they too be told to stay meek? You'll fight your battle alone, you say, I'll stay away as you asked, okay. But remember, I'm here somewhere near, Ready for your call, should you ever need. I only ask this much of you: Don't let your voice fade away. For hidden in your silence deep, Lies the story of my heartache's keep.
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What is IT?
Positivity & Gratitude / by NewbWanderer
Last post
 May 13th, 2023
...See more This is my second post on this site. I am not sure if this is the right place to post this. I beg your pardon if it is not. Otherwise, please bear with me! ------------------------- * What is it that you once found and felt was different? * What is it that you were hesitant to accept at first but accepted as being for the greater good? * What is it that gave you immense happiness for a short period of time and made you feel complete? * What is it that has challenged you so much that you want to see beyond? * What is it that has angered you on several occasions and simultaneously made you realize how immature you still are? * What is it that hurts you, but you want to know & explore it still? * What is it for which you want to become a better version of yourself? * What is it for, even though you still do fine but are not happy in the true sense of the word? * What is it that you don't have but for which you are grateful and still hopeful? * What is it in the same vein that you do not regret, but rather rejuvenation fills you often? * What is it that you do not or cannot control but instead want to understand? * What is it that springs into your mind at the thought of giving up on it? * What is it? Is it all the same? * What is it towards it—mere affection, attachment, obsession, or the thing they call love? ------------------------- Let it be known (if any): what is it? For me, such a thing or person does exist! Feel free to share your thoughts. Have a good one! Much thanks...
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