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GrahZeymahzin
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Number of ratings131 Number of reviews42 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceFeb 21, 2018 Last activein last 6 months GenderFemale PathStep 1,414 People helped305 Chats2,180 Group support chats1,368 Listener group chats2,617 Forum posts605 Forum upvotes1,609
Bio

Note: At this time I am unable to have any live conversations, if you message I can respond when I am available, but responses will not be immediate.



 

 
Please read my whole bio before messaging me. 




  Green: I am available and currently wanting to take chats!!
Orange: I am online but I may be focusing my attention on other things. I might be able to respond to chats, though replies may not be immediate. Please book me for a time I will be available
Red: I am offline or not able to take chats at the moment. Please book me for a time I will be available. 

Heya everyone! I am Grah, an Adult-Teen listener, as well as a leader on 7Cups. Reaching out to a listener is a huge step towards being able to feel better. Just taking this step shows your strength and I am proud of you!






A little about me! My name is Haley, and I am 18. I have bought my first house, and I have 2 playful kittens to keep me company. I identify within the LGBTQ community and support anyone else that is also part of the community. I love to work on my writing, whether it be through poetry or stories/books. I’ve only published a short story before, but my hope is to one day be able to publish a book (or multiple). I also play the violin, and I am slowly learning the guitar. I volunteer as a crisis counselor with the Crisis Text Line (Though I will NOT support those in crisis here on 7Cups)





My past has given me a history with a variety of mental health challenges, including ADHD, Autism, Anxiety, Depression, Borderline Personality Disorder, and self-harm. I was able to take my experience, where I went from rock bottom, to where I am. I’m still fighting, but I am fighting now for those who need it to get away from rock bottom. Though I am focused to help others and to focus on everything I do, I'm still human. I do ask that anyone who messages me is willing to be respectful of any boundaries set, and willing to show respect. 





About my listening style!~




As a listener, I am here to listen and support, but I am not here to give advice. When I begin a chat with a long term member, I like to start out by setting a plan. This plan is what keeps the chats structured to your individual needs. Everyone is different, so no two people will get the same benefits from any listener. The chats that I accept are those working on recovery in mental health. My goal as a support is to provide a safe place and a supportive ear, but I'm not here to convince you to work towards feeling better. You are always the number one factor. Only you can decide whether you are ready to start the process of recovery or not. You write your own story. 







People might tell you that it won’t last forever. I know it seems like it does. I once believed the same thing, and I understand that it is the most defeating thought there is. There will be an escape for everyone, but there’s no telling when it will come. It might be tonight, or it might be in several years. And until then, you have a safe place that you are welcome to anytime. I strive to make sure that as a listener I can make our space feel like the safety that you need through anything that happens.





If you choose to send me a message, make yourself comfortable. Feel free to bring your virtual comfort items into my PMs to create whatever you need to be comfortable, whether it be blankets, pillows, or a teddy bear. I’m always a PM away, even if I’m not online at the moment. I hope that you can feel safe to rant or whatever you need. 


Feedback & Reviews
Best listener I could ever ask for :p
Haley is an amazing listener. She empathizes, validates, her response time is fast. Thank you so much!
Great chat!
Grah is so encouraging and kind. She knows how to comfort in the darkest times and cares about you. very very amazing this one is.
Amazing listener. Very compassionate and resourceful. Offered safe place to talk and the support I needed. Thank you!
One of the best listeners I came across. Thank you.
Grah is an amazing listener who is nice and kinda and silly and amazing and loves to give really positive vibes in her pms
Great chats! Thank you ❤️
Extremely empathetic and helpful
Very nice, and quick to help. Would recommend!
Asks the right questions, but not too pushy.
THE BEST LISTENER IN THE WORLDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
Understood me so well really appreciate it
Thank you for being so so nice to me
Awesome! She helped me understand my role in the community
They are very sweet and helped me a lot!! Thank you!!
there helping me get through something
This listener has really helped me understand what I'm going through even though I've only been talking to them for a very short time.
Nice person . And friendly
Cute, loved their moral support!
Very kind and understanding, offered to talk when we need be.
Was a good listener and gave good advice.
Professional and caring! - Mar
They are awesome, giving me great advice and making me feel a lot better. Releasing some of my an
She is an amazing kind and passionate listener. She deserves the best reviews from everyone! Helps me with all my problems. Totally selfless. Not selfish selfless! She's amazing. She's one of a kind!!!
a truly great person, a talent in helping people
This person is a great help. Very kind and helpfull.
really nice and a professional!:)
very friendly
They were very kind.
Awesome!
Thabks for what you did
She's pretty accommodating with my schedule because there is a 14 hour difference in time. I appreciate her willingness. I hope I can find something long term with her.
Pretty good
Perfect
Very great, would reccomend. They helped me with anxiety. I can openly get help since they helped me to open up.
Lovely
Such a nice person with an amazing heart.
She`s very fast at answering, and I feel ok with talking with them like if they were a close friend.
Good
Good
very smart and educated on ADHD
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