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Catmomj99
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Number of ratings12 Number of reviews11 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish, Hindi Listener sinceApr 23, 2024 Last activein last month GenderFemale PathStep 116 People helped37 Chats159 Listener group chats1 Forum posts61 Forum upvotes93
Bio

Hello! I’m Catmomj99. I love to talk and build connections. I would love to be a listener and supporter in moments you feel as if you are alone. Also if you cross the line you will be blocked.

Cheers to building a happy healthy and safe community together!

Recent forum posts
Communication skills
IDG 7 Cups Community Hub / by Catmomj99
Last post
July 11th
...See more Today I would like to talk about one of the most important aspect of being an active listener. Today I would like to talk about communication skills. “Communication is more than just sharing of words. It is the wise sharing of emotions, feelings and concerns. It is the sharing of oneself totally.” When it comes to interpersonal development a skill that is really valued is how effectively and efficiently we communicate. It is not only important to build personal connections but also an essential element of effective leadership. Words have a power to build or burn bridges and hence we must be mindful of what and how we convey our message to others. Community is all about building and bridging together and hence for the community to grow and thrive we must share our views in a way that is respectful, impactful and meaningful to our purpose. For mastering the skill we first need to be a really good listener making sure the other person is being heard without any interferences. We must not only effectively put forth our views but also try to resolve conflicts by finding a common ground. We must be versatile and quickly adapt to what the preferences of the people or the community is. This not only builds trust but also helps form long lasting relationships. Also it is important to build a safe place to communicate and connect. We must be inclusive and always have an attitude to learn and challenge the biases the society has so that everyone around us is treated equally with love and respect. It is important while communicating to speak in simple words rather than a jargon that a person may or maynot understand. While doing so always remember to be compassionate and empathetic. It is also important that we must acknowledge and appreciate people around us as it serves as a boost and help the community flourish. I would like to ask you guys how do you think communication skills serve as a tool in developing your personality?
Empathy and compassion
IDG 7 Cups Community Hub / by Catmomj99
Last post
July 31st
...See more I think to me empathy and compassion is something that really stood out for me. We live in a world where we are so engrossed by the hustle and bustle that we completely forget treating not only others but also ourselves with love and respect. To be part of a community in which you can relate, talk to without being judged is something I feel is very important for a community to thrive. To feel heard when you feel alone I something that really helped me and I know how important it is. Just an act of kindness can give you hope and sometimes hope is the only thing one needs when they are at the lowest.  We should not forget that we all need each other and this compassion should not only be restricted to humans but to other beings too that are co existing in the ecosystem together. I remember my mother and I used to place water bowls outside our houses so that the stray animals whenever they felt thirsty could drink from it. Just to give in a context we live in  a society where people have individual houses as it is a mountainous region so we don’t have apartments as such. So we started it and we noticed how everyone around us started practising the same thing. Also the kids in our locality became more compassionate and instead of hurting them or being afraid started taking care of them. And we received that compassion back from those animals too. Not even a single case of attack by any stray animal has been reported till date.(if it concerns you) To empathise is to let yourself in their position and feel what they are going through right now. compassion and kindness is something this cruel world needs to make it a better place to live.  Have you ever anytime in your life felt empathy and compassion from anyone maybe a stranger that left an impact on you? Do share your stories! 
Gratitude
Anxiety Support / by Catmomj99
Last post
April 27th
...See more As we move on in our daily lives it is important not to forget to thank ourselves and the almighty for the strength we showed in difficult situations. We must appreciate and try to be kind to ourselves. Treat yourself as the way you treat others. ❤️
Feedback & Reviews
Amazingly kind hearted listener. Ge serous with their time and asks intelligent questions to empathise and understand the issue. A wonderful asset to the 7 cups family.
She listened to me well and I really enjoyed the chat with her
Amazing chat. Very professional. Very understanding, as well. Amazing job over all.
Understands well
The best listener and supporter for so far. Such a gentle and kind person!!!!
Loved talking to her! She validated my feelings and shared her perspective to help me understand my situation better. I feel very supported talking to her, will definitely recommend!
Loved it! Awesome chat
Good listener. Helped me get a weight off my chest by having an open and honest conversation without judgement.
Quite well, I enjoyed my conversation.
Amazing and knowledgeable listener. They started with a grounding technique at first. The questions they asked also helped with having more awarness too. They responded quickly and provided alot of time.
Excellent listener. Asked really appropriate questions, and I felt really comfortable and safe talking to her. Highly recommend.
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