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Number of ratings57 Number of reviews50 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceJun 27, 2021 Last activein last 6 months GenderFemale PathStep 122 People helped235 Chats1,055 Listener group chats1 Forum posts15 Forum upvotes20

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Relationship Stress / by Bossedupx3

September 21st, 2021

...See more Theres was a moment where one of the females my boyfriend was simping for looked exactly like me but she was a year younger than me and had a curvaceous body unlike me at the time. She was slim with a flat stomach, short with a big butt, and was famous on her social accounts. Seeing my boyfriend commenting under her posts hurt. It hurt me so much that I would over eat and work out to gain weight. I wanted the wide hips and big butt badly. Maybe It was because I wanted it so he could be attracted to me like he was to her. I would stay up and stalk her accounts. I made sure my boyfriend wasnt commenting anymore, even though I never addressed the situation to him at that time. I would look at her pictures and watch her videos over and over every day and compare myself to her. I eventually started to hate her. Someone who didn't do anything wrong. It wasn't her fault he was simping for her. She simply ignored him and didn't pay him no mind. As i stayed up late cried and stalked her accounts. I would workout and cry some more. Working out became therapeutic to me. I got so wrapped up in my thoughts that I would max out with working out and be able to do higher reps and sets and wouldn't even notice it till I was done. After working out and overeating my curves formed. I had the wide hips and gained the plus of having huge boobs unlike her. I felt as if I had a one up on her. But my butt still wasn't big enough so I continued to push to achieve that. I’ve yet to achieve it this day. Eventually everything took a toll on my mental health, I was hospitalized. Everything was stress related. I lost the privilege to work out. This was hard for me as it was my therapy. I gained weight and soon gained love handles. I was confident in myself till it was my own family who would body shame and fat shame me. I was in love with my cellulite and stretch marks. I was in love with myself. I eventually told my boyfriend that I was unhappy with him being in other girls comments and how it made me feel. I told Him is was EMBARRRASSSING, disrespectful and inconsiderate. He agreed, he told me he knew he was doing something wrong but still continued to do it. He removed her and other ladies from all his social media accounts. I have no clue if he messaged them or if messaging was even involved as I never had access to his accounts as thats something i feel is private and he never offered it to me. I have trust issues of my own but I battle those alone and never take it out on him or put it on him. Since then I think he stopped commenting on other females posts, but I wouldn't know as I don’t have social media. I never forgave him for this but I did indeed put it behind me and haven’t brought it up again or thrown it in his face nor held it against him. Back to what I was saying, When I was finally happy with who I saw in the mirror and forgave the girl and stopped hating her. My own family downed me. They had no idea what I was going through, but it took a toll on me. Here I am now healthier and ready to get back to working out. I struggle getting a good routine down and getting back consistent. Besides that I'm healthy and I'm doing better , I no longer compare myself and I want change for myself not for ones attention or competition. Im happy to say I did it, and by myself at that!

Am I wrong for staying?

Relationship Stress / by Bossedupx3

September 23rd, 2021

...See more Me and my boyfriend had a close relationship from before we decided to date.He would make sure I was good throught the day and regardles of his schedule he always made time for me… Eventually we both gained strong feelings for each other but I wasn’t willing to jeopardize our friendship. He was willing to do whatever to have me as his girlfriend. Time went on and he started to ask me out occasionally and each time I would reject him and jockingly would say “your my bestfriend how much closer do you want to be?” Shortly after that we got into it and he expressed to me that he was afraid that I was just going to find someone else, I assured to him that I simply just wasnt ready to date and I didnt want to mess up the bond that we currently have. He felt that I was playing him and his feelings… and procceeded to be mad at me. At that point I gave in and decided to give it a shot. 3/4 months went good but eventually we had both started peeping some things. I noticed he was following some of my close friends that were attractive and liking their old posts and commenting under them. I was confused as me and him are long distant and he didnt even know them. I found that as something odd. Then he started to make slick comments about my “obsession” with Instagram. He told me that it was my “whole life” . Soon on he started accusing me of cheating, when it was just me conversating with my male friends that I’ve known before him. Then he was mad at me for months for commenting under a male friends post. I made that comment from before I even met my bf. He kept his anger and agression towards me for months and continued to accuse me no matter how much proof I provided that i wasnt cheating. Eventually i gave in and dropped all my male friends, I removed them from all my social media. It still wasn’t enough. He still accused me of things that I wasnt doing and was openly mad at me. (Not to mention he has had access to my accounts at any and all times) so on I managed to bring myself to the point of deactivating and deleting all my social media accounts to keep peace as most our problems was social media rooted. Issues still occured in regards to things of the past. Its been almost a year of him being mad at me. He still doesn’t trust me and tells me im on thin ice. He doesnt come to me and hes not open with me. Im starting to believe that he was projecting his own behavior on me but then anothet prt of me believes that hes going through something personally in his own life that hes not open to discussing and wants his space. He hardly makes time for me now and we havent had any bonding time in over ten months. We barely talk, he doesnt compliment me anymore and so on. Im still holding on to hope that things will get better and that we will make it through this. No matter who I talk to everyone suggests that I leave, but for some reason I still continue to wait around and stay. He’s not really there for me and is as if he’s drifting off from me. He claims to only sleep and work all day, but somedays i question if thats just an excuse to not talk to me. Im not the type to bombard him, I actually extend the offer and leave it open and give him space till its on his terms. Thanks for reading this lengthy post!💜

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