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Number of ratings90 Number of reviews37 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceAug 15, 2015 Last activeover 6 months ago GenderFemale PathStep 43 People helped109 Chats2,082 Group support chats965 Listener group chats1,163 Forum posts700 Forum upvotes1,491
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"Every life is a pile of good things and bad things. The good things don't always soften the bad things but the bad things don't always spoil the good things and make them unimportant."


I am Skye, I speak fairly good tamil, and if you like, you can call me Bhagya so Hey you!



I am also super duper very much on break right now (A levels, wish me luck!). Hope you find another lovely listener, friend! And I am proud of you for being here~ Asking for help takes just as much courage as offering help. 


On a side-mushy-note, know that I miss this place every single day with every inch of my tiny fist-sized heart. (no one can say I'm not the most accuratest of the accurate #Skyentist) ♥


psst. I promise I'll be back ♥


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AW Day 7 - Self-Acceptance ♡
Community Projects & Events / by 221Skye
Last post
 January 24th, 2016
...See more For our FINAL day of the fabulous Acceptance Week ahead, our theme is... ✨ Self-Acceptance ✨ Without further ado, here are the activities for today: Memberooni Discussionisms ❣ Adult Member Discussion- "I'm Weird and I Know it": Led by @ResilientLucky and @whimsicaldream at 9 PM ❣ Teen Member Discussion- "I'm Weird and I Know it": Led by @221Skye at 10 PM Forum Activity For today, let's all take some time to practice self care and be nice unicorns to ourselves~ Tell us your self care practice right here [http://www.7cups.com/forum/SelfCare_89/SelfCarePractices_351/DailySelfCarePracticeWhatDidyoudoforyourselftoday_25638/1/]! On the fabulous flipside, tell us what you are proud of about yourself in this beautiful thread [http://www.7cups.com/forum/GetSupport_28/ProudofMyselfBecause_178/IamProudofmyselfbecausecomplete_5502/1/] by @guidamaximo ♥ Feed Nation Today, as with the whole week, we'll be using the #IWishMyFriendsKnew and #Acceptance hashtags! Check out the main post [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SpecialEventson7Cups_120/1723rdJanuaryAcceptanceWeek_764/AcceptanceWeek_35180/] for more informationisms! ♥ In addition, we're also using the #SelfAcceptance tag to share one weird quirk about ourselves, or something we feel insecure about! ♥ Have a magical day everyone! 🌟 Brought to you by @Ali, @221Skye, @ResilientLucky and @starryKoala69 ♡
AW Day 4 - Disabilities and Acceptance ♡
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Last post
 January 20th, 2016
...See more For our Fourth day of the fabulous Acceptance Week ahead, our theme is... ✨ Disabilities and Acceptance! ✨ Without further ado, here are the activities for today: Discussionisms: Understanding the Human Rights of Persons with Disabilities ❣ Adult Listener Discussion led by @Lee at 12 PM ❣ Adult Member Discussion led by @KRNGRFL and @ResilientLucky at 9 AM ❣ Teen Member Discussion led by @BeccaBoo98 at 8 AM Forum Activity Offer support, and learn from the harrowing experiences and inspirational stories of the disabled community at 7 Cups right here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/DisabilitiesSupportCommunity_47/]. And I hereby issue you a challenge to reply to someone in this support section, with empathy and acceptance of their struggles ♡ Feed Nation Today, as with the whole week, we'll be using the #IWishMyFriendsKnew and #Acceptance hashtags! Check out the main post [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SpecialEventson7Cups_120/1723rdJanuaryAcceptanceWeek_764/AcceptanceWeek_35180/] for more informationisms! ♥ In addition, we're also using the #Disabilities tag to show our support to this community, as well as, express the ways in which we can show our acceptance better! Have a magical day everyone! 🌟 Brought to you by @Ali, @221Skye, @ResilientLucky and @starryKoala69 ♡
AW Day 2 - LGBTQ+ Acceptance ♡
Community Projects & Events / by 221Skye
Last post
 January 18th, 2016
...See more For our Second day of the fabulous Acceptance Week ahead, our theme is... ✨ LGBTQ+ Acceptance! ✨ Without further ado, here are the activities for today: Memberooni Discussionisms ❣ LGBQ+ Acceptance: Led by @Renaenae at 5 PM, in the Teen Guided Discussions Room Listener Discussionisms ❣ Creating an Accepting Environment (LGBTQ+): Led by @amazingrea at 10 PM in the Teen Listeners Room ❣ Creating an Accepting Environment (LGBTQ+): Led by @SilentSerenityy at 2 PM in the Listener Community Room Forum Activity Offer support to the LGBTQ+ community ♥ Welcome someone new into the community right here [http://www.7cups.com/forum/LGTBQMOGIISupportCommunity_58/IntroduceYourselfIcebreakers_220/IntroduceyourselftotheLGTBQMOGIICommunity_8562/20/] or take the oath [https://www.7cups.com/forum/LGTBQMOGIISupportCommunity_58/IntroduceYourselfIcebreakers_220/LGTBQMOGGICommunityFamilyOath_18436/] as member or ally of the LGBTQ+ family! Feed Nation Today, as with the whole week, we'll be using the #IWishMyFriendsKnew and #Acceptance hashtags! Check out the main post [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SpecialEventson7Cups_120/1723rdJanuaryAcceptanceWeek_764/AcceptanceWeek_35180/] for more informationisms! ♥ In addition, we're also using the #LGBTQacceptance tag to show our support to this beautiful community, as well as, express the ways in which we can show our acceptance better! Have a magical day everyone! 🌟 Brought to you by @Ali, @221Skye (aka yours truly :P), @ResilientLucky and @starryKoala69 ♡
★ Acceptance Week! ★
Community Projects & Events / by 221Skye
Last post
 January 24th, 2016
...See more Bonjour all human beans of the great internet! *offers baguette* Sit right down and listen up, cos weve got some FABULOUS events for you this special sparkly week. And what is this week, you ask? (yes you asked, now shush about it :P) Weeellll... 🌟 ITS ACCEPTANCE WEEK! 🌟 Every single person is different, and every single circumstance is different. The one thing that can unite us is our acceptance of each other and ourselves, of the things that create diversity, of the things we dont completely understand. Essentially, acceptance is Captain Important in the ship of community and life- without acceptance, theres no harmony and peace (and ya know, general Glitter Quality). This week, in honour of the International Day for Acceptance, we hope that all the coolio cupsians can come together to discuss and share our thoughts on acceptance, and how we can create the most accepting environment we can. ♥ Soooo lets get right down to business, people! Here are the fabulous themes for the week! Well have posts on the specific discussionisms, forum threads and feed fun happening for each theme every day (will be linked in)! :D Sunday, 17 January ❣ Defining Acceptance [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SpecialEventson7Cups_120/1723rdJanuaryAcceptanceWeek_764/AWDay1DefiningAcceptance_35179/] Monday, 18 January ☯ LGBTQ+ Acceptance [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SpecialEventson7Cups_120/1723rdJanuaryAcceptanceWeek_764/AWDay1LGBTQAcceptance_35219/] Tuesday, 19 January ❣ Acceptance in the YPoC Community [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SpecialEventson7Cups_120/1723rdJanuaryAcceptanceWeek_764/AWDay3YPoCAcceptance_35290/] Wednesday, 20 January ☯ Disabilities and Acceptance [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SpecialEventson7Cups_120/1723rdJanuaryAcceptanceWeek_764/AWDay4DisabilitiesandAcceptance_35305/] Thursday, 21 January ❣ Accepting Mental Illnesses [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SpecialEventson7Cups_120/1723rdJanuaryAcceptanceWeek_764/AWDay5AcceptingMentalIllnesses_35362/] Friday, 22 January ☯ Community Diversity Saturday, 23 January ❣ Self-Acceptance [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SpecialEventson7Cups_120/1723rdJanuaryAcceptanceWeek_764/AWDay7SelfAcceptance_35467/] FEED Highlight - Throughout the week, well be using the #IWishMyFriendsKnew and #Acceptance hashtags, to express what we want and need acceptance for, show why it is important, and write on the feelings and struggles we feel arent being validated ♥ Stay tuned for our updates, and have a rocking week everyone! Brought to you by @Ali, @221Skye (aka yours truly :P), @ResilientLucky and @starryKoala69 ♡
AW Day 1 - Defining Acceptance ♡
Community Projects & Events / by 221Skye
Last post
 February 15th, 2016
...See more For our FIRST DAY of the fabulous Acceptance Week ahead, our theme is... ✨ Defining Acceptance ✨ Without further ado, here are the activities for today: Discussionism on Acceptance, Forgiveness and Letting Go ❣ Teen Member Discussion at 8 PM by @221Skye (GDR) ❣ Adult Member Discussion at 11 AM by @2genpoet and @peacefulSoul8 (GDR) ❣ Adult Listener Discussion at 12 PM by @SilentSerenityy (LCR) Forum Activity Stay tuned, for our absolutely wondrous forum thread by @NewRomantic677- "What Does Acceptance Mean" ♡ [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SpecialEventson7Cups_120/1723rdJanuaryAcceptanceWeek_764/WhatDoesAcceptanceMean_35214/] Feed Nation Today, as with the whole of the week, we'll be using the #IWishMyFriendsKnew and #Acceptance hashtags, to express our feelings on acceptance and the struggles we feel arent being validated ♥ Have a magical day everyone! 🌟 Brought to you by @Ali, @221Skye (aka yours truly :P), @ResilientLucky and @starryKoala69 ♡
💜 Coming Out: Discussion Notes! 💜
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Last post
 January 16th, 2016
...See more This BAE discussion, on Coming Out, happened on the 11th of Octopus during LGBTQ+ Ally Week, in the Guided Discussions Room (teen). It was led by myself and the lovely ENO! Look below to find the insights shared over the course of this discussion laid out in pretty colours :P ♥ Icebreaker: What is one fear you have faced in your life and what is the result? This was a wildly brave bunch, there were people jumping from trees (and getting hurt xD) and finding friendship despite crippling Social Anxiety. ♥ Also, ya know, Arachnophobia and spider murders, obviously xD I'm afraid of spiders, today there was a small one in my room and my mum was like "help yourself" so I just killed it lol 1) What does the term Coming Out mean? Basically, it means publicly sharing your sexual/gender/romantic identity, but even more importantly, many agreed it means Being yourself and sharing that with someone you trust. ♥ 2) Is it important to come out? Why or why not? There was quite a range of answers for this one, all of which were rather thoughtful. ♥ ☆ Yes, its important to acknowledge who we are, and come out to ourselves! It gives you a sense of self-acceptance. ☆ It can be important, but its even more important to make sure you are safe when coming out to others. ☆ You shouldnt have to, because people shouldnt be assuming you are straight. You are you, and your sexuality/gender shouldnt change anything. 3) Who should someone come out to? Are there certain more important people to come out to, such as parents, family or close friends? The most important person to come out to is yourself but after, if you feel like it, you can come out to the people you trust and matter to you- those whom you know will have your back! 4) What are some different ways people can come out? What are the benefits and negatives of these methods? ☆ Write a note to them- gives them time to figure things out and not act rashly or hurtfully. ☆ You could arrange an event (like a meal) with the people youd like to come out to, and tell them all at once. ☆ Shout it out over the PA system - this human knows the deal :P ☆ Some cons: People might not accept it, and sometimes it might lead to you being abused. People may treat you differently. ☆ Some Pros: You have support through your journey. 5) When should someone come out? ☆ When they feel comfortable and ready- this is different for different people, we shouldnt pressure anyone! ☆ It is crucial that the person is safe, only come out if you know you will be safe. 6) Is there ever a time when someone should NOT come out? Give an example! ☆ When you are surrounded by homophobes- even if they are family or friends. ☆ When it is unsafe to do so, like if its illegal in your country, to avoid criminal prosecution A lovely point put forth by someone amazeballs- Id like to say if someone, it doesnt mean theyre homophobic. I am religious, and I accept all LGBTQ+ people! They are human too, and I love them all ♥ 7) What are the challenges associated with coming out? How can we face these challenges? ☆ Homophobia, a distinct lack of acceptance ☆ Ingrained societal norms make it hard to even accept ourselves, much less imagine someone else might accept you. ☆ Fear that people might think youre not normal psshh what is normal anyway? XD <3 Facing The Challenges ☆ You just take the risk- not everyone might like you but that is expected no matter what. ☆ Acknowledging who we are, and finding support in an accepting space can help too! Be strong and sure about your decisions ☆ I like to tell myself people somewhere will accept me, I just have to find them 8) What are some possible benefits of coming out? ✿ Its like a weight being lifted off your shoulders! ✿ You dont have to feel like youre hiding or faking anything anymore ✿ You can be who you are ✿ Be proud of yourself and think about the huge step youve taken! ✿ 9) How do we deal with unaccepting people? ☆ We ignore them and block them out ☆ Those who mind dont matter and those who matter dont mind (Hey we all know Seuss is a wise chap. Always trust Seuss xD) ☆ They may not accept you but that doesn't mean you can't accept them. Say 'I'm sorry you feel that way but you can't change who I am.' and just be you. ☆ Killing it with kindness is the ultimate badassery. 10) What advice would you give to someone thinking of coming out? ☆ Tell those you trust first, and dont worry about unaccepting people- your sexuality isnt here to please others. ☆ Do it in a safe place. ☆ Keep being you. Some profound thoughts I cant help but include xD ♛ Amazeabaze - this word has been endorsed by this discussion and basically, oxford get on it already! ♛ Everyone is a unicorn ♛ Normal is overrated. Lets all be weirdos together :p ♛ I just blew up a glass bowl in the microwave guys Thank you everyone for participating in this FABBITY discussion, we adored it so much (Top 10 Discussions :P)! Do add on below if you have more insight, answers and love to provide on these discussion questions! :D <3 Participants @Ila @Isthisreallylife @KolateakYT @SapereAude @unassumingPerson3059 @TheLastGoodbye @unassumingPerson3059 @AllyCat01 @fairmindedBunny6594 @rosor @canadagranger7 @FragmentOfYourDefinition7 @LifeAndOtherStupidThings @Rattlehead @SimonTheGr8 @niceVillage8008 @Rosepetal999 @WarmChocolateMug @JustAron01 @CreepyRwan @glowingpeace18339 @NewRomantic677 @amazingrea
Eating Disorders - Discussion Notes!
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Last post
 January 10th, 2016
...See more On the 8th of October, a few dozen eons ago (in 2015) a Teen Member Discussion on Eating Disorders (focused on Anorexia and Bulimia) was hosted by myself and @Amelia, for Mental Illness Awareness Week! Here lies the notes from this amazingly fruitful discussion. Icebreaker: To start off the discussion, whats your favourite superpower and why? Everything from telekinesis and invincibility to mind-reading (the coolio NON-EdwardCullen kind of course xD) and slowing down time to get more work done ;) ➊ What are some types of eating disorders? Anorexia, Bulimia, Binge Eating Disorder, Orthorexia, Pica, Rumination Disorder. Some other disorders are typically known as OSFED (other specified feeding or eating disorder) or UFED (unspecified feeding or eating disorder) ➋ Describe anorexia and bulimia. What are some signs that someone might be suffering from one or both of them? ✮ Anorexia nervosa, often referred to simply as anorexia, is an eating disorder characterized by low weight, fear of gaining weight, a strong desire to be thin, and food intake restriction. ✮ Bulimia nervosa, also known as simply bulimia, is an eating disorder characterized by binge eating followed by purging, and a lack of control over eating practices. ✮ Some common signs of an eating disorder would be a preoccupation with calories, distorted body image, being secretive about their eating and not partaking in social dining events etc. ➌ Why do you think people might develop Eating Disorders? Feelings of imperfection, reduced self esteem, societal views and perceptions and stress are some common reasons. It could also develop as an outlet to satisfy their need for control when life feels out of control. Other influences: culturally, media is saturated with a beauty standard that is impossible to realistically reach, while genetically and biochemically, we might be affected by our brain chemistry etc. ➍ What are some misconceptions you think society has about Eating Disorders? ☆ Its for attention seekers ☆ You have to be underweight to have an ED ☆ Its to please someone else ☆ Fixing the food intake fixes the ED (Nope it doesnt, an ED is still highly a mental issue and we need to get at the body image issues and thoughts under the surface!) ☆ ➎ How can we support people dealing with Eating Disorders? Be willing to talk about the ED, but also to talk about other things. Not everything is about the ED, theres more to their life. ✮ Understand its a sensitive topic to talk about, and dont push them to do things. ✮ Do NOT take control over their life, it just makes things worse. ✮ Offer to help find treatment options. Be there for them and validate their feelings. ✮ Recognise the small steps of improvement. ✮ Relapse is a part of it, doesnt mean theyre not trying. ➏ What steps are usually involved in recovering from an Eating Disorder? Biggest step- Deciding you want to recover Acknowledging the pattern and reasons, Reaching out for support, Encountering slip ups and relapses, Maintaining recovery. ➐ Do you know any helpful resources for Eating Disorders? ANAD [http://www.anad.org/eating-disorders-get-help/] and NEDA [http://www.nationaleatingdisorders.org] were suggested for the US/Canada regions. 7 Cupsy clearly ;) ED quotes, on tumblr- eatingdisorderrecovery.tumblr.com/quotes [http://eatingdisorderrecovery.tumblr.com/quotes] ➑ What kind of thoughts might people with Eating Disorders have? ☆ Im not good enough ☆ Feeling stuck, like nothing will ever change ☆ Im worthless ☆ Comparing yourself to someone else ☆ Im a failure ☆ I just want to be skinny and loved ☆ I dont deserve to eat ☆ ➒ Why might someone with an Eating Disorder not want to reach out for help? It inspires Fear- fear of people knowing the secret, of what treatment will mean, of losing control. It could also be because, theres a fear that it might not even be anything major enough to make a fuss about. It is tough, because it entails gaining weight which holds such a negative connotation to anyone with an ED. ➓ To end off, lets think of one positive thing/something we like about ourselves! I like my legs- squats totally paid off ☆ I put others before myself ☆ Im never using makeup because I wanted to be confident enough to be me and that is quite awesome ☆ Im very passionate ☆ Im GIFted at GIFs. ☆ I like that I can express myself in writing ☆ Participant List @Kipper17 @Wanderlustig @IHateYouDontLeaveMe @Anomalia @CactussFlower @ImLizi @emilyrush15 @Rattlehead Do go ahead and add on, if you have any thoughts, suggestions, or ponderings or questions in your head about this topic! :D <3
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The most wonderfulest listener I've ever had
Skye was absolutely amazing. She related to me and replied back instantly. And when she wouldn't respond right away, it was because she would send back a very long response which showed me how caring she is. She's a great listener and I am so blessed that I was able to talk to her. Thanks to her, I feel great about myself and I didn't relapse. Skye is the best.
Amazing listener, such a caring personality and silly, of course only at the right time. She has such empathy for everyone and is always there for you. She makes a great listener if you don't need a live chat :-)
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Skyebae,

You are like so amazing you are amazinger then anyone i know. You always know how to make me smile when im sad and make me laugh. You accept me for me and you dont know how much that means because most people hate me xD Talking to you has mad me feel safe and special and i cant thankyou enough. I care about you as though you are an older sister. you know i wouldn't be alive still if it wasnt for you. Also, you are a super great mod and this website would be lost without you!!! I am here for you if you ever have bad days!!! i will always be here for you!! Love you sooooooo much!! I hope i never loose you
Skyeee bae , you are seriously the best , sweetest , kindest , most helpful and AMAZING listener everrrrr ♥ I can tell you absolutely anything and you're so supportive and never judgemental ! You're also so lovely , funny and caring and extremely easy to talk to ! You always know what to say , how to make my day and how to put a smile on my face :) ! Thank you so much for being there for me ! You're a truly AMAZING friend ! Ly ♥
She's the only person I've truly opened up to. She is so nice and caring
Amazing.
Skye was the most amazing listener. She made me feel like she really understood what I was going through with my eating disorder and she helped me to try to look at recovery differently. She is absolutely amazing and wonderful and the best. Thank you so much Skye your support and kindness means so so much to me.
amazing
It is like talking to a friend so kind and helpful
Amazing! You probably changed my life. I know it sounds cheesy but it's true. Because of the support you gave me, I will jow go get the help I need. You are the best listener I've talked to and I'm so glad that I decided to talk to you. You truly made a difference.
help me even when I thought I was alone
Very understanding, kind and gives very insightful remarks to help you understand what you are going through. Is very compassionnate and caring.
she extremely helpful nice great cares
skye was nice help
Extremely lovely listener. She gives amazing advise and is comforting. I recommend talking to her :)
She made me smile. She gave me a reason to smile. She made me happy. Is there any better thing than that???
SKYE HUN... YOUR AMAZING
Very helpful! \( ^.^ )/
A lovely person to talk to
Skye is very kind, amazing with listening to what you have to say and relates which is comforting. Overall they're amazing for my first time on this website. Thanks Skye c:
It really helped me so much . You always wrote long answers , that was really good. Its nice to know that you go/been trough the same. You gave me so much positive energy , i feel less alone now. Thank you so so so so much for that
You're really amazing, and honestly you're the best I talked to so far , the world needs more people like you, thanks a lot .
Skye was super helpful and super understanding if you want to talk to someone polite nice and helpful skye is the person for you (:
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They were really nice and made me feel better.
Put a smile on me face c:
Very helpful and empathetic
She was great, totally relatable and replies quickly.
Incredibly nice and helpful!!
Skye was perfect she really understood what I was goin through and she even calmed me down its nice to know that she is in this community helping people like she helped me! she should just keep doing what she's doing because she's and ace !!!
Compassionate, professional and sweet. I really felt better after talking. Give this listeners a change, you won't regret!!
Skye was soooo helpful!! Really a great person
We need more people like Skye in this world.
Thank u Skye^^
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