What should I do when my boyfriend ignores me?
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When your boyfriend ignores you it is important to recognize that you may be overbearing, or bothering him. Perhaps more communication would be beneficial.
Anonymous
January 9th, 2016 11:31am
Talk to him,and tell him that this relationship can't work out if he ignores you..and if he doesn't pay attention then you'll have to break up with him..Relationships are for two people,not one.
Try to talk to him. Tell him that you can't deal with being ignored, and tell him how you are feeling. If he does not understand, maybe you should try and break up with him. I understand the hard situation you're in, but you need to put your priorities first- you shouldn't have to be stressed out because of your boyfriend.
Anonymous
January 10th, 2016 1:45pm
You should try talking to him or giving him some space then if he keeps ignoring you he's not the right guy for you.
Anonymous
January 13th, 2016 7:41pm
try to found the reason but keep your self in respect
you are the important side try to know why do he do it and decide which if his reason excuse him
Anonymous
January 13th, 2016 10:17pm
Try and get him to sit down with you, and try and discuss to him that it's annoying you that he is ignoring you, make him listen to you.
Anonymous
January 22nd, 2016 3:44am
You could talk to him about how he's making you feel. Tell him that you need his attention. Communication is the key of a relationship.
Ask yourself why that bothers you, and if that's something that you want to bring up, or table for a later discussion.
Anonymous
January 24th, 2016 10:55pm
Trust is key here. If he's ignoring your texts, give him a chance to prove himself. Assume he's busy, and not intentionally ignoring you. There is a limit though, if it's been an abnormal amount of time, simply be direct and ask what's going on or what's the issue.
Anonymous
January 27th, 2016 8:30am
Perhaps tell him that you feel ignored and how this affects you ? Suggest a pair activity ? Or simply try and engage him in whatever way you see fit :)
Anonymous
January 28th, 2016 5:54am
When your boyfriend ignores you, the best way is to not make any assumptions. Making any assumptions can lead to bigger problems. I suggest seeing him in person and talking about it.
meeting up in person is always a better thing. ask him what is wrong? because he could be going through things to do with family or friends or another matter
Anonymous
March 25th, 2016 10:08am
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Anonymous
November 12th, 2018 8:06pm
Voice your thoughts and express what you are feeling, but also understand that he might need some space and time for himself. You should use this time to think back and reflect on what may have caused him to react like this. Might i remind you that he will come to you when he is ready to talk and have an open discussion as to why he was ignoring you , and also justify his actions by expressing his thoughts and emotions to you and towards the situation. You too must do the same in order for there to be successful and open communication.
It isn't right to jump to any conclusions before you know anything for sure. Try and understand if he is ignoring you or everyone around him? Is he ignoring you or to be in a situation with you? Has anything happened in his life of late from which he could be reacting like this? It's okay to doubt his ignorance. Understand where he is coming from and if nothing seems to make sense, ask him. Confrontation can be difficult but it only makes life easy. Be compassionate when you do it but clarify what you feel and why you feel do. And tell him, it's okay even if he doesn't want to be with you, ignoring is no solution, if anything, it just leaves you hanging in thin air, which isn't fair to whatever time you've spent together.
you can try to talk to him and express both of your feelings and see if there is anything out of the relationship he is going through and whether or not he needs time alone or if he needs you by his side. You can try having a face to face conversation in a neutral territory like a cafe, restaurant, etc. and see if he is open to expressing his emotions. Ask him to express his views on the relationship and see if there is anything that has been on his mind regarding it. You should let him know they you are there to support him no matter what and you will be there for him when he is ready.
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