What should I do when my boyfriend ignores me?
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You should ask him directly why he is doing so. If he does not respond or responds with an answer that indicates he is not interested anymore, then you should not waste your time and attention on him when he is not reciprocating to you. However, if you feel that he has things on his mind and needs some space, realise and understand that sometimes you can help by just being there when he actively asks and seeks your help. It does not immediately mean that something is wrong in your relationship if he is ignoring you.
Try and talk to him and explain to him that you feel ignored. Ask him why he is doing it and suggest ways you would feel more special. If he continues to ignore you you may have to consider getting some help by a professional relationship adviser.
I would say be open with him about it. You don't know maybe he is not ignoring you on purpose and if he really is then you'll find out the reason and maybe you'll find a way to solve it together.
He could be in a bad mood at the moment. Let him be for a while, then try again. If that doesn't work,then try asking him about it.
If you boyfriend is ignoring you, please meet with him and talk about it face to face. If he is having some issues with you, then sit and clarify them.
Anonymous
June 26th, 2015 9:41pm
I can't give you advise, because only you would know how to react with it and what to say so it doesn't blow up in your face.
I would have a conversation with him and see if it was done on purpose, or maybe if it is miscommunication. Then express to him or her how you felt when they ignored you, and you both and go from there.
Anonymous
June 27th, 2015 10:58am
Talk to him, if he doesn't answer - go out, have fun, don't waste your attention on him. Let him come to you, give him a set time e.g. 3 days, to talk to you - and if he doesn't dump him
go to him and ask him is there something wrong or something that you need to know about? Asking directly in a calm manner is better than sit guessing until it turns into a big problem.
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Anonymous
June 27th, 2015 6:21pm
You should talk to him about that.
You have to know the reason he's ignoring you.Just ask him why he's doing it and he should explain.
Talk to his friends and relatives if anything traumatic of stressful happened to him. Reflect on if you're made him upset somehow and try to make up for that.
Anonymous
June 28th, 2015 6:33pm
Maybe just wait,he may not be ignoring but busy.Then,just confront him on how you feel.There are times where there are misunderstanding
That doesn't sound like a healthy relationship, but keep your distance. When he does stop ignoring you, you definitely need to address that situation
Anonymous
July 1st, 2015 1:56am
Do things to keep your mind off of him! Maybe he just needs a bit of space to himself for awhile, and perhaps you do too! If it really is bothering you, messaging him asking nicely why he is ignoring you is also an option.
Give him space and take a break for yourself. Meet your body's needs and continue about your day. Focusing on being ignored will cause unnecessary worry. When he comes back around again--Have a conversation about why he's behaving that way and how it made you feel to be ignored.
People need space to handle and process their own lives - so putting yourself in their position and understanding is a necessity. Give it time.
Open and honest dialogue is always key to a good relationship. Express how being ignored makes you feel to your boyfriend and have a level conversation about it.
Call or ask him once or twice to explain the situation ...if you don't get a reply, let him come to you. Sometimes this is the easiest way for a guy to initiate a breakup. It's not easy to let go, but if he can ignore you, you deserve better.
It depends on the reason behind his ignoring you. Is it something you did to hurt him? Or is it because he's being mean? Is it a means to punish you? Is it's something that happens often? Is ignoring you his way of communicating his dismay at something? Have you been given a warning before the ignoring happens? Have you asked him directly the reasons behind the ignoring? Lately, have certain of your actions repeated caused tension between your relationship with him? Depending on the reasons behind his actions of ignoring, there are different ways to deal with it!
Generally, ignoring your boyfriend or girlfriend to achieve a goal isn't a very loving or effective way of communication. There are healthier ways to communicate unhappiness, anger, or frustration. If you realize this as a consistent trend, is it possible for you to talk to him about why he uses ignoring you as a way to communicate?
Ultimately, we have the power to express that we don't like being treated a certain way. If being ignored is hurting your feelings and the relationship between you and your boyfriend, it's definitely something worth talking about. The key here is communication.
You shouldn't overreact and start jumping onto conclusions because he's probably busy. But if he leaves you on read then you shouldn't put your mind on it, distract yourself . He has to have a good reason on why he's ignoring you
Anonymous
July 2nd, 2015 7:23pm
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Anonymous
July 2nd, 2015 10:28pm
He probably doesn't ignore you. Solution: talk to him!
1) Tell him how you feel about what happened.
You would be surprised but men can be very good listeners :)
2) After you explain how you feel, listen to what he says.
And by "listen" I mean "LISTEN". Stop convincing yourself: "no, he ignored me, no, he ignored me....".
3) Think TWICE before you say/do something.
Girls have a tendency to exaggeration. We always come up with silly stories (the stories behind a true story).
Example :
A boyfriend postpones to introduce his girlfriend to his parents.
He says: "You'll meet them next time". He thinks: "Next time, so I could organise a proper family meeting. I want eveyone to meet my girl!".
The girl replies:"Ok. No problem." But she really thinks: "I bet he doesn't love me any more".
You should ask him directly why he's been ignoring you, so if there's any misunderstanding it can be cleared up soon :)
He might be busy. Keep in mind that he isn't ignoring you to hurt you and his silence communicates nothing. Unless he is an asshole, then dump him.
Anonymous
July 4th, 2015 12:43am
First of all, talk to him. Ask him why he's doing so. When you make things clear, you will realize next step whether tp move on or try for it to work out.
well if my boyfriend ignores id walk up straight to him and ask for some time that we both can spend together but if this habit of ignoring continues id threaten him that i am going away (sometimes its necessary to make him realize your worth)
Anonymous
July 4th, 2015 4:32pm
The best way to deal with relationship is to confront or face it. It is best to bring this to the boyfriend as itwill help in improving communication and clear misunderstanding.
Anonymous
July 4th, 2015 4:54pm
try and understand why he ignores you and maye try and tell him that you feel ignored adn that he should pay you more attention, usually telling someone what you want and need helps alot cause most times they dont know
Ask yourself why he is ignoring you, but don't spend too much time worrying about it. Please care about yourself first.
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