Does everyone secretly despise LGBTs although many openly claim to accept and love it, including LGBT members and allies? Are there really people who see LGBT as of equal worth as heterosexuals?

There definitely are. While there are some people who hide a lot of homophobia in their supposed support, there are plenty who truly do see you as equal! It's often tough to tell, but if someone is actively supportive of you, many times they are truly trying to support you. Be careful of people who are only faking, but also realize that many, many people truly care about you and love you for who you are.

Absolutely! There are many, many people who love and accept LGBTs; myself included. My opinion is that whatever makes you happy, whatever you want in life, as long as it's not hurting anyone including yourself you should always go for it!

There are some people who are like that, but not all. Everyone has different opinions and so it's hard to give a direct yes or no answer to that. No matter what you do, or what good you try to achieve, there will be people who disagree and hate it. That is just a sad part of life which you need to raise your chin and rise above.

Yes there are many people who do because we are all humans, we were created not to be superior over one another but because we are all equals, no one is above another

Yes, there are many people who believe in equality regardless of gender or sexuality - not least those who identify as LGBT themselves. However, unfortunately we live in a world where there are still many inequalities and prejudice against LGBT people, a lot of which is historical (older generation who were taught it was wrong and immoral - and sometimes illegal to be gay) and also religious (certain belief systems which are against homosexuality). A lot depends on upbringing and which culture or society you belong to - not everyone is as free to express their sexuality or gender as others. However, I believe we are making progress in the right direction and along with other marginalized groups the LGBT community are making strides in their demands for equality. As identifying as LGBT myself I believe we need to continue to have #pride in our LGBT identities but also to empower allies to actively be part of supporting that as without that we risk contributing to the "them and us" culture which allows inequality to continue.

yes there are! a lot of people just pretend but there are definitely loads of people who love and accept us queer folk for who we are, no exceptions or caveats

There are tons of people who fully support the LGBT community and just so happen to be straight. And yes, there are people who see everyone having equal worth. Some people may secretly hate LGBTs, but they are just having a hard time accepting others.

It's hard to know what people truly think about things. But it is easier, I think, to look at their actions. Sure they claim to accept and love it, but do they act supportive? And in that sense I think the answer is yes, there are people who genuinely act in a way that supports LGBT people— regardless of what they might secretly "believe".

There are some who'll say they accept LGBTQA+ but secretly hate them or see them as inferior. But there is an overwhelming amount of persons who fully support the LGBTQA+ community. Well, you ask, how can one tell if they're sincere? My response? They put their lives at risk. Why would someone put their life at risk to defend something they don't even believe in? There are good people in this world. Don't let the negativity erase the positive. Australia has made same sex marriage legal. California is making fantastic moves to put an end to conversion therapy. They've already made it illegal for minors. Transgender and those who are gender variant are being recognized. Bathroom access is moving forward in great strides. There is still a long way to go till we reach full equality. But don't lose sight of the hardworking LGBTQA+ community advocates. And the allies that defend us. ~Ellianna

Yes, there are people who consider everyone as equals. Sometimes they are just very difficult to find. Sadly what people say and what people believe is two different things. Don't give up hope. If you are struggling and would like additional support feel free to access our MOGII/LGBT chatrooms and there are many useful places to talk about this with others online.

Of course there are, like there are people who are not racist or do mlt discriminate because of religion. In our society it seems that some people are forced to look accepting even if they truly aren't, but there are also many people who really don't mind about sexuality and I believe they are even increasing in number.

No, there are many of us within the community that love ourselves and embrace who we are! We also have many straight allies that know that LGBT rights are human rights. Pride Month is a great time to find events in your area to attend and find support for LGBT people.

Many people accept LGBTs just the way they are and support them, but there will always be people who don’t agree with this. It doesn’t mean everyone is againts it. LGBTs are loved❤️

Although I do feel there are some people out there that do claim to be allies to the LGBTQ+ community out of a sense of being obliged to be politically correct, there really can be people who fully support and see members of the LGBTQ+ as equals. I have been lucky enough to meet people such as the latter.

It sounds like you're worried you or a person close to you will always be deemed less valuable by society as a whole for identifying with the LGBT community. While I can not answer for everyone, rest assured there are indeed people who see LGBT as equal. Every person contributes to the world's diversity and vibrance in a way no one else can. You may think of it like creating art. Imagine the world were your canvas, and the choices you make in life are your art supplies. Some paint with watercolors, other people prefer crayons. While you have your personal tastes that feel right for you, another person could take an entirely different approach to theirs. Of course not every piece of art connects with every human being. Sometimes art is misunderstood. Sometimes it's provoking. So how do you put value to it? If a particular person admires Leonardo da Vinci, yet turns up their nose at Vincent van Gogh, you probably wouldn't say van Gogh failed as a painter. If you're the only Frida Kahlo fan in an exhibition dedicated to Leonora Carrington, there's a real chance you feel out of place - but it still doesn't mean only one of these two women can rightfully be called an artist. Are pictures carved in beach sand worth less just because they will be washed out with the tide? Is a toddler's first sharpie scribble titled 'My Family' worth less to the proud parent just because mom or dad know to draw more realistic humans? Is a white crayon truly useless just because the majority chooses to doodle on white paper? Same goes with human beings. Many feel attracted to people of the opposite gender. Some feel attracted to the same gender, or more than one, or even none at all. Each preference is equally valid. But that doesn't mean your worries are not. Unfortunately people who despise LGBT do exist. They struggle to understand why someone deviates from the "right" way, because they assume what feels right for them has to be the same for everyone else too. Maybe they grew up in an environment where "That's soo gay!" was used interchangably with "I don't like that". Maybe they were told their religion only allows heterosexuality. Then they developed heterosexual desires and never questioned what they were taught. Or they involuntarily found someone of the same sex attractive, and then their fear they might turn into one of "those" people makes them cling to the heterosexual norm even tighter. Sometimes such people are going to change their mind about LGBT people eventually when they start to see the human behind what they perceive as a disorder. Others never will. The world is a complicated place after all. But it would be a lot duller if there only was one single correct way to enjoy life.

This is a loaded question that probably requires some unpacking. The simple answer, which many people have already gracefully given, is that there are absolutely people who are completely comfortable and happy living within or alongside the LGBT+ community! The reasons you might be concerned that no one is REALLY okay with any non-hetero orientation—if this is something you're concerned about, and you wouldn't be alone—are a few: One, there is a small but very loud minority that is currently making things very difficult for LGBT+ people in our world. That kind of vitriol is hard to ignore. Two, there is a general blanket of heteronormativity that we're still trying to shake, where in any places straight is the default and everything else is "other," which can be very isolating. And third, as a result of both of these things, a lot of LGBT+ people (and even generally open-minded straight people) experience internalized homophobia—an internal fear, whether it's conscious or subconscious, that being gay IS bad or says something bad about a person. That someone who identifies as LGBT+ has somehow strayed from the default. This is especially hard for LGBT+ people who may have grown up in a more conservative community, or realized their orientation later in life. Those circumstances can complicate their feelings and relationship to their personal identity and leave some issues to work through. So it is true that the road is not smooth for everyone, and that discomfort and fear are unavoidable for many, but I can tell you, with absolute surety, that there ARE people who harbor no malice towards the LGBT+ community—not even secretly. I'm lucky to know many people who are comfortable in themselves and their communities who inspire me regularly, and who give me hope that one day no one will have to worry about this question.

I think LGBT+ people are of equal worth as heterosexuals, because they are also people, and all people are of equal worth.

Yes,I myself do even though I am part of the lgbtq community and I think everyone should think of us as equal worth as straight people

Everybody can have different opinions on things. Or different ways to approach topics. Not everyone is the same with how they feel about love. Some people believe in equality and others may not. It all depends on how one was raised or experienced.

Including myself, I know many people who are open to being friends with LGBT members! No one secretly despises them, and if they do, they need to learn how to treat people equally.

I Don't think you can despite lgbt if you are not homophobic. There is no reason to hate them, they are people like everyone else. I don't understand why anyone would hate them.

No, they don’t. Some people are homophobic even if they’re not blatantly obvious about it, but there are also people who think that people are not defined by who they love, and that consenting adults in a happy relationship and in love is a beautiful thing, regardless of the gender or sexuality of the people involved. People are worth much more than their relationship to others.

Everyone is equal to each other. People are still people, no matter their past, race, gender, or sexuality. Your personality and your actions is what defines you as a person, not who you love. If you're gay, then you're gay and that's okay. If you're straight, then you're straight and that's okay too. As long as you do your best to avoid putting someone else down or in pain, then you're still equal to everyone else on this planet.

Yes, LGBTQ+ is just part of one's personality. Heterosexuals are no different than LGBTQs. I see them as equal.

Nope, I openly support it even though I'm straight. I see them as equals and some of them are the nicest bunch of people I'll ever meet. I love them and I want to protect them as much as I can.

Yes. There are. It is true that homophobia/ transphobia or hatred towards the community exists but fortunately enough, there are real people who genuinely accept and see these relationships in the same light as any other relationship. We have come a long way and have much longer way to go, but the progress we have made is extraordinary. LGBTQ relationships are just as valid as any other.

its a question of perception, for example i try really hard to accept homosexuality and for that i have to understand their way of life and love.. i, along with most others grew up in a way where love had a standard defination. so yea to be frank i find it hard to understand.. hard as in am not against LGBT but its more like the difference between the words sympathy and empathy. i can say i understand what you are going through, i can try hard to make you feel better but its difficult for me to view the world in your shoes. That hopefully doesnt make us bad men.

Although sometimes it doesn't seem like it, many people in and out of the LGBTQ+ community can put themselves in other's shoes and show empathy towards the path life put them in. Someone maybe won't understand when they've never gone through that specific situation, but sometimes some clarification helps them have some empathy. Acceptance to the LGBTQ+ community is very real.

Yes, there are indeed some heterosexuals out there who see homosexuals just as they see everyone else. Some who say they support the lifestyle aren't true supporters. Some think they understand far more than they actually do. Everyone does not hate LGBT's. Although, I completely understand why you'd think that.

Yes, there are people who see LGBT as of equal worth as heterosexual. There are people that truly understand and treat the LGBT with the same respect as a regular person. I'm sorry you haven't come across them, but they exist.