What can I talk about with my boyfriend on the phone?
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You can always begin speaking about your day. Every day is different. But, if you find yourself discussing the same topics, you can mention worldly events, things you are interested in or possibly talk about plans to see each other. Conversation will flow once a subject of interest is brought to light.
Talk about your future together :) I know I know this may sound cheesy but if you are really in love with your boyfriend then why wouldn't you want to talk about spending the rest of your life with him
I usually talk about school, project, hobbies, life in overall. And I talked about my dreams, my future, anything.
Anonymous
November 25th, 2015 12:37am
You can always talk about something your both interested in doing, or what you both like to do. Maybe you can plan a date night.
Things that you feel like. It doesn't have to be an obligation. He's there to hear you talk about absolutely anything. And it works both ways.
Anonymous
November 25th, 2015 3:23pm
My significant other and I like to share things about our days and just relax. It is totally acceptable to be silent with your boyfriend on the phone. But you could also plan a upcoming date night or trip, as a suggestion.
Your interests in a wide range of things such as music, or your plans for the future. You could always talk about whatever is bothering you or just vent to them and vise versa. It's okay to have nothing to talk about, it doesn't mean anything is wrong with your relationship.
Anonymous
November 27th, 2015 9:06am
talk about your interest,say about you and listen about his interest. So, you start understanding each other more :)
That depends on where you are talking on the phone right? Who is around? A boyfriend should be a person that you are close enough to be able to speak to him about anything that in in your heart. But maybe some conversations are best have when being face to face.
You can swap stories about your respective days, and talk about your shared hobbies and interests. Also, telling each other about how you're feeling that day is a good conversation starter.
Anonymous
November 29th, 2015 2:41pm
If you have any problem with your boyfriend that you never talked about atleast once . I think you should talk about that with your boyfriend .. *well if you don't have any problems w/ him you can talk to him about cheesy or mushy things
Well, you can talk about your boyfriend about how your day went, something funny,bad,good that happened today, you guys can plan a date, joke around and get to know more about eachother. Ask good questions like how was school, how was your soccer game, and throughout this phonecall maybe you can learn something from him and have a better bond. Discuss how your feelings and connect with him for example if he talks about something cool like there was a dog who could do insane tricks, you can connect back saying for example you saw something like that too or something that happened to you in the past.
Talk about your day and ask about their day. Be interested in what they have to say. Discuss problems and try and solve them.
Anonymous
December 4th, 2015 2:35am
Anything you feel comfortable to talk about, depending on where you are and who can hear you, of course...
Anonymous
December 4th, 2015 5:06pm
talk about how your day went if you never saw each other all day, what you are excited about or ask him how his day went and what he has planed for the weekend .
Anonymous
December 6th, 2015 11:56pm
Personal interest or anything that has happened. A joke that you found funny, things you ate, what you felt today. Or possible any future plans.
Talk about your interests, ask him his interets. Talk about your daily life. Talk about each other.. Your relationship. :)
literally anything and everything, hopefully if you're in a relationship you don't need to plan conversations or think of topics because they will just flow but if not then thats okay too. But personally i tend to enjoy them a lot more if its just like talking to like your best friend, because thats what they should be, your best friend :)
About everything, how you're day went, your feelings, what you think, problems. He'll be there for you.
Anything at all! Books, movies, music, how your day went, why you were feeling sad last night - the important thing is to have spontaneous conversation. The topic ceases to matter after a while. :-)
You can talk about many things such as: your day, family, friends, goals in life, what you see yourself doing In the future, what some of your favorite things to do.
how did his day go?, how was school or work?, or ask him how he feels about the latest song or movie
something that interests you! Music, film, sports, science... Be yourself! Be as weird and as wonderful as you want to be! Ask questions that interest you and listen with as much intent as you speak!
Anonymous
August 15th, 2016 12:13am
Everything that comes into your mind of course, a couple should feel free to talk about every subject in the world without fear.
About how much you love one another and how much you need each other and even problems you may be having.
Bunch of stuff! About his day, your day, his future plans, your future plans, and so on! Be creative :)
Anonymous
October 3rd, 2016 11:01am
Being romantic is what you both want when being in a relationship. In the meantime you also may talk about other things such as your future, favorite pastimes, the good moments you have spent together and many more.
Do you have common interests? Maybe you can talk about your day, and ask him about his day. Maybe something funny, interests, inside jokes
Everything! Your future goals for yourself and you two, together. Talk about how your day has been and the same for him. If you are having any struggles with yourself or with him you could talk about solutions. You should feel comfortable talking about anything with him.
Anything at all! Your day, his day, tv shows, movies, music, books, current events, shared interests, stories from your childhood, dreams for the future, secrets and wishes, etc. Anything that you're comfortable sharing :)
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