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Join Our Team: We're Looking for Forum Supporters!
by Mya000
Last post
 3 days ago
...See more Hello everyone! We’re thrilled to announce that our Women's Issues Community Forum is on the lookout for Forum Supporters to join our team. If you’re passionate about women’s issues and eager to make a positive impact, this could be the perfect role for you! 🔍 What We’re Looking For: * Preferably Female: While we value all contributions, having female supporters helps ensure our discussions reflect direct lived experiences and viewpoints. * Knowledgeable About Women’s Issues: A strong understanding of discrimination and related topics is crucial to effectively contribute and support our community. Official Requirements for the Role: * Forum Supporter Responsibilities: * Focus on 1 or 2 sub-communities. * Maintain engagement by posting and replying to threads with empathy. * Uphold a record of zero behaviour points. * Active participation in the community prior to application is required. * For Members: * 50+ forum upvotes. * 50+ forum posts. * Make 10+ forum posts per month. * Have taken the Member Oath. * For Listeners: * Verified Listener status. * 50+ forum upvotes. * 50+ forum posts. * Make 10+ forum posts per month. * Have taken the Listener Community Guide & Listener Oath. 🌟 Why This Role Matters: * Informed Discussions: Your contributions will help guide insightful and supportive conversations about women’s issues. * Supportive Space: By fostering a compassionate environment, you’ll help ensure that every member feels heard and supported. If you’re ready to make a positive impact and meet the requirements, click the link below to apply! 👉 Click here to apply! [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSefNgW-Va7dyBx67M3d27INmkndnwm1C3Ywa7NJoFa2EscQkA/closedform] Thank you for your dedication and commitment to our cause. We look forward to working with you to make our community a better place for everyone!
Women's Issues Community Taglist! Stay Updated
by SoulfullyAButterfly
Last post
 Monday
...See more The Women's Issues Community Tag List is a way to stay connected with new discussions, resources, and posts shared by our forum supporters. By joining the tag list, you’ll receive notifications when important updates are posted (up to 4 times a week). These updates can include everything from wellness tips and discussions to helpful resources that align with the community’s focus on women’s issues. If you'd like to be added or removed from the tag list, simply leave a comment below. Being part of the tag list helps you stay engaged and ensures you don’t miss out on opportunities to connect and share your thoughts! ------------------------- Current taglist - updated by Mya on 17th October @adventurousBranch3786 @ashleybell415 @ASPIRINGCOUNSELOR @Aylathegreat @azuladragon34 @blxepxndx @calmmoon2104 @Callmetanya5 @creativeTalker5179 @DaisyBeeBlooming @daydreammemories @decisivePapaya238 @Eddy94 @emotionalkitty101 @fluffypickles123 @GentleLily3 @gentleWater9634 @GoldenRuleJG @halcyonCloud2036 @HarmonyBlossom @iloveyouxx @Jaeteuk @janiewanie423 @K87 @Kala @KarmaTheRascal @KaylaMaulfair @KindnessMatters2020 @lalabrowni @listenwithempathy @LittleSunshine2036 @littleLemon4973 @LovingPeacefulHeart @MoreThanJustMe @Mya000 @Noorahmed89 @OptimisticMoon1124 @PFord79 @pioneeringShade8010 @purpleTree4652 @RainbowRosie @RobinNew @shyMoon8539 @sincereSkies9563 @SirenOfSerenity @sky2Ocean20 @Smilintru67 @softSummer7903 @SomeHope2022 @SoulfullyAButterfly @tealPark1424 @TheCucumberry @trueconfidant123 @victoriousLily5344 @woMango9097 @zaramerch
Understanding Misogynoir: The Unique Challenges Black Women Face at the Intersection of Racism and Sexism
by Mya000
Last post
 November 6th
...See more Misogynoir, a term coined by Black feminist Moya Bailey, captures the specific, often-overlooked discrimination faced by Black women due to the intersection of both racism and sexism. This dual oppression creates a distinct experience for Black women, setting it apart from that of other women of color and Black men. Misogynoir reflects how negative attitudes and actions toward Black women are deeply influenced by both their race and gender, compounding into unique forms of discrimination. ------------------------- The Impact of Misogynoir in Society Media Representation The media often portrays Black women in hypersexualized or stereotypical roles, fueling harmful narratives that dehumanize and misrepresent Black womanhood. A recent study looked back over 400 years, showing how media depictions of Black women have been exploited to reinforce white supremacy and negative stereotypes. Healthcare Disparities Black women face systemic biases in healthcare, impacting their treatment and health outcomes. They are often not taken seriously when reporting pain, resulting in delayed or inadequate care, which can lead to serious health risks. Workplace Barriers At work, Black women experience unique challenges linked to both racism and sexism. Studies reveal that they are often perceived as less competent, and even when they hold leadership positions, they may face tokenism and excessive scrutiny. Violence and Abuse Misogynoir contributes to higher rates of violence and abuse against Black women, including domestic and sexual violence. These disparities are worsened by systemic racism, which often neglects their experiences and needs. Educational Bias In schools, Black girls frequently experience adultification bias, where they are perceived as older and less innocent than their peers. This bias can lead to disproportionately harsh disciplinary actions that impact their educational journey. ------------------------- Why Recognizing Misogynoir is Important Understanding misogynoir is essential in recognizing the unique barriers Black women face, shedding light on how race and gender intersect to shape their experiences. Recognizing these challenges is crucial to building an inclusive feminism that addresses the specific needs of Black women. By acknowledging misogynoir, we can work towards dismantling systemic barriers, amplifying Black women's voices, and promoting equitable treatment across all sectors. ------------------------- Moving Forward with Awareness and Solidarity Addressing misogynoir requires a conscious effort to challenge and change the systems that perpetuate these inequities. Through increased awareness and fostering solidarity, we can create spaces that respect and elevate Black women's voices and experiences. Understanding misogynoir is an essential part of building a truly inclusive movement for justice—one that champions equality by recognizing and addressing the unique, intersecting barriers Black women face.
Sexual Assault Awareness Month
by Mya000
Last post
 September 17th
...See more Trigger Warning: Sexual Assault ------------------------- As we observe Sexual Assault Awareness Month, it's crucial to shine a light on the pervasive issue of sexual assault and its profound impact on victims. Sexual assault, defined as any unwanted sexual contact or act committed without consent, encompasses a range of violations from groping to rape. It's a form of violence that leaves lasting scars, both physical and emotional. The National Center for Victims of Crime underscores the various forms sexual assault can take, emphasizing that it includes any non-consensual sexual contact. Consent, a fundamental principle, must be freely given by individuals who are capable of providing it. Sexual assault have profound and lasting consequences on the health of its victims, both psychologically and physically. Psychologically, survivors experience a range of mental health issues such as depression, anxiety, post-traumatic stress disorder, and suicidal ideation. They may struggle with feelings of shame, guilt, and worthlessness, impacting their self-esteem and relationships. Physically, sexual assault can result in injuries, sexually transmitted infections, chronic pain, reproductive health issues, and increased risk of substance abuse and chronic diseases. Sexual assault can also carry significant economic consequences for victims. They typically face financial burdens such as medical expenses, therapy fees, and loss of income due to an inability to work. These economic challenges compound the trauma of sexual assault, creating barriers to healing and recovery. Beyond the immediate impact, victims confront a host of social and legal challenges. From facing stigma, blame, and disbelief from friends, family, and the community, victims are often subjected to further trauma and humiliation. Systemic discrimination embedded within legal systems exacerbate the plight of victims, influencing the handling of sexual assault cases, resulting in unequal treatment and a lack of accountability for perpetrators. Negative social responses and institutional barriers prevent victims from receiving justice and support, perpetuating a culture of silence and impunity. ------------------------- ------------------------- As we raise awareness this month, let's stand in solidarity with victims, amplify their voices, and work towards a future where every individual can live free from fear and harm 💛
I Believe You 🖤
by Mya000
Last post
 September 12th
...See more To all those who have experienced sexist and sexual violence:  I see you, and I stand with you in unwavering support.  Your truth is crucial and deserves to be heard. I am here for you, by your side, always. We are sisters. Your feelings are valid, and it’s okay to feel however you do. There’s no right or wrong way to respond to what you’ve been through. If you ever need someone to talk to, a listening ear, or simply a safe space to share your feelings, my DMs are always open. Please don’t hesitate to reach out whenever you need support. I’m here for you.
Is it my Fault?
by GoldenRuleJG
Last post
 July 29th
...See more Hi all,  Hope you are doing well. TRIGGER WARNING: Before anyone chooses to read this post, I would like to say that content and discussion is around SA.  I wanted to speak about the rape myths surrounding abuse for women. What society teaches can be that: * The lady asked for it, look at what she is wearing - sexual availability is not reflected in clothing choices. It's not untrue that the lady can feel confident in what she is wearing.  *The lady was flirting so this is a clear invitation - Just because a lady pays a compliment and has a jokey, bubbly personality doesn't mean anything deeper under the surface.  *She did not say "no" so it's not abuse - Not all individuals will have the same reaction to abuse. Let's chat about the different automatic responses. There is Fight, Flight, Freeze and Fawn. What if the lady has a neurodevelopmental condition? She is very likely conditioned by society and depending on her upbringing to "fit in." She may say yes through her verbal response but her body language says otherwise. This is a fawn response.  A freeze response is about being paralyzed by fear and uncomfortable situations. The body is in a heightened state of shock and the individual feels very much overwhelmed and stuck.  * The lady cannot get assaulted by her husband/partner: There is this notion that a lady has to meet her husband's sexual, physical needs just because she is his wife. A lady may conform because her husband may threaten infidelity or it is within the cultural notions or within her strict religious system.  * The lady went out late: The lady can be called characterless for staying out too late and as someone asking for trouble.  *How can she be abused if she doesn't remember it all accurately? For some people they cannot recall their abuse completely. This is not to be deceptive or manipulative - it is possible to develop amnesia. Sometimes as a way to protect the mind, certain information from the trauma is stored and locked away and maybe this is an indication for therapy such as EMDR.  I can appreciate there are too many stereotypes and myths surrounding abuse against males and open to posts on these two. This post is to chat about the female experience. All experiences will be different whether it be based on culture, gender, sexuality. No, Survivors Of Abuse. It is not your fault!  Taglist: @adventurousBranch3786 @ashleybell415 @ASPIRINGCOUNSELOR @Aylathegreat @azuladragon34 @blxepxndx @calmmoon2104 @CocoaCassie @creativeTalker5179 @DaisyBeeBlooming @decisivePapaya238 @Eddy94 @emotionalkitty101 @fluffypickles123 @GentleLily3 @gentleWater9634 @halcyonCloud2036 @HarmonyBlossom @Jaeteuk @janiewanie423 @K87 @kala @KarmaTheRascal @KindnessMatters2020 @lalabrowni @listenwithempathy @littleLemon4973 @LovingPeacefulHeart @Noorahmed89 @OptimisticMoon1124 @PFord79 @pioneeringShade8010 @RainbowRosie @shyMoon8539 @sincereSkies9563 @SirenOfSerenity @Smilintru67 @softSummer7903 @SomeHope2022 @SoulfullyAButterfly @SunShineAlwaysGrateful @tealPark1424 @trueconfidant123 @woMango9097 @zaramerch 
Have you or someone you know been a victim of gender based violence/abuse?
by AskTara
Last post
 June 8th
...See more As women, we experience a lot of misogyny and sexism in this world. There must be at least one incident in our or our loved ones' lives where we or they have faced gender-based assault/violence/abuse. Have any happenings occurred with you that you are comfortable talking about? How did you cope? What advice will you give to those who have been a victim?
Resources for women who are victims of gender violence in Italy
by Aayla
Last post
 June 3rd
...See more Hi! I'm a volunteer in a help center for victims of gender-based violence in Italy. If you are Italian or you are in Italy for any reason and you are a victim of violence, you can call this free number that is active 24/7, they will provide first support and point you to local resources: Women helpline number: 1522 Also, here is a list of help centers that provide free psychological, legal and material support (click on the region to find the local contacts): https://www.1522.eu/mappatura-1522/ If you have any questions, feel free to ask!
Coping with Trauma and Harassment: Addressing Women's Issues
by Mya000
Last post
 August 8th, 2023
...See more In today's society, women continue to face numerous challenges, including trauma and harassment. This forum post aims to shed light on the current situation, define relevant terms, explore the reasons behind such issues, and discuss their consequences. By fostering understanding and empathy, we can work towards creating a safer and more inclusive world for everyone. Defining Terms: * Trauma: Trauma refers to a deeply distressing or disturbing experience that can have a lasting impact on an individual's emotional, psychological, and physical well-being. Traumatic events can include sexual assault, domestic violence, emotional abuse, and other forms of violence. * Harassment: Harassment involves unwanted and persistent behaviours, comments, or actions that are offensive, intimidating, or threatening. It can manifest in various forms such as sexual harassment, cyberbullying, street harassment, or workplace harassment. Current Situation: Despite progress in gender equality, women still face high rates of trauma and harassment. Shocking statistics indicate that about one in three women globally has endured physical or sexual violence in their lifetime, as reported by the World Health Organization. The Me Too movement, gaining traction in 2017, brought attention to the extensive prevalence of sexual harassment and assault across industries, underscoring the gravity of the issue. Furthermore, the digital realm has become an additional avenue for harassment, with a study by the Pew Research Center revealing that 41% of women in the United States have encountered online harassment, including stalking, sexual harassment, and threats. Behind the Issues: * Gender Inequality: Deep-rooted gender inequality perpetuates and reinforces the occurrence of trauma and harassment. Societal norms and expectations disempower women, leading to their marginalization and vulnerability. * Power Imbalance: The unequal distribution of power between genders fosters an environment where some individuals feel entitled to exert control over others. This power imbalance is often exploited to commit acts of harassment and trauma. * Social Stigma: Stigmatization surrounding issues related to trauma and harassment can discourage victims from speaking out. Fear of judgment, victim-blaming, and the potential for retaliation create barriers that prevent many women from seeking help or justice. Consequences: The consequences of trauma and harassment on women are far-reaching and impactful, affecting various aspects of their lives: * Emotional and Psychological Impact: Women who have experienced trauma and harassment may suffer from anxiety, depression, post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), and other mental health conditions. These experiences can erode self-esteem, self-worth, and overall emotional well-being. * Physical Health Effects: The stress associated with trauma and harassment can manifest in physical symptoms such as headaches, chronic pain, sleep disorders, and other psychosomatic ailments. The long-term physical consequences can have a significant toll on women's overall health. * Social Isolation: Women who have experienced trauma or harassment may withdraw from social interactions due to fear, shame, or a lack of support. This isolation can further exacerbate their emotional distress and limit their opportunities for healing and recovery. * Professional and Educational Impact: Trauma and harassment can impact women's professional and educational pursuits. Women may experience career setbacks, decreased job satisfaction, and educational disruptions, limiting their potential and perpetuating economic disparities. Addressing women's issues surrounding trauma and harassment requires a collective effort from society. By fostering empathy, promoting gender equality, and providing support systems, we can create an environment where women feel safe, valued, and empowered. It is essential to raise awareness, challenge harmful norms, and advocate for policy changes to ensure a future where women can thrive free from the burden of trauma and harassment. Together, we can contribute to a more equitable and inclusive world for all.
Sexual Predator Abuse: I would like some support and would like to hear if anyone else has a shared experience.
by passionateEast518
Last post
 July 3rd, 2023
...See more I am searching for others who have been sought out by sexual predators and hoping to hear their stories and how they dealt with it all. I recently spoke with someone and told them my story. I was told that this young man is a sexual predator and made me his victim. It’s a really long story, so I won’t share it on this thread. I would just like to have anyone who is willing to message me and share any like experiences and advice. If you want to hear my story, I will share it with you also. I’m really struggling with letting him go, because he made me become obsessed with him. I was told that that was also what his goal was. I still see him every week, and it makes it very hard. I saw him a few days ago. He talked to me and acted like nothing was wrong. He has been ignoring me for weeks after he got me to send him pictures and talk sexual with him. Please help me. Thank you so much.
Harassed by a older person who I thought meant no harm
by Borbiexoxo
Last post
 April 13th, 2023
...See more My dad passed away in 2020 before he passed he raised cattle and would let them graze in this person’s land. Before my dad passed he and this man came to an agreement that a beef cow would be split between the two parties as a form of payment. When my dad passed I was put in charge of reaching out to this person as he still had not sold his land and asked if it was ok to still keep our cows there. Now it is 2023 and there are new owners to the land and I had texted this person that his cow was ready and after I told him.He told me that he would pay for the whole beef cow. Then He asked me if he could ask me something and I thought I was going to get asked about what the new owners of the land are doing to it. But I was asked personal questions about my personal life and was being called pet names. I continued to get messages and I ignored them. I felt gross, dirty, there’s a scary feeling in my stomach. I cried. It’s been a day and I can’t stop thinking about how uncomfortable I felt. It just keeps replaying in my mind and that gross feeling won’t leave. I HAVE MY HALF OF MY BEEF AND I DID NOT LET HIM PAY IT, I PAID MY HALF,SO HE WOULD NOT THINK I OWED HIM SOMETHING. It’s been a day and I still have this gross feeling. I feel scared. That person is blocked. I hate when it is mentioned that he is good person he is loser.

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Resources

Below are some essential resources related to women’s health, safety, and well-being:

International List of Sexual & Domestic Violence Agencies

Find a comprehensive list of agencies worldwide that provide support for sexual and domestic violence:

Guide Exclusively for Listeners on Sexual Abuse

For in-depth support and information on sexual abuse, explore this specialized guide:

Mental Health Resources

USA Crisis Helplines

Health and Wellness

  • Planned Parenthood: Offers a range of health services and resources for reproductive and sexual health.
  • Women’s Health.gov: Provides information on women’s health topics, including fitness, nutrition, and wellness.

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