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Women's Issues Community Taglist! Stay Updated
by SoulfullyAButterfly
Last post
 December 16th
...See more The Women's Issues Community Tag List is a way to stay connected with new discussions, resources, and posts shared by our forum supporters. By joining the tag list, you’ll receive notifications when important updates are posted (up to 4 times a week). These updates can include everything from wellness tips and discussions to helpful resources that align with the community’s focus on women’s issues. If you'd like to be added or removed from the tag list, simply leave a comment below. Being part of the tag list helps you stay engaged and ensures you don’t miss out on opportunities to connect and share your thoughts! ------------------------- Current taglist - updated by Mya on 17th October @adventurousBranch3786 @ashleybell415 @ASPIRINGCOUNSELOR @Aylathegreat @azuladragon34 @blxepxndx @calmmoon2104 @Callmetanya5 @creativeTalker5179 @DaisyBeeBlooming @daydreammemories @decisivePapaya238 @Eddy94 @emotionalkitty101 @fluffypickles123 @GentleLily3 @gentleWater9634 @GoldenRuleJG @halcyonCloud2036 @HarmonyBlossom @iloveyouxx @Jaeteuk @janiewanie423 @K87 @Kala @KarmaTheRascal @KaylaMaulfair @KindnessMatters2020 @lalabrowni @listenwithempathy @LittleSunshine2036 @littleLemon4973 @LovingPeacefulHeart @MoreThanJustMe @Mya000 @Noorahmed89 @OptimisticMoon1124 @PFord79 @pioneeringShade8010 @purpleTree4652 @RainbowRosie @RobinNew @shyMoon8539 @sincereSkies9563 @SirenOfSerenity @sky2Ocean20 @Smilintru67 @softSummer7903 @SomeHope2022 @SoulfullyAButterfly @tealPark1424 @TheCucumberry @trueconfidant123 @victoriousLily5344 @woMango9097 @zaramerch
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Join Our Team: We're Looking for Forum Supporters!
by Mya000
Last post
 November 18th
...See more Hello everyone! We’re thrilled to announce that our Women's Issues Community Forum is on the lookout for Forum Supporters to join our team. If you’re passionate about women’s issues and eager to make a positive impact, this could be the perfect role for you! 🔍 What We’re Looking For: * Preferably Female: While we value all contributions, having female supporters helps ensure our discussions reflect direct lived experiences and viewpoints. * Knowledgeable About Women’s Issues: A strong understanding of discrimination and related topics is crucial to effectively contribute and support our community. Official Requirements for the Role: * Forum Supporter Responsibilities: * Focus on 1 or 2 sub-communities. * Maintain engagement by posting and replying to threads with empathy. * Uphold a record of zero behaviour points. * Active participation in the community prior to application is required. * For Members: * 50+ forum upvotes. * 50+ forum posts. * Make 10+ forum posts per month. * Have taken the Member Oath. * For Listeners: * Verified Listener status. * 50+ forum upvotes. * 50+ forum posts. * Make 10+ forum posts per month. * Have taken the Listener Community Guide & Listener Oath. 🌟 Why This Role Matters: * Informed Discussions: Your contributions will help guide insightful and supportive conversations about women’s issues. * Supportive Space: By fostering a compassionate environment, you’ll help ensure that every member feels heard and supported. If you’re ready to make a positive impact and meet the requirements, click the link below to apply! 👉 Click here to apply! [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSefNgW-Va7dyBx67M3d27INmkndnwm1C3Ywa7NJoFa2EscQkA/closedform] Thank you for your dedication and commitment to our cause. We look forward to working with you to make our community a better place for everyone!
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My brother is a misogynist and is violent. Im scared need advice now!
by unassumingOcean3070
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 1 hour ago
...See more Hello everyone, this is a throwaway account. As the title says, my brother is violent and misogynistic, and I don’t know what to do anymore. I need advice urgently. For some context, I’m 22F and live in the Netherlands, which I feel is one of the most feminist and equal countries in the world. Obviously, it’s not perfect, but we’re on the right track toward equality, and I think we just need more time. However, my 19M younger brother doesn’t seem to see things the same way. Our family is originally from Afghanistan, but my brother and I were born here in the Netherlands. Despite being raised here, he’s developed these extremely misogynistic views, and it’s honestly terrifying to deal with. When my brother was eight, our dad (who was very abusive) got deported. While he was awful to most of us, he was surprisingly kind to my brother. Toward the end of his time here, my dad did start changing for the better, but he was still physically abusive to everyone else. When my dad left, my brother took it really hard. He became lost, and he didn’t have a father figure anymore. Since then, it’s mostly been us—me, my mom, and my sisters—raising him. He has five older sisters (we’re all feminists), and we’ve always tried to guide him to be a kind, non-toxic man who supports equality. Our older brother (who’s 10 years older than my younger brother) wasn’t around much because he left for university, so it was mostly up to us women. But even from the start, he rejected everything we tried to teach him. When he was nine, he watched an MMA fight with a Russian Muslim fighter named Zabit. Immediately after the fight, he asked my mom to take him to the library, where he borrowed a ton of books on martial arts and MMA. I begged my mom not to let him read them because I felt like martial arts was just another way for men to exert power over others, but my mom let him. He read all the books within a week. His Obsession With Martial Arts After that, he begged my mom to let him join a nearby wrestling school that also taught sanda (a mix of judo and kickboxing). My sisters and I all protested, but my brother wouldn’t stop crying about it and kept insisting it would be a good outlet for him. My mom finally gave in, even though we were against it. The gym was run by a Russian Muslim coach who quickly became a father figure to my brother. The coach and his family are really religious, but they’re also extremely kind and have always treated my brother well. In fact, the coach even stepped in to attend my brother’s parent-teacher conferences because my mom (who doesn’t speak Dutch) couldn’t, and none of us had time. My brother also became best friends with the coach’s twin sons, who are his age. The three of them are inseparable and train together constantly. But as he spent more time with them, my brother’s views started to change—and not in a good way. By the time he was 16, he started calling himself a “stoic” and claimed he didn’t express negative emotions. He also became really vocal about being Muslim, even though the rest of us don’t practice anymore. One time, we passed by a feminist protest, and a woman asked him if he supported the cause. He flat-out said, “No, I’m a Muslim,” and kept walking. When I asked him about it later, he said, “I don’t force my views on anyone. Women can do whatever they want as long as it doesn’t hurt others. But I’m free to make my own choices too, and I choose to follow my faith.” He also has this weird stance on abortion—he says he’s against it because of his beliefs but wouldn’t try to change the law because he doesn’t want to control women. I find this so hypocritical because my mom was told to abort him due to health risks, and she refused. He constantly praises her for that decision, but it’s not an excuse to be against abortion rights for others. He doesn't force his views on other tho. He's quite and very intimidating guy. He's like 6.5 230 built like a lion. And we can never get through to this man. The Breaking Point. Recently, my friend joined my brother’s gym. He works there as an instructor along with the twins, and they’re all nationally ranked fighters. But during one class, my brother refused to wrestle a girl, saying it “goes against his beliefs” to touch or even look at unrelated women in that way. His coach supported him, which makes it worse. I don’t know what to do anymore. He’s so resistant to anything I or my sisters say, and because of his size and demeanor (he’s 6’5”, 230 pounds, and incredibly strong), it’s impossible to argue with him without feeling intimidated. My other brother has tried talking to him too, but he doesn’t think my younger brother’s views are that bad. He also has pretty privilege. He gets a way with a lot because he has this innocent smile sometimes. I’m scared of where this is heading, and I don’t know how to get through to him. Any advice would mean a lot. He doesn't hurt anyone or threatening to. But his views are not good right?
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Oddish Happiness
by InsightfulPhoenix
Last post
 2 days ago
...See more Tw: growth, reflection, healing and personal journey  🌕Oddish Happiness🌕 The way you lit the sparkles within my eyes reminding me of the time That as a child I would dance along the glitters of moonlight between the blinds  You built the heart of a warrior within my chest and no music could match this energetic mind  These thoughts reeling through the subconcious of a inner child and rebellious teen  Story books fill the air of bittersweet romantic gestures of a sight seer was ever so keen  Now from the corner of my eyes, I can see the silhoutte of who I was dancing with snow man underneath the winterish night Little did I know that person would build me into a person that once danced with jack frost.  Now I dance with person who gave inner child a happy little toss, inner teen their smile that they lost.  ✨by InsightfulPhoenix
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"The Great Gatsby" by F. Scott Fitzgerald"
by Newton420
Last post
 2 days ago
...See more “I hope she'll be a fool — that's the best thing a girl can be in this world, a beautiful little fool.”
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Merry Christmas!
by Mya000
Last post
 Thursday
...See more To all the amazing members of our Women’s Issues Community, we’re wishing you a Christmas filled with love, peace, and moments of joy. Whether you’re celebrating with family, friends, or enjoying a quiet day for yourself, remember that you are deserving of kindness and care—today and always.  
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sick of women’s stereotypes
by discreetMelon6632
Last post
 Wednesday
...See more I know most people aren’t fond of stereotypes but I feel like we have it the worst. All the time we’re expected to do SO much more than everyone, especially as mothers. We take care of the cooking, cleaning, childcare, shopping, etc, on top of working but that’s “just our job or what it means to be a mom.” I’m honestly sick of people defending men for not helping or saying they deserve time off when we never get a break! How is that fair? And don’t get me wrong, I LOVE my children and being a mom. But it would be nice to have some time to myself and to get a break every once and awhile and be appreciated.
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"Breaking Barriers: A Girl's Rap Dream"
by Newton420
Last post
 Wednesday
...See more I am just a young Pakistani girl with dreams that might seem too big for people around me. But to me, these dreams are my whole world. I’m 16 years old now, but I started rapping when I was just 10. At first, my parents were supportive, and there was no problem. But as I grew older, things changed. The people close to me, even my family, began to laugh at me. They didn’t understand. In our society, it's rare for girls to dream so big. We’re told to limit our ambitions, to stay within boundaries, to follow paths that are "acceptable." But I refuse to let go of my dream. Every single day, I work on myself—pushing harder, improving my skills, and building my confidence. It’s not easy. There are days when I feel like giving up, but I remind myself that my dreams are worth the fight. I want to show the world, especially our society, that girls can dream big. That we have the strength and courage to not only dream but to make those dreams come true. One day, I want to stand tall as a professional rapper, not just for me, but for every girl who has ever been told that her dreams are too big or that she should settle for less. I want to prove that girls like me, with the right passion and determination, can do anything. Please pray for me, that one day I will be able to show the world that nothing, not even society’s judgments, can stop a girl from achieving her dreams.
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How Do You Plan to Take Care of Yourself This Holiday Season? ✨
by Mya000
Last post
 Tuesday
...See more The holiday season can be a time of celebration, connection, and joy—but it can also be overwhelming, especially with all the expectations and busyness that come with it. Taking time to care for yourself is just as important as everything else on your to-do list!   So, we want to hear from you:   What’s one way you plan to take care of yourself and find joy this holiday season? Maybe it’s a quiet moment with a good book, a walk in nature, journaling your thoughts, or setting boundaries that honor your well-being. Whatever it is, your self-care matters!   Let’s share our ideas and inspire one another to make this season as joyful and nourishing as possible. 💛
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Hi everyone
by Marylandgirl40
Last post
 Tuesday
...See more I have learned so much and I'm thankful for everyone I'm glad to be a listener and hoping more to come as well I love you all.
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Women’s Circle: Winter Holidays — Saturday 21 at 12 PM EST 💫
by Mya000
Last post
 December 19th
...See more Join us this Saturday 21 at 12 PM EST for our weekly Women’s Circle! This week’s topic is winter holidays — let’s talk about the joys, challenges, and everything in between.   Whether you want to share, listen, or simply enjoy a supportive space, we’d love to have you join us. Let’s navigate this season together!   💬 See you in the Adult Support Session Room!
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Women's Issues Community Taglist! Stay Updated
by SoulfullyAButterfly
Last post
 December 16th
...See more The Women's Issues Community Tag List is a way to stay connected with new discussions, resources, and posts shared by our forum supporters. By joining the tag list, you’ll receive notifications when important updates are posted (up to 4 times a week). These updates can include everything from wellness tips and discussions to helpful resources that align with the community’s focus on women’s issues. If you'd like to be added or removed from the tag list, simply leave a comment below. Being part of the tag list helps you stay engaged and ensures you don’t miss out on opportunities to connect and share your thoughts! ------------------------- Current taglist - updated by Mya on 17th October @adventurousBranch3786 @ashleybell415 @ASPIRINGCOUNSELOR @Aylathegreat @azuladragon34 @blxepxndx @calmmoon2104 @Callmetanya5 @creativeTalker5179 @DaisyBeeBlooming @daydreammemories @decisivePapaya238 @Eddy94 @emotionalkitty101 @fluffypickles123 @GentleLily3 @gentleWater9634 @GoldenRuleJG @halcyonCloud2036 @HarmonyBlossom @iloveyouxx @Jaeteuk @janiewanie423 @K87 @Kala @KarmaTheRascal @KaylaMaulfair @KindnessMatters2020 @lalabrowni @listenwithempathy @LittleSunshine2036 @littleLemon4973 @LovingPeacefulHeart @MoreThanJustMe @Mya000 @Noorahmed89 @OptimisticMoon1124 @PFord79 @pioneeringShade8010 @purpleTree4652 @RainbowRosie @RobinNew @shyMoon8539 @sincereSkies9563 @SirenOfSerenity @sky2Ocean20 @Smilintru67 @softSummer7903 @SomeHope2022 @SoulfullyAButterfly @tealPark1424 @TheCucumberry @trueconfidant123 @victoriousLily5344 @woMango9097 @zaramerch
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Perimenopause
by allnaturalSky4753
Last post
 December 15th
...See more Is there any information on perimenopause that someone can share with me? Is this diagnosis given by a gynecologist? What are some symptoms that other women are going through?
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Monthly flower and the trouble she brings to me
by ImAware
Last post
 December 14th
...See more So from the start of my first period at 12 my crams have been moderately high on the pain spectrum and nothing seemed to subside the pain and all out was just causing more damage for me if I were to want to have kids. now 21 though never been in any form of relationships it's basically all I live for to have one day a husband and kids but lately this year with my panic attacks these crams have become unbearable I have right now taken a pill to just stop the period for today so I can stop crying thank God I still live with my mum so I'm not by my self with it but a friend of hers has just mentioned that I may need to get a camera check for I might have some type of bacteria that is causing my destress and with that I'm gona feel depressed knowing that if this is what it is and it is as bad as it seems I my not be able to have kids and I cry I'm crying knowing that my whole life I have looked forward to the day I may carry my own little me or a little love of my life I know for a fact I will adopt if this is the case but to be a woman for me is this verey thing that might be taken from me in a day I know I'll be strong I just really need to talk about it I'm young I know there is still high chances but my body is so weak to this stuff compared to my mentality I'm strong I know but I am human I'm a weak being and I embrace that but new things keep happening and I'm slowly losing my mind I now ill pull through but will I ever experience they joy of creating live?

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International List of Sexual & Domestic Violence Agencies

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Guide Exclusively for Listeners on Sexual Abuse

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