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sunnySouth5235 February 17th, 2019

Hi. How are you all? Here is what defines me: I am a 15-year-old agnostic girl, and am sort of tired of life. Suicide is not for me because I am a loser, but I guess that is the only place where being a loser actually benefits me, haha. Speaking of losers, it reminds me of this guy who said he was a loser so I was there for and helped him out, but then he ghosted me -- funny, because that is what always happens to me. I am basically on this website to try and get past this. sad

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February 18th, 2019

@sunnySouth5235

Dear Sunny,

Being there for a person and helping him out of such a feeling itself proves you are not a loser.

Happy to welcome you here, and wishing you well in this exercise of trying to get better and get past all this.

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sunnySouth5235 OP February 20th, 2019

@Viserrose

Thank you for the warm gesture.

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imaginativeClementine5491 February 18th, 2019

@sunnySouth5235

Hi sunny,

There are lots of people here to talk to and a good chance you will meet someone that you really connect with. Ghosting people sucks

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sunnySouth5235 OP February 20th, 2019

@imaginativeClementine5491

Thank you, but I have not had much luck so far. They tried their best, but they were all seemingly new to the issue -- I am grateful for their (the listeners') time.

I hope that boy gets a taste of his own medicine.

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ruffneckred February 18th, 2019

hello fellow loser, I don't really know what ghosting is but hope we can be friends

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sunnySouth5235 OP February 20th, 2019

@ruffneckred

Hello, nice to meet you. I am sure you are no loser, but if you feel this way, I hope it gets better. Ghosting is when you are friends or romantically involved with someone, but then the other person cuts all ties with you and does not even give an explanation. The person will also ignore all your attempts to reconnect. It really hurts, because ghosts never text you to cut off a relationship -- they just stop replying out of the blue.

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jennysunrise8 February 20th, 2019

@sunnySouth5235 are you sure that this person is online do you see him doing things or talking to other people online ? if not maybe he is not able to contact you but either way its not a reflection on you or that it means that something is wrong with you but welcome to 7cups and you can message me anytime im a listener here :)

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ruffneckred February 20th, 2019

Oh, I see what ghosting is now, and I am afraid I have sort of done that to my listener, or perhaps her to me. I just feel guilty using her time so try not to say much anymore. It is an odd relationship. I think I will reach out today so I am not a ghoster.

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sunnySouth5235 OP February 24th, 2019

@ruffneckred

Thank you for going ahead and making amends to those you have wronged. I am glad I was able to help you see this.

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ivorySailboat8043 February 26th, 2019

@sunnySouth5235 Hi Sunny, I'm an 18 year old witch. Being ghosted sucks,but don't feel bad. People and things that bring negativity in your life will always leave; be patient the positive will find a way back into your life.

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sunnySouth5235 OP February 26th, 2019

@ivorySailboat8043

Thank you. I hope I either get over him, or that he comes back and apologizes.

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