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a tight hug to my tweeny
@amiablePeace77
@Saifelhak74
takes the tight hug, puts a big smile on her face and feels good. Then puts some of her tight hugs in a bag and sends them over to her supertwinny.
a special hugs for
@Laura
Life can be hard, everyone needs and deserves a HUG xx
@lazyKatz - can I borrow some "UpVotes" from someone? Your post needs double UpVote or triple - at least! !!! ~ Platy
@cyanPlatypus6370
I can give you one if thats any help x
I NEED A HUG
Here take a hug🤗 does it mean anything if i just throw it lime that? Laura you became good proffessionals but firgot how to be good humans again...
Dears, I would be glad if just someone could give me a hug and a "everything gets better".
Dear Lau,
First order of business, ((Platy opens arms, offers Lau a big hug)). Okay now that the most important is over ... come here dear one, (pats the couch seat beside me) come sit, let's talk 
It sounds like things are (or at least feel) pretty rotten right now. I can relate. AND I relate too that 'Everything changes.' Even sometimes if I am in a really good season of my life, and all of a sudden, way unexpectedly, something fully crummy happens 
On the other hand ... I've read the book, I've read through the end ... and in the end, GOOD news! So while you are here in this 'ukk' sort of spot right now, remember dear ... Everything changes at some point. If you are wishing for snow, or saying gee will it ever stop raining! ... wait 5 minutes something will be different. (This is a very common saying where I live. Our weather can be very extreme and also very sudden. I've even heard our local meteorologist say this! 
Yes, *live* and on the air!)
((Platy offers to Lau another 'just right' type of hug)) It's Monday now ... I hope that you'll have a great week, right? Here's hoping!
High five, Platy
@laueverythinggetsbetterforsure
My father died 3/11/19 and today was his first birthday since he died. It is also my brothers birthday but he lives 1,300 miles away. I really wish I had someone to hold me today. I woke up crying and the grief has hit me several times today. It is a very sad day for me, I miss you Dad...💔
@bgdave
Losing a parent is something you never come to terms with, I wish I could tell you something more comforting. You learn to carry the lose around with you and remember the good times. One day you'll be able to remember without feeling as though
your heart is breaking. I speak from experience, I lost my mother and after several years I cope, I think that is the word you learn to cope. You always carry them with you,always want to remember.You do learn to cope though. I'll be thinking of you today as you struggle through this hard time.
@lazyKatz
Thank you for your kind response. I know how hard it is to loose your Mom, I lost mine in 2002 to ALS. It ripped my heart out. I have struggled with the grieving for 16 years now. She was such a loving amazing person and I didnt realize completely what I had until she was gone suddenly one day. She died of a Pulmonary Embolism with in a hour of the event and the trip to the ER I had to say goodbye MomI love you and kiss the forehead of her dead body. I know that trauma with be with me for the rest of my life. We were very close and when I needed to talk she was always there to give me the voice of experience and she was my cheerleader. She always made my Birthday and Christmas special. I have not been really able to enjoy either since she passed Dec 9th of 2002. The giant hole in my heart that was created when she had to leave will never be ok. I just have to learn to live with it and when I get blindsided by grief I cry and let it out and do something to change my emotions. It will always be there and when I lost my Grandmother next that was terrible. Now her son...my father is gone too so it really is the finality of it all that is the most overwhelming. I cant even really talk to his wife about the loss because she will always say can we please change the subject. I have had to start seeing a therapist to process the grieving and have someone to talk to that comprehends my emotions and lets me say what I need to say because I am all alone here now where I moved to be closer to my father in Utah of all states. I am not Mormon but his wife is and she got him to convert. I just need to get through June which is the month of his Birthday and Fathers Day. I will continue to reach out to my therapist and my brother who is 1,300 miles away in Texas where I plan to try and start over again. We just need to learn to live with the loss and not allow ourselves to obsess about it. We all work through grief in our own way and their is no set timeline.
@bgdave
Your reply brought tears to my eyes and echoed many of my own feelings. I truly wish you so much heart felt compassion.
At the moment a family member is dying and watching them change from the healthy fun loving person they once were breaks my heart all over again.They are old and have lived a full live, the only thing I'm grateful for is that I can be here and help them regain some of the respect they deserve at the end of their journey. Take great care .
Hug Please. Having hard time trying to be rested and relaxed with the crazy pace of too much responsibilities.
@Lolowise475 .... ((HUG for wise)) ((another HUG))
yeah I think I get the other part there too, part perhaps of why I am up and on 7cups at 2:13am. and then be disappointed with myself for just that (staying up too late) in the morning or at some point tomorrow (sad me) I could use some hugs too. ~ Platy
@Lolowise475
Great big HUG to you..........Can you return one to me.
Nah, allergic with hugs.
Nah, just me being like paranoid with personal self. But, gladly recieve it. It is nice. Thanks for the hugs. ❤️
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