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I feel molancholy at times! *hugs anyone who wants to hug me back*
@Kikinana *BIG hugs for you!* :)
Lots on my mind. I just need a hug
I need a hug because I can't get over my past..I love my husband n things are so different than what I'm use to
Parents are stressful, and school is stressful and friends are stressful.
and hugs help a lot
Nothing is really bothering a the moment but I just woke up and I want a nice hug
I need a hug. I am being strong for an old close friend of mine right now because it's her birthday, which is very hard for me because I have a history of being strong for people and then realizing they are abusing me, and it's very important to me to not let myself be treated abusively any more. She is going through a rough time and treating me in ways I don't like. I am going through a rough time too and she knows it. I don't see why she is treating me meanly and taking her struggle out on me and I am struggling with what to do. She is not acknowledging how she is treating me - and I haven't told her because I know she's going through a lot already. So it's this weird unspoken elephant in the room, at least to me. I don't like the way it feels. It is not my job as a friend to be her emotional garbage can. I don't like that she can treat me that way and not even care that it hurts me and call herself my friend, or think that I deserve to be treated that way or that it doesn't matter. I want to be there for her but she said she didn't want to talk about it. It hurts after all I've been there for her in the past. I understand she may need her space. I wish she would not treat me meanly though, it's unnecessary. I don't want people in my life who call themselves friends but are mean. I don't want people in my life who make me feel guilty for the fact that I've been going through a rough time for so long and that I've chronically gone through rough times. I need support, not people who make me feel badly about myself. But I type that and then I feel worried that I'm a drain on the world and that I do deserve to be put in my place. She has a history of being judgmental and critical. I'm feeling sad and angry and conflicted.
@singercrystalspirit you both are going through hard times and sometimes when people are hurt they like others to feel there pain and sometimes it's unintentional. Friendship is about openess and trust arrange a time to meet and be honest with your friend. Holding these feelings in won't make you feel any better she will appreciate the honesty
I just had a very heated argument with my boyfriend and I'm trying to stay level-headed. I feel like I need a hug to calm me down.
@Tai16Mar
I just deactivated from most of my social media. I guess I just snapped because most of my friends always come to me when they have problems and now I'm struggling to just even make myself happy. And I don't even know the reason why I'm sad. I just want to stay in bed all day. I need a hug
I could do with a hug today. Had a really heavy session with my therapist today so have spent a lot of my day crying and emotionally drained.
@Chloe2 Well, guess what? You've got one!
*BEAR HUG!*
@Turquoisedreamer thank you so much, you really don't know how much this means to me right now! Hugs to you too!