Lonely in the chat rooms..
I really feel invisible and alone in the chat rooms, even when the chat rooms have many members. They don't care about me, they continue talking themselves and just ignore.. And about the mods, it's like they don't exist.. I don't remember any name so don't ask me which mod. The chat rooms are always going on its pace, and when I enter it's just some hi or hello or even not, if I say something it's like they don't receive it and just ignore, no one is talking to me or even acknowledge me that I am here in the chat, I just wanted to vent this out, don't take it seriously, I am always lonely.. No one there..
@calmmoon2104
Hey hey moon, nice to see you again!
I hear you on your chatroom experience, it's indeed quite upsetting and discouraging when we feel ignored and unwelcomed in a room full of people. I see how it makes you feel even more lonely than already, and hey that's something not to be ignored at all, we all deserve to feel seen, heard, acknowledged, at the very least, you do too. And I really hope you can get the support and compassion you need here. ❤
With chatrooms, I've been there too, they can be quite a hit and miss, sometimes rather chatty, inclusive, welcoming and nice, other times not so much when you'd rather ask if your messages are even delivering to the room or they are just not bothered enough, either is really sad and unfortunate. :/
It's okay to vent and even pass on feedback for the chatroom(s) you've experienced this in, the leaders can certainly look out to help more here, I'm sure you're not alone in feeling alone either. ❤
@ASilentObserver could you support with this please!
As an aside, Moon, I'm not an adult teen listener, so I don't have access to the teen side, but if you'd like to talk or share anything via forums anytime, feel welcome to tag me. ❤ Sending lots of love and comfy beams!
@Sunisshiningandsoareyou
Thank you very much for acknowledging my issue with the chat rooms, I appreciate your concern and jumping out to help. I will certainly tag you via forums if I want to share something! Thank you very much again! It's really nice to feel heard ❤
@calmmoon2104
The very least I could do here. ❤ Happy to and yes please, looking forward to see you around more! ❤
@calmmoon2104 I understand how it feels to be invisible...Even i am quite new to the adult side ( means that i was in the teen side before (for 13-17 yr olds). The pace is really different and there are multiple conversations happening in 1 room.
If it's okay..can we be friends? I would really love to have some company..coz even i am pretty bad at making friends due to social anxiety...
Can i be friends with u guys....social anxiety here
Exactly the same way i feel there......now i just prefer not to say anything cause its not like i'll be acknowledged or noticed
@calmmoon2104 online chat rooms with many people just suck, it is one place where the technology just can’t come close to emulating an actual group of people in a room. In real life, you could, yell, dance on the table, or set the curtains on fire and people would notice. I hate anything but one on one chat!
@calmmoon2104
I agree whole heartedly. It seems newer people who have joined withing this year, have formed groups that they exclude other from. There are some people who will refuse to acknowledge you unless you are considered their "friend". Alot of them don't follow rules, and try to combat it together and start arguements.
I know I'm not the only one who feels this, and I know there are things I could do to help out, such as not engaging in arguements, but its hard. I do however try my best to welcome everyone, however I type so and dont read as I type usally, which means I dont see newer messages without scrolling up, and even then, I miss some.
I completely understand where you are coming from, and I want you to know you are not alone <3 Thank you for your imput moon!! I'd love to be your friend, as well as others friend, if you would like <3
It's the same for me
I feel like I'm not really talking to a person here you go into the chats and take to ppl but I don't think they really understand what your going through.
Same for me, it seems like I'm taking to a bot
Same no one cares
@calmmoon2104 i can feel u
@calmmoon2104 I am sorry you are having this experience and feeling ignored. I also struggle with the chatrooms when there are a lot of people; it gets overwhelming and hard to keep up with. I like sharing circle a lot because each person gets a chance to share.
