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Traumatic Experiences Community Daily Check-in: Sunday, December 15th 2019

AriannaPink December 15th, 2019

Merry December my amazing fellow Trauma Sub-Community participants!!! It is I @AriannaPink (Arianna, Ari, or Aria) back with another check-in for you guys!!! Now as a heads up this particular check-in will not be like my usual ones, and this is because instead of introducing our new traditions that @betterchoices (thank you so much again choices I really hope you like these plans that Im setting into motion starting next year! πŸ’š) kindly brainstormed for us now in the month of December Im going to wait for the first Wednesday in January as kind of like a new thoughts for the new year type thing. Ill go more into detail about all these things in a minute, but first before we begin there is a few things I wanted to mention. First of all I wanted to state that no Sundays are not my new day Ill still generally have responsibility for Wednesdays, its just for this week I was having a hard time health wise so @PeppermintStar0912 was kind enough to switch days with me just for this week! (Btw Peppermint if youre reading this thank you so, so much again for helping me out I really do appreciate it so much!!! πŸ’š). Second of all I wanted to announce that from very late tonight/very early Monday morning I will be going on a self care break until the very beginning of January. Now as I have not prepared any check-ins this time around I dont know whats gonna happen to Wednesdays check-ins in my absence, but if anyone would like to take them over until I return you can go ahead I really dont mind! πŸ’šβ€¦ Lastly third of all if you missed last weeks check-in, and would like to tune in on what story was given, and what we last discussed please feel free to click here! Now that all of this information is out of the way lets move on to the updates for the New Year!!!

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Updates Section:

#1. Over this year the stories/resources I choose will start to drift away from just the domestic abuse topic, and start to include other aspects of trauma to hopefully help everybody feel acknowledged in some way. As I dont have many resources yet this will be a gradual change as in we will start out with the topics sexual assault, and child abuse, and then as I find more resources Ill include those topics as well! Thank you so much in advance for your patience during this time, it means a lot!!! πŸ’šβ€¦

#2. While at this time I will keep my story based questions up as they help me know how you guys are handling each story, I am definitely willing/wanting to add some sort of fun or educational activity for you guys to do at the end of each check-in. Now I dont know what thisll be or look like yet, however I know whatever it ends up being should be pretty cool so keep an eye out for that sometime in the month of January! πŸ˜β€¦

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Questions Section:

#1. How do you like these plans?

#2. Is there anything in these plans that you would change or add?

#3. Do you have any ideas on what our end of check-in activity should be?

#4. Lastly if you celebrate what are your plans for Christmas this year?

Heres a special thanks from me to you for letting me come hang out with you guys on this fine Sunday, day! πŸ˜β€¦

I hope you all have a lovely December, a merry Christmas, and a fantastic end to 2019! Ill be back New Years Day!!!

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aiko123 December 15th, 2019

#1. How do you like these plans?

I like them very much!!

#2. Is there anything in these plans that you would change or add?

I don't have any current ideas. If I think of any, may I come back and share them?

#3. Do you have any ideas on what our end of check-in activity should be?

I don't have any current ideas. If I think of any, may I come back and share them?

#4. Lastly if you celebrate what are your plans for Christmas this year?

I don't really know. heh...

Early Merry Christmas!!!!

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AriannaPink OP December 16th, 2019

@aiko123

Hey Aiko thank you very much for checking in!!!

#1. Awesome I

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PeppermintStar0912 December 15th, 2019

@AriannaPink Hello my friend! Thank you for the wonderful shout out! I feel so loved. So I read that you will be going on a self-care break until January... if you are okay with it, I will cover your check-ins on Wednesdays until you come back! Just let me know. I hope that you feel better soon!

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AriannaPink OP December 16th, 2019

@PeppermintStar0912

Hey Peppermint thank you so much for checking in! You are so welcome I thought it was right to do so!!! πŸ’š...

Yes you are correct I will be leaving sometime tonight (depending on responses), and will be back on official duty January 1st 2020! I may be back for one or two days in the very last week of December but thatll be just to prepare for next year, and maybe host a discussion in my other sub-community so very few people from Trauma at least will probably see me.

Peppermint that is such a sweet offer that I appreciate so much, and from what I saw last week I know youre a reliable person so I would love for you to cover my check-ins, I just have two conditions. First Ive seen the schedule as well so I know you have a lot on your plate already so before you commit to this please thoroughly think it through because I care about you I dont want you burning out. If you end up deciding you cant take this on until Im back I promise Ill understand, and therell be no hard feelings please just do whats best for you! πŸ’š... The second thing is if you do end up deciding you can go ahead with my check-ins as well please as Christmas falls on a Wednesday please do something to make it Christmasy! I know this is kind of corny but I love Christmas, and Im kind of sad I wont be here really to do it myself so please if you can decorate it for me, it would mean a lot to me!

Thank you so much, I promise Ill try!!! πŸ’šπŸ’šπŸ’š...

Sending lots of hugs & good vibes,

- @AriannaPink (Arianna) πŸ’š...

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PeppermintStar0912 December 16th, 2019

@AriannaPink Oh it's no problem my friend! And yes of course for Christmas day I will make it very Christmassy (Not sure if that's a word!) just for you!!! You just focus on getting better and I can't wait to have you back in January! Stay safe and stay beautiful heart

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AriannaPink OP December 16th, 2019

@PeppermintStar0912

Aww thank you so much, youre so sweet! Oh my god you just made my day by saying christmassy! Honestly I love that word/slang but I thought I was the only one who said it, so the fact that you say it too makes me really happy lol! πŸ˜‚... Anyways thank you so much for agreeing to decorate the thread for me I am so excited to see what you come up with! πŸ’š... Thank you Im trying my hardest as I cannot wait for January I mean I miss you guys already, and Im not even 100% gone yet lol! Thank you so much you stay safe & beautiful as well Peppermint, and I hope you have a very Merry Christmas!!! πŸ’šπŸŽ…πŸ»πŸ€ΆπŸ»β˜ƒοΈπŸŽ„β„οΈπŸ’š

Sending lots of hugs & good vibes,

- @AriannaPink (Arianna) πŸ’š...

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PeppermintStar0912 December 16th, 2019

@AriannaPink You are so very welcome! heartheart

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RedHawk6547 December 16th, 2019

@AriannaPink

I like your plan for the coming year. No ideas to share right now. I plan on spending Christmas with my daughter. Hope you have a good self care break and a Merry Christmas.

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AriannaPink OP December 16th, 2019

@RedHawk6547

Hi Red, thank you so much for checking in!!! First of all thank you so much Im really glad you like the plans for 2020! Second of all okay thats perfectly okay just know if you ever think of any youre more than welcome to mention them in any of my check-ins!!! 😁... Third of all that sounds really nice, I hope you & your daughter have an amazing Christmas!!! Fourth of all thank you so much, and Merry Christmas to you as well Red!!! πŸ’šβ˜ƒοΈπŸ’š...

Sending lots of hugs & good vibes,

- @AriannaPink (Arianna) πŸ’š...

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AM2Wondering December 16th, 2019

@AriannaPink

I'm sorry, I'm not going to try/can't read this. The white on red on white hurts my eyes...

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AriannaPink OP December 16th, 2019

@AM2Wondering

Oh my I

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AM2Wondering December 16th, 2019

@AriannaPink

Sure, I'd like to read the unedited version. : )

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AriannaPink OP December 16th, 2019

@AM2Wondering

Unedited Version:

Merry December my amazing fellow Trauma Sub-Community participants!!! It is I @AriannaPink (Arianna, Ari, or Aria) back with another check-in for you guys!!! Now as a heads up this particular check-in will not be like my usual ones, and this is because instead of introducing our new traditions that @betterchoices (thank you so much again choices I really hope you like these plans that Im setting into motion starting next year! πŸ’š) kindly brainstormed for us now in the month of December Im going to wait for the first Wednesday in January as kind of like a new thoughts for the new year type thing. Ill go more into detail about all these things in a minute, but first before we begin there is a few things I wanted to mention. First of all I wanted to state that no Sundays are not my new day Ill still generally have responsibility for Wednesdays, its just for this week I was having a hard time health wise so @PeppermintStar0912 was kind enough to switch days with me just for this week! (Btw Peppermint if youre reading this thank you so, so much again for helping me out I really do appreciate it so much!!! πŸ’š). Second of all I wanted to announce that from very late tonight/very early Monday morning I will be going on a self care break until the very beginning of January. Now as I have not prepared any check-ins this time around I dont know whats gonna happen to Wednesdays check-ins in my absence, but if anyone would like to take them over until I return you can go ahead I really dont mind! πŸ’šβ€¦ Lastly third of all if you missed last weeks check-in, and would like to tune in on what story was given, and what we last discussed please feel free to click here! Now that all of this information is out of the way lets move on to the updates for the New Year!!!

*********************************************************************************************************************************************

Updates Section:

#1. Over this year the stories/resources I choose will start to drift away from just the domestic abuse topic, and start to include other aspects of trauma to hopefully help everybody feel acknowledged in some way. As I dont have many resources yet this will be a gradual change as in we will start out with the topics sexual assault, and child abuse, and then as I find more resources Ill include those topics as well! Thank you so much in advance for your patience during this time, it means a lot!!! πŸ’šβ€¦

#2. While at this time I will keep my story based questions up as they help me know how you guys are handling each story, I am definitely willing/wanting to add some sort of fun or educational activity for you guys to do at the end of each check-in. Now I dont know what thisll be or look like yet, however I know whatever it ends up being should be pretty cool so keep an eye out for that sometime in the month of January! πŸ˜β€¦

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Questions Section:

#1. How do you like these plans?

#2. Is there anything in these plans that you would change or add?

#3. Do you have any ideas on what our end of check-in activity should be?

#4. Lastly if you celebrate what are your plans for Christmas this year?

Heres a special thanks from me to you for letting me come hang out with you guys on this fine Sunday, day! πŸ˜β€¦

I hope you all have a lovely December, a merry Christmas, and a fantastic end to 2019! Ill be back New Years Day!!!

Please click here to be added or removed from the taglist…

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AM2Wondering December 17th, 2019

@AriannaPink

Thank you. The updates sound good to me! : )

One question though, does neglect count enough to look into including a couple stories like that?

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ShiningPanda13 December 17th, 2019

@AM2Wondering if it doesn't now, it should sometime in the future. Both physical and emotional neglect are forms of abuse.

AriannaPink OP December 17th, 2019

@AM2Wondering & @ShiningPanda13

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AriannaPink OP December 17th, 2019

@AM2Wondering

P.S. I am really glad you like the updates for next year, that means a lot to me! πŸ’—...

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betterchoices December 30th, 2019

@AriannaPink

Thanks so much for the kind shout out! You

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