I want a piece of advice.
I already posted my whole story by the name"l'm confused ".
Now we started the conversation again and she was the initiator. We had a chat for 1 hr straight and after that we went to library to read. She is now ignoring me again , I mean idk what just happened to her. I know once the trust is lost it can't be regained that easily. So I'm bearing quite a patience. But I feel like I'm not able to connect w her as earlier. Deep down in my heart I want her to be my bestie again but my consciousness doesn't allow me to take any step further. Becoz sometimes she behaves as if she's fed up of me. I wanna take a break or maintain a space from her. But somewhere I thought that it may affect our bond very badly. So I want an advice . What should I do. Becoz If I stay w her it feels like being hurt when she ignores me.
Hello @carefulPine185,
Could you please share the link to the thread where you posted the whole story? Cause I can't seem to find it. I'd like to read it to know your situation better before I say anything more.
@Litepanda Here is the link: I'm confused
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Charlie
@carefulPine185 Ask her why she is doing this? And if she tells you the reason then try not to do that thing. Well things like trust take a lot of time to build up as she won't believe your words now only your actions will let her trust you again.
