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carefulPine185
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I want a piece of advice.
7 Cups Online Therapy / by carefulPine185
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 June 16th, 2022
...See more I already posted my whole story by the name"l'm confused ". Now we started the conversation again and she was the initiator. We had a chat for 1 hr straight and after that we went to library to read. She is now ignoring me again , I mean idk what just happened to her. I know once the trust is lost it can't be regained that easily. So I'm bearing quite a patience. But I feel like I'm not able to connect w her as earlier. Deep down in my heart I want her to be my bestie again but my consciousness doesn't allow me to take any step further. Becoz sometimes she behaves as if she's fed up of me. I wanna take a break or maintain a space from her. But somewhere I thought that it may affect our bond very badly. So I want an advice . What should I do. Becoz If I stay w her it feels like being hurt when she ignores me.
I'm confused.
7 Cups Online Therapy / by carefulPine185
Last post
 May 20th, 2022
...See more Last month me and bestie got into a little fight that separated us for 4 days approx. We didn't had any conversation during that time. I was emotionally broken due to this. So in my frnd circle I discussed this matter with two of my friends who themselves are in relationship. Acc. to my thoughts and all stuff they started saying ,u should leave her . She's using u. One of them suggested these things. So I opened up to them, trusting them and told all the things related to us. They poured a bucket of hatred on my head and I accepted all that things. Like I started believing them. After few days me and my bestie sorted all that matter and I didn't told her that I spilled the beans . They both manipulated her that I spilled the beans intentionally, like I wanted to ruin friendship. Hell She suddenly stopped talking. Blamed me of being a traitor and compared me with her ex. I accept that I should have told her abt all the things but I had a fear that those things will bring an end to our friendship. Now we are separated since a week . Still expecting her to return ,to understand my feelings. She doesn't even seem to be bothered like what happened between us . Some one pls help me. I can't get over this. I miss her alot.
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