Using Technology to Faciliate Healing Human Connection

@Glen @Heather @Laura @Iara @Amelia

I think the main goal for noni is to fill in spaces that lack human interaction - having her act as this sort of waiting room receptionist gives the users a connection where there otherwise wouldn't be. Perhaps for new listeners or members we can give them the option to view a guided tour by noni that explains the use of the site - a little tutorial on how the feed, forum and chatrooms work. (With of course the option to skip this tutorial or view it later). Also I saw that you were all very interested in giving Noni a human face - but I thought making noni an animated little non-human character would be more appealing - because this means there is no gender, race, appearance, age bias or descrimination or connotations that will make users uncomfortable - it would make it easier for all users to connect to Noni.

@GlenM

I am all for Noni doing more discussions. I wasn't part of one it did, but if it got positive reception, it should be done more. Listeners' time are becoming more and more taken up by hosting discussions, that many don't fully appreciate or get involved in, rather than listening and helping out elsewhere on the site. Noni could host a couple of discussions at one time and will always start at the right time and not miss one. The more intricate/sensitive topics should be led by a human, but simple ones should be done by Noni in my opinion.

As a moderator, I also support Noni helping out. She could instantly stop a message being posted if it contained any swear words that have been manipulated to avoid the censor or any phrase that's not appropriate and mute someone after a several messages had been deleted. I'd be all for her to be around 24/7 as I'm more comfortable when someone else is moderating with me.

Peace be upon you.

People are unable to connect with the group leader. It's kind of like saying, we don't want to let our child drink coffee but they seemed to really enjoy the froth. It seems like an easy solution to fix the shortage of mods.

There's apps like kik, that when people are bored and have no one to talk to, they can talk to a bot instead.
I'm glad that the connection issues have been recognised and it makes sense that lack of connection is a contributer to mental health problems. They way to solve this is to teach family values and to teach people to respect, love, care and communicate with their parents and families.

"Replacing humans would unequivocally harm 7 Cups" Why have a bot lead a discussion, instead of a human, and why put your feet in that paddling pool?
I understand some of you are very excited and geared up to introduce Noni, and to make it work but I think seven cups is being used to further propagate the technological world and I can imagine seven cups will be pitched to invest more finances into better, less simplistic bots.
"Noni was a member of the team. A pretty limited member, but still a member." Noni has replaced a potential human member.

I do understand that seven cups is a charity based company and that without a cash based incentive, that it must be difficult to find willing and committed moderators, but I still don't believe that bots are the way forward. Surely it would make more sense to find a solution to recruiting more moderators first, and to go from there.

"Bots are coming and they are taking jobs" "This trend will accelerate" There are a shortage of jobs and the human population is increasing. It's only going to become more difficult for humans to get jobs. The Eastern world has more to offer the Western world, morals and traditional medicine and knowledge. But how long will it be before the Eastern world have little to no choice, other than to accept the western world's way of thinking? Will we then see a decline in their mental health also?

If you are familiar with the film I-robot... Films like these are usually designed to make sure that the product (in this case bots) are not rejected once they reach the market, as that would cause catastrophical loss to the industry. I think the film portrays the idea that robots are not a threat as the humans win in the end. There's also robots in the world of weapons of mass destruction and I believe it is geared towards removing human responsibility.

It isn't about fear of technology but I have noticed that this generation are resistant to bots, but I don't think that will be the case with the next generation as I think they will be confused and willing to connect to a bot. I also believe that the future is only paving way for further godlessness and decadence and I think there is little hope for the masses and the world as a whole.

You don't have much option to shy away from bots if you want to continue to grow your "technology company". I am mearly a member here of seven cups but if you choose to completely ignore the issues that I have highlighted, everyone responsible for seven cup can never claim they didn't know.

Innovation is great and exciting and all that but I would also recommend putting some of that drive to innovate into improving the training for listeners and/or possibly even screening those who want to become one. This is to ensure that a "trained and compassionate listener" is who every guest or member connects with when they come seeking help. Because right now that's not always the case.

@GlenM

I just wanted to also say that I love this site. I like how I can connect with someone in a 1-1 chat at any time of the day. Or connect with multiple folks also pretty much any time of the day. That it is in multiple countries is even nicer. I can't wait to see what other things can be done with the site.

Although a listener myself I would like to see more training available or even required. Id love to see something where maybe every few months....like every quarter listeners have to retake or redo some training. Just to remind them of what they should be doing, and also how what they do can effect others.

Some other things I was thinking of was how members search for listeners. Although I don't mind talking to folks in other time zones it can make it difficult at times when they need help now but I am at work or sleeping. Maybe we could add a search option for time zone the listner is in?

Another thing I have mentioned in a forum post before was adding the user name to emails. For example I use the same email address for both my listener and my member account. But that means that when I get emails I don't always know which me they are for. Usually I can figure it out but every so often I can't.

I am sure I have other ideas and thoughts but my brain is shutting down for the night so I think thats my que to go to bed.

@GlenM thank you for sharing a wonderful option with Noni leading discussions. That is a great application.

Maybe more discussions could be led by Noni that others do not have time to lead. Noni is programmed to STOP when a member or guest who is waiting for a listener. What if Noni was programmed to move to next question when someone types "Next Noni"

Noni could also be on a timer so after five minutes Noni could say "ready for next question?"

Technology can help us expand beyond what is humanly possible.

Thanks for sharing the process Glen.

Some of those opening statements go far beyond reality, I think. Before 7 Cups you did not have to visit a therapist to get support. Supportive social networks are older than language. Technology didn't enable convenient and easy help. It only provided some additional channels, channels which only some people find convenient and easy.

Whether Uber wants to replace human drivers is unclear, even to Uber. In the end the decision will be crowdsourced to Uber's customers. If customers reject self-driving cars, Uber won't argue with them and go bust. Uber will accept the crowdsourced decision.

I think some of the reasons for Uber customers' collective decision are likely to be based on their perceptions of risk—not just road accidents, but also the bad things that human drivers sometimes do. Even though these things are rare, they can loom large in people's perception.

The car I drive is pretty old, but even so, when I want to go somewhere it speaks directions in English, choosing routes that avoid heavy traffic. If I want to phone home the car understands my voice commands. It knows the number and dials it for me. No one thinks of this as replacing humans, although once I would have needed a human passenger to map-read and to dial.

Yes, people naturally fit in around a simple bot that takes on a human-like role. This has been well known since people started to tell ELIZA their troubles half a century ago. Now, there's a self-driving minibus called Olli that understands spoken English and replies to its passengers in spoken English. I have no doubt that people will sometimes want to tell Olli their troubles just like they sometimes do with human cab drivers, and I have no doubt that Olli can be programmed to be as good a listener as any cab driver.

The time will come, I suspect, when some technology company makes a bot that's as good a listener as the best of our listeners at 7 Cups. Maybe it will be one of Olli's children. Then the people who now come to 7 Cups will be able to make a choice, just like Uber's customers.

I think some of the reasons for their decision will be their perceptions of risk—being invalidated, getting inappropriate advice, being blocked are just the first three that come to mind, based on what I read in these forums. In real life I recently heard about someone who sought support at 7 Cups and who reported becoming suicidal as a result of what one of our listeners said to him. Olli's children won't make these mistakes.

So, like it or not, I think one day the decision on whether bots can provide people with emotional support will be crowdsourced. I don't think we get to make a choice about whether or not that will happen. I think the only choice we get is whether to be the tech company that accepts the crowdsourced decision, or whether to be the tech company that argues and goes bust.

@GlenM