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how long have you been self harm free? (possible trigger warning: SH)

User Profile: 1997Turtle
1997Turtle April 29th, 2015

I've seen this sort of thing on a couple of other sites.

It's to put your accomplishments, relapses or anything you want it to be

you could post every day if you need to or once a month, no accomplishments too small.

and if you relapse, you are strong. and you can do this.

I will try get back to as many people as I can and if you need message me on here.

if this doesn't work oh well, but id like to see it work.

Hope you are liking all the cute cat pictures! [v] here is your next clue, where can you introduce yourself if you're new to the subcommunity this month?

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User Profile: iamnotapenguin
iamnotapenguin May 25th, 2015

6 months..which I broke today :(

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User Profile: Crisprxo
Crisprxo May 25th, 2015

Don't give up!

User Profile: 1997Turtle
1997Turtle OP May 25th, 2015

Relapses happen. You can start again. 6 months is great though, you should be proud of that

User Profile: ZaraSmiles
ZaraSmiles May 26th, 2015

@iamnotapenguin

6 months? Wow, that's beautifully brilliant! That requires a great deal of strength and it's something to be so very proud of. I'm astonished at the determination that must have taken and it's inspirational. Relapse can be a part of recovery, sweetpea. I know it seems that the all the effort you put into those 6 months has come crashing down and there's no point of trying again. But that is definitely not the case. It's a small stumble, but you can get back up on your feet and carry on going. 6 months is so amazing and you should always be proud of that. I know you have the strength to accomplish that again, and go even further! I believe in you, lovely

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User Profile: quietCranberry5700
quietCranberry5700 May 25th, 2015

I have not cut in two days though came close last night

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User Profile: Crisprxo
Crisprxo May 25th, 2015

Goos job! Stay with it

User Profile: 1997Turtle
1997Turtle OP May 25th, 2015

Glad you do it through the urge. Keep it up!

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User Profile: RavenousSoul
RavenousSoul May 25th, 2015

I've been about sixteen hours clean. Not formidable, but it's something.

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User Profile: blckchoker123
blckchoker123 May 25th, 2015

Wowt thats great to hear it. 16 whole hours imagine that you can do so much more keep up the good work there's so many things you could do 😀

User Profile: 1997Turtle
1997Turtle OP May 25th, 2015

Everyone starts there. If you keep it up it'll turn into days and months and yrs though

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User Profile: 1997Turtle
1997Turtle OP May 25th, 2015

Sara's said she'd help with replying to things. I'll still try reply and reply to one's that haven't had replies and sometimes to the same ones. Responding to 10+ got kinda hard. And there's only so many ways that you can say keep it up or proud of you. Coz no matter how many days, months or yrs you are clean you're trying to stop and should be proud of yourselves. Ps. Zara is the colourful one. I can't do thay on the app.

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User Profile: 1997Turtle
1997Turtle OP May 26th, 2015

Zara* not Sara Damn auto correct

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User Profile: notinthislife
notinthislife May 25th, 2015

it's been an hour. After 6 days of barely anything i cut again. I know i want to do it again but i am also scared of what i might do. I feel like an idiot.

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User Profile: 1997Turtle
1997Turtle OP May 25th, 2015

Why did you relapse?

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User Profile: notinthislife
notinthislife May 25th, 2015

i just had a really bad day. i know it does not make a lot of sense and i know it was stupid to give in but somehow i am not good at resisting. I am just stupid, iam a weak person i guess.

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User Profile: 1997Turtle
1997Turtle OP May 25th, 2015

You aren't weak. It is hard. Relapses happen, You can start again.,

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User Profile: notinthislife
notinthislife May 25th, 2015

Thank you. Even though right now, i am not sure i even want to stop again. My head does not seem to make a lot of sense right now but anyway, thanks for thinking i could stop. Maybe someday i'llbe able to stop completely. i don't know. Maybe.

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User Profile: Forgiveness
Forgiveness May 25th, 2015

20 minutes

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User Profile: 1997Turtle
1997Turtle OP May 25th, 2015

That's fine. You can stop still. You're strong.

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User Profile: thesurvivor334
thesurvivor334 May 25th, 2015

As of right now I would say about a year. It has definitely been tough. I'm just trying to rise above it. That can be hard when you see the scars everyday. But I try that is what counts. Right?

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User Profile: 1997Turtle
1997Turtle OP May 25th, 2015

Trying is the best, a yr is amazingvthough.

User Profile: FallenAngel14
FallenAngel14 May 25th, 2015

I am so very proud of you! You've come so far, I am so glad you are still fighting hard. You can overcome anything. You will get through this. I love you so much. Stay strong. You can do this. You are worth it.

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User Profile: considerateOwl205
considerateOwl205 May 25th, 2015

Maybe about 16 days?

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User Profile: 1997Turtle
1997Turtle OP May 26th, 2015

That's great. Keep going.

User Profile: loyalThinker302
loyalThinker302 May 26th, 2015

That's amazing! Keep that up, I'm super proud of you!

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User Profile: Urdeadcat
Urdeadcat May 26th, 2015

Since last summer ☺☺ everyone reading this I promise things do get better x

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User Profile: 1997Turtle
1997Turtle OP May 27th, 2015

thatsgreat, you are doing amazingly, and you are right.

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User Profile: ClumsyCaffinated
ClumsyCaffinated May 26th, 2015

3 weeks now. The longest I went was four years though until I broke it 😐

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User Profile: 1997Turtle
1997Turtle OP May 27th, 2015

4 yrs is amazing, you can get there again. relapses happen. getting back up after is always the good part.

User Profile: Tamaracherry
Tamaracherry May 27th, 2015

That's longer than me that's amazing

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