how long have you been self harm free? (possible trigger warning: SH)
I've seen this sort of thing on a couple of other sites.
It's to put your accomplishments, relapses or anything you want it to be
you could post every day if you need to or once a month, no accomplishments too small.
and if you relapse, you are strong. and you can do this.
I will try get back to as many people as I can and if you need message me on here.
if this doesn't work oh well, but id like to see it work.
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Haven't done it for one year but thinking of doing it again. help please
Please don't go back on that path. It just makes eveything worse. You've come so far. Don't give up now. What's wrong??
We're all here for each other. I know its hard to stay strong and not do it, but you definitely can do it! You ARE strong! You control your emotions, not the other way around & you can keep going !
Please don't. What the people above said was correct. You're strong and shouldn't do it.
@blckchoker123
1 year, wow! ✿ It takes so much strength for one day alone, let alone one whole year! That's something so incredible and an accomplishment you should feel so so proud of! It's perfectly understandable for the urges to come back again, but you have the strength to keep going. I believe in you. But whatever happens, whether relapse or not, 1 year is definitely something so wonderful! 7cups listeners are here for you if you need some support, we will listen and be there for you. We are so so proud of you, you are such a brilliant person❤
39 days clean. It's the longest i've ever gone, so i'm proud of myself.
You should be that is amazing, Keep it up!
Thank you! That made me smile:) I'm trying my best.
@FallenAngel14
39 days? ✿ Wow, wow, wow. I can't begin to imagine how much strength that must take, and how much courage you have in that wonderful heart of yours. I am so proud of you too, I hope it carries on so amazingly!❤
Awwww that made me want to cry. Thank you so much. Reading that made my day.
A day:"( and dissapointed in myself but I'm really struggling my gf keeps finding my razors and going through my stuff i know she cares but when she freaks out it makes me more aggravated and scared. My anxieties and depression seem to over rule me and I also have ptsd that im trying to learn more about so I can start to be able to cope with it. :(
Please talk to her, or someone! I know you are strong, you've made it this far (: you can definitely get through this. I know there's a deep feeling of failure kinda when someone ,in my case my boyfriend, yours vice versa, finds your razors. You know it's bad but...it's hard to get away from. You can do it though. You've come so far already & there's a lot more out there (:
I talk on here and to my therapist and try to explain i even have been trying to keep busy with a self help online college course 1 other way is having a rubber band around my wrist and snap it when I get an urge. I really try and am glad I can reach out to this site.
Just ask her that it helps relax you if they're there. But you'll try.
I've got to be goin on a year & 4 mos but i feels like it was ages ago, i can't even remember exactly
That's great. Keept it up!
@Crisprxo
How awesome is that?? ✿ That is just so so brilliant amd you should definitely be proud of that! Such a feat is not always easy to accomplish, but you did it! You rock!❤
whish i could do that,i hurt myself every day in ways that prevent marks,
but i've made it 13 days without any form of cutting or bruising
23 minutes. I hope I'll be okay soon.
You'll be okay. If it's deep go to the hospital. It is dangerous and you should stop. But relapses happen.
@EmberWolf
Being even one minute clean is such a huge accomplishment ✿ I am so incredibly proud of you. I know that you have so much strength in you, and you will be able to overcome this. Stay wonderful❤
Thank you so much Zara. Sending lots of love to you. <3
@EmberWolf
You're an amazing person, with an even more amazing heart ❤Thank you so much for being part of our community here! Your lots of love has been received and warming myheart currently! Sending even more love, hugs and bunches of support and encouragement to you, you wonderful star✯ Wishing the best for you!
i hope you are ok now.
I was four days... But I relapsed tonight. I feel so guilty now.
What made you relapse? You were doing good
Don't feel guilty. Relapses happen. Start again. Stay strong.
@brokenpieces142
4 days? ✿ Amazing!! Those 4 days is an achievement you should always be proud of because it takes so much strength and patience to be able to make it so far. And I couldn't be prouder of you. As for relapse, it's okay, sweetpea. They can be a step on the path to recovery. That doesn't mean that all the effort you put into those 4 days have disappeared. It just means that you can get back up and keep going. You are so so wonderful, and I know you have the courage within yourself to make it through ❤
Five days
Keep it up!
@Xxconverseshoe
And those 5 days is something so very special ✿ Each second, your strength pushed against those urges and won. You've been so strong, and there's no doubt that you'll carry on doing great things. I wish you the best of luck in recovery ❤
I've been cut free in 2015 so far....
That's great. Stay strong.
@lilaclove33
You are so very wonderful ✿ I can't believe you've stayed strong for so long, it's incredibly amazing! I'm so happy for you and I hopeit carries on this way. That strength of yours is a beautiful brilliant star, shining through your every word ❤
You just made my day....
keep it up, because that is amazing!!!!
Could have done it last night, but I didn't and went to sleep instead.
That's amazing. Stay strong.
@NeuroticOwl
Wow ✿ I can't put into words just how astonishingly awesome that is! To have those urges yet be strong enough to not give in? Amazing. That is something to be so so proud of ❤
About one and a half, maybe two months. Not quite sure. It would probably be a shorter time period than that if my boyfriend didn't have my knife.
It is good he has it, you can't use it then. You're going great atm though.
@Sereneforest0902
That's so amazing ✿ I'm really proud of you for being able to stay clean for so long, you are wonderful! I'm glad you have someone there helping you out and supporting you, that's really important ❤
