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how long have you been self harm free? (possible trigger warning: SH)

User Profile: 1997Turtle
1997Turtle April 29th, 2015

I've seen this sort of thing on a couple of other sites.

It's to put your accomplishments, relapses or anything you want it to be

you could post every day if you need to or once a month, no accomplishments too small.

and if you relapse, you are strong. and you can do this.

I will try get back to as many people as I can and if you need message me on here.

if this doesn't work oh well, but id like to see it work.

Hope you are liking all the cute cat pictures! [v] here is your next clue, where can you introduce yourself if you're new to the subcommunity this month?

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User Profile: silentscreamer
silentscreamer May 2nd, 2015

Its been 1 month, im scared i'll relapse but im proud i made it to this much too

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User Profile: 1997Turtle
1997Turtle OP May 3rd, 2015

im proud of you too.

if you relaspseyou can just start again. youre strong and can make it through this.

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User Profile: silentscreamer
silentscreamer May 2nd, 2015

Its been 1 month, im scared i'll relapse but im proud i made it to this much too

User Profile: PanAnn
PanAnn May 6th, 2015

I've been clean for about five months now,I have my online friends and my wonderful girlfriend to thank for helping me stay cleanheart now I have 7cupsto help as well.

Stay strong everyone, no matter how long you've been clean, whether it's been a day or a year, it's worth it.

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User Profile: 1997Turtle
1997Turtle OP May 8th, 2015

I'm glad you have so many people to help you you abd you are right. It's worth it. Keep it up!

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User Profile: EmpatheticBeast
EmpatheticBeast May 6th, 2015

2 years. Think of it every day.

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User Profile: 1997Turtle
1997Turtle OP May 8th, 2015

Thoughts won't go away. But you're strong enough to fight through them. Be proud of yourself for that. Well done, stay strong!

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User Profile: aBeautifulMind58
aBeautifulMind58 May 7th, 2015

I have been self-harm free for a little over 2 months now

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User Profile: 1997Turtle
1997Turtle OP May 8th, 2015

Be proud of yourself. That's great. Stay strong! Keep it up, you can do it!

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User Profile: crimsonCircle8835
crimsonCircle8835 May 8th, 2015

I havent actually cut for a while but it hard to control other methods of self harm when im angry. I am a monster when im angry.

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User Profile: 1997Turtle
1997Turtle OP May 8th, 2015

There are alternatives for releasing anger. Like. Writing feeling then burning them or scribbling on a piece of paper. Well done on not cutting though

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User Profile: Tristessa
Tristessa May 8th, 2015

I self harmed tonight after a month free. Let myself down...I thought i'd stopped for good :/

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User Profile: 1997Turtle
1997Turtle OP May 8th, 2015

Relapses happen. You can start again though. You can get out of it. Stay strong.

User Profile: Crisprxo
Crisprxo May 25th, 2015

You can do it, little by little

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User Profile: 1997Turtle
1997Turtle OP May 13th, 2015

Id just like to say a huge gratz to everyone thats made a post on here. It can be a really hard thing to do, and im proud of you.

whether youre making 1 day, 1 week, 1 month or 1 yr, youre all strong becasue youre willing to try.

if you ever need help, message me and you will get a response back within a day unless imcamping.

i wish i could say that urges stop and stuff, in reality you just get better at coping with them.

i made 22 months clean, nearly 2 yrs and its not been easy, but you can do it.

STAY STRONG.

User Profile: KonvictedAddiktedSinner
KonvictedAddiktedSinner May 13th, 2015

I had 3 months until tonight 😖. I'm so ashamed of myself

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User Profile: 1997Turtle
1997Turtle OP May 13th, 2015

Relapses happen. You made 3 months. Be proud of that. You can start again. And no you know you can make it to 3 months. Stay strong.

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User Profile: Pearljujy97
Pearljujy97 May 13th, 2015

It's been 2 months without cutting but when I'm angry Or sad Ican't control myself my feelings soI take some strange pills:/and sleep all day..

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User Profile: 1997Turtle
1997Turtle OP May 13th, 2015

Grate on the 2 months without cutting, I think that finding a healthier alternative for managing emotions would be good, you don't know what is in these pills and that's dangerous. Google may have some good alternatives for that. But I'm not sure as I haven't experienced that.

User Profile: 1997Turtle
1997Turtle OP May 13th, 2015

Grate on the 2 months without cutting, I think that finding a healthier alternative for managing emotions would be good, you don't know what is in these pills and that's dangerous. Google may have some good alternatives for that. But I'm not sure as I haven't experienced that.

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