I'm f* alone for life
That's it. I am a 19 years old guy from Brazil and I don't want to keep trying to get in a relationship. Everytime that I F*ING SHOW INTEREST OR COMPLIMENT SOMEONE, THEY NEVER GIVE IT BACK. IT HURTS.
Why can no one at least, AT LEAST compliment me? I've never received that.
And I really think that I am at least a good person. I always try to do my best, and what do I get back from this? Anxiety, loneliness and a part of me telling me to give up. EVERY DAY.
What did I do? Why is so hard to find someone? I've tried so many times already.
While that, I see all types of criminals, drug addicts and more with girlfriends, wifes etc. I simply have no words for this, I just want to end this suffer. I wish I couldn't feel anything.
@exhaustedmind1 awww sweetie I'm so sorry, it's hard to keep putting yourself out there, when your constantly knocked downđ your only 19 so don't give up yet †I understand that all the bad guys seem to get the good girls. But there's so little good guys like you left so don't ever change that †you know you'll find love, never give up on yourself or other people , you deserve love and kindness †I'm sure you'll find your princess soon enough đ †gives you a giant tiny hug â€â€ it always seems hopeless until one day it's not đâ€
@exhaustedmind1 Youâre still very young. You may be going about things in the wrong way. For instance, complements are your gift to someone, not something to be traded. You need to find self esteem that doesnât need compliments. Sure they are nice to get but of really limited value. The gift you get in return is seeing the other person relish the complement you have given them. Enjoying their joy. If you do that, they will not only enjoy the complement, they will see your sincerity and generosity and that will be what really draws them to you. This probably doesnât make sense now but someday it will. Ask yourself where and how you can learn skills of attraction (not âlaws of attractionâ). Â
