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AffyAvo October 31st, 2022

Members must be 13 to use 7 Cups. Sometimes people who are younger than that do show up. The following is copied from a post @Iara made. (some edits have been made)

For future references some good resources you can give kids and teens below the age of 13 are:

Child Helpline International where you can search for helplines by country

KidsHeath- Information about body changes, feelings, staying safe and other things

Kids Help Phone - Text and phone support for Canadians, as well as many web resources for kids and youth..

Kooth- Free Confidential/Anonymous chat which covers parts of the UK.

ChildLine - (for the UK)supports kids with child abuse, bullying, mental illness, parental separation or divorce, pregnancy and substance misuse.

Kids Helpline - (for Australia)Helps with relationship breakdown, bullying. sexual abuse, homelessness, suicidal thoughts, and drug and alcohol usage.

Boys Town - for depressed (or going through overwhelming situations)kids, teens and young adults.

RAINN (for the USA) which is specifically for sexual abuse.

I hope these help!

Age Groups

Members and Listeners who are 18+ MUST be listed as adults.

Teen Members are those who are 13-17

Teen Listeners are 15-17

Adult listeners who have gone through a process to become an Adult-Teen Listener (ATL) are able to chat with any of the above age groups, otherwise teens chat with teens and adults with adults, most of the forums are open to all users.

If anyone finds themselves within the incorrect age group they should sign out of 7 Cups and contact community@7cups.com with their username and birthdate to have that corrected. (Official Policy is noted here)

If other users encounter people in the wrong age group they can share the above information about how to have it corrected and they may also report, especially if the person does not sign out. Screenshots can be emailed to community@7cups.com or reporting options on the site may be used, such as flagging a forum post, calling in a mod to a chatroom or using the block and report option in a 1-1 chat.


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Sunisshiningandsoareyou October 31st, 2022

@AffyAvo

Thanks for this list, certainly quite helpful to share. ❤️

Just a reminder for non-ATL (adult teen) listeners who come across teen members (13-17 years old) on the adult side:

  • If you have a Member below the age of 18 (13-17) and showing on the adult side of the community. They need to email community@7cups.com to inform them they are on the wrong side with 1-2 social media handles proving their age. As an adult listener, you can take chats with members who are aged 18 or above. Below 18, they are teens and need to receive support from the teen listeners and the teen side of the community.

    (as quoted in our chat FAQ document)


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RarelyCharlie October 31st, 2022

@Sunisshiningandsoareyou I don't fully understand this. It seems to me the information you quoted also applies to ATLs. A member who is under 18 cannot use an adult 7 Cups account at all, not even to chat with an ATL.

Charlie

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calmMango9611 November 3rd, 2022

@Sunisshiningandsoareyou Thanks for posting this.

Thanks for all of your help.

Thanks for sharing your time with 7cups.

Your an amazing person, please do not forget that.

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Sunisshiningandsoareyou November 4th, 2022

@calmMango9611 Appreciate the kind words and support, you're pretty amazing yourself for being an encouraging force of kindness and compassion around. <3

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AffyAvo OP November 4th, 2022

@Sunisshiningandsoareyou Thanks, I will mention this in the OP when I can edit.

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AffyAvo OP November 4th, 2022

@Sunisshiningandsoareyou Updated, thanks!

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RarelyCharlie October 31st, 2022

@AffyAvo There's also Child Helpline International where you can search for helplines by country.

The above link for Kids Help Phone didn't work for me, but Kids Help Phone works.

Kooth says, "We need to know your location as Kooth is only available in certain parts of the UK."

Get Connected is for people with a dual diagnosis of addiction and a mental illness. They operate seven treatment centres in England. I didn't see anything specifically for kids on their website.

Relate provides counselling for children in the UK, but it's not obvious that they provide immediate online support.

Charlie

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calmMango9611 November 3rd, 2022

@RarelyCharlie Thanks for posting this for us.

It is very informative.

Thanks for all that you do here at 7cups.

You do an amazing job.

AffyAvo OP November 4th, 2022

@RarelyCharlie Thanks! Updated! I removed the last 2 you mentioned. I did find referencing to kid's counselling on Relate but all of the phrasing was for parents to set it up and in general it seems like there's a cost to chat.

Thanks for checking everything out, when I first posted I did so quickly as I was looking at other things. I trusted the poster for the information and didn't verify it was all current.

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calmMango9611 November 3rd, 2022

@AffyAvo Thank you for posting this.

Thanks for all of your help.

Thanks for all that you do, to make 7cups safe and supportive for all.

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AffyAvo OP November 4th, 2022

@calmMango9611 Thanks so much! ❤️

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mytwistedsoul November 3rd, 2022

Quick question :)

Even as a member I have a habit of checking profiles. If I run across a post in a forum where someone is saying they're a teen but their account is says adult what do I do?

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AffyAvo OP November 3rd, 2022

@mytwistedsoul You can either email community@7cups.com yourself or if you flag it with an explanation someone on the flag team can pass the information on.

I will update the original post when I'm at a computer. I appreciate the updates and other information shared here!

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mytwistedsoul November 3rd, 2022

@AffyAvo Thank you! It's nice having that area to explain when things are flagged. That will probably be the fastest way to contact someone

Thank you too Affy for all you do for everyone here!

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