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TOO INTENSE?

Faithful84 July 27th, 2021

I'm a very loving and caring person but lately I've realized that I'm too intense (I prefer passionate) for a lot of people. I'm very high emmotion.most people just write me of as a mental illness sufferer. I don't have family and not really a lot of friends. People can't handle me I've been told. I'm human and yes I canbe challenging but I still need love and sure. Feeling very unwanted

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Faithful84 OP July 27th, 2021

Support not sure

birnus August 3rd, 2021

Just do whot u want and be who u are. Bcs if someone is ur friend then u can be sure that this person likes and really respects the person you are and dont care about how intense you are. If u wanna find some friends join a clup or do socicial activities somewere. Everywere are v noice people u just gotta find em

Daydreamer47 August 4th, 2021

@Faithful84 Hmm it's hard to really know what you mean without knowing you or having an example. Everyone deserves friends and connections. Being passionate and excited is definitely good, especially if you meet others who are passionate about similar things. If the issue is more getting irritated/angry or triggered easily, then that might be something to process with a professional to have healthier friendships.

kindPudding4019 September 12th, 2021

@Faithful84

I am sorry you are going through this. I am sure it is hard to make other people understand your emotions. Sometimes people can struggle to understand mixed emotions so this can be hard for the to analyse which can lead them to misinterpret the emotion that you are showing to them. Try to speak with people around you, support from your family can help and make sure you explain your emotions clearly so people around you also will understand you easily.

take care.

selfdisciplinedSailboat5478 September 15th, 2021

I can't totally relate.. I too have no friends and am written off as well due to my high response, maybe if you find a friend who you can take advice from I'm available..it's hard when you feel alone .I wake up in a house full of humans and I feel alone like I'm a clear piece of paper floating through..sometime being alone help you validate yourself before moving in a social crowd..self well being is more important than friends who ignore your cry