IS THIS FOR REAL?🤷
Disclaimer: Not a pity party.. so somebody please tell me this is not ok! Long story short I have organ failure. Lived with it for awhile. Things are not good. I'm very ill and not a good prognosis. My marriage is not good either. Husband can't handle dying wife? IDK but he's not here. Hasn't been here and says awful things about my appearance and is Cruel about my loss of some cognitive skills. He's so awful that he's not even allowed home. When he is home he is texting women and coming and going. I'm beyond heartbroken and can't accept this as I'm dying. I was told this is him grieving? By committing adultery and making fun of me?! Tell me this is not a stage of grieve? WTF
@Faithful84 To me, this is definitely NOT okay. I understand we all grieve differently but I don't think that grief would make me say cruel things and out looking to hook up with someone. With being sick it's understandable that you wouldn't look your best and given the circumstances I don't think your appearance should factor in any where. Who told you this is him grieving? Him? I apologize but it sounds as though he's using that as an excuse to justify his behavior. Its very cruel and inconsiderate to you and I'm sorry you have to deal with someone like this. Especially now with everything else you're dealing with.
(sending you strength)
NOT OKAY AT ALL!! sending you positive energy your way. I’m sorry to hear about this and know it must be hard but your husband should be there for you “for sickness and in health”
if it was me I would tell him to leave If he can’t be there for you at your worst.. you will find someone who will.. I know with your situation I couldn’t imagine but literally live to the fullest no one really knows when their time is and I wouldn’t waste your time or your energy on this man.. do the things you love and leave him in the dirt