How do I get rid of this Fetish?
Hi guys I have a cuckold fetish and I hate it. Its not a normal fetish I feel horrible, misreable, inferior when I get off it. I have no idea how go get rid of it and its so strong. I don't like this fetish I am desperate for help
@NicoBellic That is when you like to procreate w/married women, correct? Yes it is odd, but it makes some men feel "macho" I guess. Are you married? I cannot give you any particular advice on how to stop that except .. maybe find a different fetish? This type of thing may be satisfying for you for the moment, but later on it will effect other aspects of your life - especially if you end up having a few kids from several different women, who are married on top of that! Regardless it is for your sexual pleasure, what will you say to those children when they get older? And will you be there for them? I think there are other fetishes that can substitute this one.
@TransAm85 Its a fetish where you enjoy your partner to be fucked by another stronger man with a bigger penis. It ususally goes along with humiliation. I didn't get this fetish voluntarily. I am not married not a gf quite young actually. The fetish developed a year ago when I got insecure about my penis size and a girl where I had a crush on messed up my mind. Everytime I get off I cry. I didn't used to be like this I was normal enjoyed other things but now.. fuck
@NicoBellic O geez! My dear, size matters to an extent only. When you love and care for someone, the feelings of making love come naturally .. no matter how many inches the man has! I mean, nobody is perfect! Everytime I have sex w/my husband - most of the time - it feels like the very first time. Why? B/c I love him and my heart belongs to him. I desire no one else. Now, if I was a premiscious woman, I'd probably get bored easily w/our sex, no pleasure, and look around for other men. Do you know what I mean? You need to stop thinking so negatively about yourself! That is wrong. God gave you whatever physical qualities you've got for a reason. There is a woman out there for you, but you need to stop thinking so horribly about yourself. Confidence is sexier than anything. :)
@TransAm85 Thanks for your response I am slowly accepting my penis size. I am aware its not the most important thing but I don't have many other qualities to compensate for it but anyway I am trying to be confident as I am aware that woman like that but this insecurity was there for a while. You see my size is 3.5 inches which is really small but trying to accept it. Its my fetish that bothers me now. I got addicted to this fetish as a coping mechanism. Someone on this app helped me to understand my fetish better but I am still trying to find ways to kill my fetish.
@NicoBellic
i totally get what you're going through. I got into some weird bondage stuff a long time ago and I don't even know why I like it. I feel disgusting every time. I've just become a Christian again and I'm just so disgusted with what I've done and what I think about and it's like all I think about when I think about sex. I'll be in church thinking about how the pastor would look. I hate myself for this. I know I'm a freak and I hate it. I've tried to just stop masturbating but that's not working for obvious reasons. I just wish I could brainwash myself and forget I ever saw any of it.
@NicoBellic
Ignoring the thoughts or simply stuffing them away to get rid of them rarely, if ever works. What are some more effective things you can try to channel your energy to?