the vibe changed 😔
about 8 months ago my relationship of 10 years ended. it was ugly and it took a lot of work to dig myself out of that hole.
well two weeks ago i stated talking to someone. i was so nervous but excited and the vibe was tremendous. we were talking all the time. but outta nowhere the vibe changed and it doesn’t seem like she’s interested in me at all.
now my mind is racing trying to figure out what i did wrong. and i know that’s not a good way to be so im trying to pull myself out of this. it’s hard tho.
@raymond1203
I'm sorry to hear that your long term relationship recently ended. That's a huge loss to cope with. Things like that can affect us for some time after.
And then the next one didn't work out for you. With no information as to why. I can see why you are left wondering what went wrong. Did you tell the other person that you felt a vibe change? Or maybe ask them if anything was up? After all, they are the only person who can tell you if something changed, and if so, why. But it takes courage to ask those things. And sometimes the other person either isn't inclined to share, or doesn't know themself. So it might not get you anywhere anyway. However it's always good to practice communication skills. And if you look at it as just practice, it doesn't matter so much the outcome.
In fact, maybe that's how you can look at this encounter - as practice for something better that is coming your way?
Nest wishes and happiness.Â
thanks for the help and support i appreciate it a lot. ur exactly right. i’m just treating this like practice. i just need to work on being more comfortable with myself. i’ll take myself outta the race before i even get a chance ya know
my day is still a good day my life is still a good life.
@raymond1203 so Sorry it ended maybe for the best hope things get betterÂ
NO DOUBT lol that s.hit hurt so bad for so long but enough time has passed that i KNOW im better off. she sucked dude lol and i may not be perfect but im cool as s.hit lol i def feel lonely sometimes and def insecure…but things are somehow better than ever. so im just gonna keep pushing my as.s forward 🙂
@raymond1203 it's good you realize she wasn't goodÂ
wish i knew a long time ago. spent a lot of time wasted.
how are you feeling today 🙂
@raymond1203 Good Thanksgiving was good ate not as much but was trying to be mindful of my portionsÂ
that is very hard to do on thanksgiving lol i didn’t even get to try everything i got stuffed so fast lol its literally a collection of the heaviest foods known to man and my sister is like here eat everything lol *** i can’t hahaha
props to u! not an easy accomplishment. well done 🫡