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raymond1203
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very new to this. i’m not fully sure where to start. anxiety has been a problem for me for so long. i’ve tried talking to friends but i just feel like i’m dumping my problems into them and the after effect leaves me feeling embarrassed instead of relieved.


i’m not sure what i’m doing here but i am here and i am trying


💪👑


(update: 11/24) still working on myself. i’ve made progress but still struggle a bit. my little confidence, my insecurities and loneliness are the things effecting me the most.


in 2023 i lost my girl of 10 years, my cat of 12 yrs (closest thing to a friend) got very sick and passed away. 6mths later my dog of 7 years (rescue) also got very sick and passed away.


it’s been very hard trying to bounce back from all of that. i’ve gotten a lot of rly great help here.

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feeling super lonely….
Depression Support / by raymond1203
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 January 10th
...See more march will be a year since my (10yrs) relationship ended and i’m feeling so alone i miss having friends to laugh and have fun with i miss sharing ***’s with people it’s the little simple stuff that i really miss
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a chat for keineahnung123 and ray 🙂
Pen Pals / by raymond1203
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 3 hours ago
...See more hey! how have you been? the holidays were so crazy i am happy they are over now. i am off work today so i am cleaning and rearranging my room. i think the change will be good for me mentally and emotionally. i’ve been feeling pretty good lately. im feeling less lonely. more eager to get out and meet someone new. march will be 1 year since my breakup so its def time to get back out there. how are you feeling today??! we got a little snow. it’s so nice 😊
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the vibe changed 😔
Relationship Stress / by raymond1203
Last post
 November 29th, 2024
...See more about 8 months ago my relationship of 10 years ended. it was ugly and it took a lot of work to dig myself out of that hole. well two weeks ago i stated talking to someone. i was so nervous but excited and the vibe was tremendous. we were talking all the time. but outta nowhere the vibe changed and it doesn’t seem like she’s interested in me at all. now my mind is racing trying to figure out what i did wrong. and i know that’s not a good way to be so im trying to pull myself out of this. it’s hard tho.
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10yrs and it’s over now
Relationship Stress / by raymond1203
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 November 21st, 2024
...See more my ex and i were together for 10 years. we broke up about 8 months ago. my world revolved around her bc i thought it was us forever. so i don’t have any real friends anymore. it’s been a super difficult life changing journey. i started being more friendly with coworkers and it’s been really great. but i rlllly feel alone. i miss having that person.
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feeling especially alone
Depression Support / by raymond1203
Last post
 November 20th, 2024
...See more i just miss having someone to talk to about regular stuff. someone who can laugh with me about anything and everything.
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can we be friends lol???
Friendship Support / by raymond1203
Last post
 December 1st, 2024
...See more 2023 was a hard year for me. i had a couple losses that rocked me to my foundation. i’m finally feeling ready to socialize again…but it’s been a long time and im an awkward person. my ex was my entire world and when that all ended i felt broken and lost. the realization that i lost everything and have to start from scratch again was a lot to deal with. having no friends has been a bummer. i constantly feel alone. i just miss having someone to talk to and laugh with.
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