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Tired of repeating the same thing and having no change.

blueOcean6753 October 1st

Basically, if I try with you and you don't

appreciate my efforts, sooner or later I'm

gonna be like *** it and start to do me,

I won't tell you, I won't let you know, we

won't have a conversation-about it. l'll just

leave you there, hanging. Like you left my

feelings there, hanging.

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KatePersephone October 11th

@blueOcean6753 I hear you, ocean. It sounds like you've been putting a lot of your energy and effort to people, and it's hard when that goes unnoticed or unappreciated. Sometimes it's like you give so much and it isn't met with that same level of care or consideration. Know that the frustration for feeling like your emotions were left hanging is valid, and those feelings should be validated. You are valid in wanting to shift focus back onto yourself-especially after you've given your all, and it wasn't returned.

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blueOcean6753 OP October 11th

Yes thank you this is very true. And very hard to just focus on myself.

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creativeAvocado772 October 12th

Just did this. It feels liberating. No time for transactional and selfish “friends” anymore.