Tired of repeating the same thing and having no change.
Basically, if I try with you and you don't
appreciate my efforts, sooner or later I'm
gonna be like *** it and start to do me,
I won't tell you, I won't let you know, we
won't have a conversation-about it. l'll just
leave you there, hanging. Like you left my
feelings there, hanging.
@blueOcean6753 I hear you, ocean. It sounds like you've been putting a lot of your energy and effort to people, and it's hard when that goes unnoticed or unappreciated. Sometimes it's like you give so much and it isn't met with that same level of care or consideration. Know that the frustration for feeling like your emotions were left hanging is valid, and those feelings should be validated. You are valid in wanting to shift focus back onto yourself-especially after you've given your all, and it wasn't returned.
Yes thank you this is very true. And very hard to just focus on myself.
Just did this. It feels liberating. No time for transactional and selfish “friends” anymore.
@creativeAvocado772 Yes it is a huge weight. I haven't been on here in a while and have made some major changes in a short time but feeling a lot more free these days. :)
