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amicableBlackberry7974 October 22nd

My boyfriend has a best friend, who is a single mom. They've been friends for over two years. I believe she is bisexual. It bothers me that they keep texting each other constantly. My boyfriend is strictly against me talking to another guy.


Last night, her question to him about having hair from his knee up made me so angry. It's unfair that they can talk about anything and I can't even discuss something like football with someone else.


When I confronted him about this, he got very angry and didn't talk to me for a while. I wasn't jealous, but I felt that if he could talk with other female friends, then I should be allowed to have conversations with my male friends as well.

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jacek73 October 22nd

@amicableBlackberry7974 Hello. It is sad to hear how you may feel like.

I am sorry, but it looks like your relationship might be dangerously shifting to something else than just two people...

I believe a relationship should not be a kind of slavery. It is about mutuality and equal rights. I guess your boy should not refuse you the rights he is kindly giving to himself.

I can imagine his friend may need support, but I believe he should try to remain fair to you in the first place. What do you think about that?

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amicableBlackberry7974 OP October 22nd

Yeah that's so true

I agree 👍🏻

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dukeofdearham October 22nd

@amicableBlackberry7974,

who you talk to is none of your boyfriend's business. Ever.

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amicableBlackberry7974 OP October 22nd

That's right 👍🏻

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Brightlook57 October 24th

and if your boyfriend continues to be against you talking to other guys, then you have a decision make to take your freedoms back.

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amicableBlackberry7974 OP October 24th

Yeah that's right

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Skansly October 24th

@amicableBlackberry7974

Well, it's true you can talk to anybody you like and he can also talk to anybody you like. It will not be an issue if you both could just communicate with each other tofind a common ground. Much needs to be discussed but it's enough for now.

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amicableBlackberry7974 OP October 24th

That's right

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torontoraptors2 October 25th

I wish you all the best

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amicableBlackberry7974 OP October 27th

Thank you


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