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amicableBlackberry7974
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Relationship Issue
Relationship Stress / by amicableBlackberry7974
Last post
 October 27th
...See more My boyfriend has a best friend, who is a single mom. They've been friends for over two years. I believe she is bisexual. It bothers me that they keep texting each other constantly. My boyfriend is strictly against me talking to another guy. Last night, her question to him about having hair from his knee up made me so angry. It's unfair that they can talk about anything and I can't even discuss something like football with someone else. When I confronted him about this, he got very angry and didn't talk to me for a while. I wasn't jealous, but I felt that if he could talk with other female friends, then I should be allowed to have conversations with my male friends as well.
Early Pregnancy
Parenting & Pregnancy / by amicableBlackberry7974
Last post
 3 hours ago
...See more Hello, I'm six weeks pregnant, and I've just had my blood test. It showed an indication of thalassemia, which could potentially harm the baby. This trait can come from either me or my partner. We will have another blood test on Monday to confirm. I'm worried 😟
Need Advice
Relationship Stress / by amicableBlackberry7974
Last post
 September 10th
...See more My boyfriend is always on social media, often on ***, and doesn't spend much time with me. He seems to care more about Netflix and social media than spending quality time with me. He works long hours from 4:30 - 6:30, and when he gets home, we usually just have a brief conversation because I'm also working. Then, we have dinner, take a shower, and go to sleep. 😴  am I wrong if I complain about him always on social media?
New Life
Relationship Stress / by amicableBlackberry7974
Last post
 September 9th
...See more I recently moved in with my boyfriend, and I've been feeling like I've lost myself. I have no life; I used to go out frequently, but now I spend most of my days at home. I only have my boyfriend as a friend, and I don't know what to do or where to go in this area. Additionally, I can't drive, and I have no money since I quit my job, which has made it even more challenging to explore my surroundings. I depend on my boyfriend a lot, something I've never done before. This situation has caused me to become more grumpy towards my boyfriend, even though he's done his part to make me happy. I get angry easily and don't want that to continue. I need help.
November 😐
General Support / by amicableBlackberry7974
Last post
 December 1st, 2023
...See more Hey everyone, I just needed to express how challenging this month has been for me. Firstly, I went through a breakup earlier this month, which has been tough. On top of that, my sister is in the hospital and she will undergo surgery tomorrow. Interestingly, she doesn't want our mom to take care of her due to her heart disease. She's afraid that the stress of looking after her might be too much for our mom, who is already tired. Instead, she wants me to be there for her. Adding to the complexity, my students have important exams next week, so I have been putting in extra hours at work to ensure everything is well-prepared. However, work hasn't been easy either. With parents constantly requesting additional lessons, it has become quite challenging to accommodate everyone's needs. Unfortunately, we only have three teachers, which is not sufficient to meet the demand. To make matters worse, one of our teachers who was supposed to work today fell ill and was unable to come. This teacher has been frequently absent due to health issues and seems to always provide a plethora of excuses for tardiness. It's becoming exhausting to deal with. On another note, my sister keeps insisting on getting a nurse to look after her all day long. She's worried about our mom getting angry, but at the same time, she's also concerned about putting too much strain on our mom's health and risking her well-being. Phew, sorry for the lengthy post. I just needed to vent and share my struggles. Hopefully, things will get better soon. Thanks for lending an ear.
I don't know what friendship is anymore
Friendship Support / by amicableBlackberry7974
Last post
 November 10th, 2023
...See more I've always had friends coming to me when they need to borrow money. Even when they haven't talked to me in years. I do have some friends here but if I can't talk to them about my problems cause they'll make me feel bad about myself. I have one friend, I'm always there for her, but every time I'm with her she's always angry at me about something. Some friends look down on me and some jealous of me that they want me to fail. I don't know anymore who to trust so I only talk to stranger online.
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