Relationship Issue
My boyfriend has a best friend, who is a single mom. They've been friends for over two years. I believe she is bisexual. It bothers me that they keep texting each other constantly. My boyfriend is strictly against me talking to another guy.
Last night, her question to him about having hair from his knee up made me so angry. It's unfair that they can talk about anything and I can't even discuss something like football with someone else.
When I confronted him about this, he got very angry and didn't talk to me for a while. I wasn't jealous, but I felt that if he could talk with other female friends, then I should be allowed to have conversations with my male friends as well.
@amicableBlackberry7974 Hello. It is sad to hear how you may feel like.
I am sorry, but it looks like your relationship might be dangerously shifting to something else than just two people...
I believe a relationship should not be a kind of slavery. It is about mutuality and equal rights. I guess your boy should not refuse you the rights he is kindly giving to himself.
I can imagine his friend may need support, but I believe he should try to remain fair to you in the first place. What do you think about that?
Yeah that's so true
I agree 👍🏻
@amicableBlackberry7974,
who you talk to is none of your boyfriend's business. Ever.
That's right 👍🏻
and if your boyfriend continues to be against you talking to other guys, then you have a decision make to take your freedoms back.
Yeah that's right
@amicableBlackberry7974
Well, it's true you can talk to anybody you like and he can also talk to anybody you like. It will not be an issue if you both could just communicate with each other tofind a common ground. Much needs to be discussed but it's enough for now.
That's right
I wish you all the best
Thank you